pocohantas:


Lol. I guess the men narrating these stories have abs and they do not skip leg days.

I guess. It's the same reason they are happy to post AI generated images of women, but are terrified to and dare not post that of AI generated men.

Right now, marriages are crashing left and right and center, because the women get unattractive once married. People who look like lizards in jackets saying so.

one9ner:
We keep seeing love as if it is blind, but it is not. He fell in love with her because of either her beauty or figure and when those things are no longer there... It becomes more of a burden that the couple will have to live with, probably for the rest of his or her life if he can tolerate it.

Another factor to consider is the change in character before and after marriage. Some people tend to reveal their true nature after marriage. Showing you things and sides to their life that you've never seen before or thought were there.

Overfamiliarity (see-finish) is another factor. You sleep and wakeup next to each other, and you see the guy/babe that you would normally get to see by privilege or chance every day, so it becomes normal and boring. This can go a long way to start causing some turbulence in your marriage. If you know you are likely to get bored after a while, I think it is best you get separate bedrooms. It helps to promote privacy in marriage and remove the factor of overfamiliarity.

And finally among many others is sex. If people have had sex with multiple partners before in their life or got married because of good sex, when one of the partners starts failing to meet up to the standards of the other, it could very well lead to a loss of interest in the marriage and definitely cheating... I would advise that if you are trying to get into a serious relationship with someone, something like marriage, it is best to abstain from sex during the relationship so that you build your relationship on a more solid foundation rather than sex. What I am trying to say in a north shell nutshell is that sex shouldn't be the basis of your marriage.

These are a few out of many other factors...

Fixed

BRATISLAVA:


I guess. It's the same reason they are happy to post AI generated images of women, but are terrified to and dare not post that of AI generated men.

Right now, marriages are crashing left and right and center, because the women get unattractive once married. People who look like lizards in jackets saying so.

Hahahahahahahaha! With their pot bellies and tiny waist. You would think it is not them wearing singlets that have holes and big hideous shorts. It just has to be women.

FuckTheMod:
When a useless drunkard faggõt dog like Umbrateeth04 and a USELESS ugly olosho pig like his mother marry eachother, how do expect them to still find themselves attractive?
This is why the useless, their son has remained frustrated, low-life and miserable.

son of an armed robber giving quotation

There's nothing like loosing attraction it is just that either one true color starts to show that there was no real lOve by one of them in the first place. Marriage is not one sided 50/50

element of "see finish"

vacanci:


As soon as she sees the bulging stuff, she humbles and we start marathon. We are still very much attracted to each other in that regard even after 3 kids with the last being 5 plus.

Sometimes on a Saturday morning as early as 7am when they are all awake, we asked them to not come over to play with us in our room until we sent for them. We can just catch a quickie or 2 between room and bathroom. oh by the way, my wife and I share same room every night.

I still cannot find other woman more attractive than her and same goes to her. I have not seen any difference in our sexual experience especially the way she enjoys it and splash all over. If something has changed then i will be concerned that she doesnt find me attractive any more but it gets better and better.

We dont exchange words when we are angry at each other. We could stay up to 4 days not talking to each other but we still communicate using the kids as proxy. We just maintain the coldness towards each other. The day one of us manages to open up a conversation, omo, that person is the one feeling more Hot at that time and i can bet you that night will always be one to remember. That sex after making up is the most passionate

I want to believe you guys are in your thirties.

pocohantas:


Hahahahahahahaha! With their pot bellies and tiny waist. You would think it is not them wearing singlets that have holes and big hideous shorts. It just has to be women.

They're delusional, illogical and amusing all at once.

We need to normalize scrutinizing and dictating what the bodies of men should look like, especially in marriage, and shame them if they fall short. They have no right to grow fat and spread beyond one economy seat on a local flight. There are many male models, but these guys will never look at them as what men should look like.

A fat/ugly/malnourished/vagrant/short/smelly guy insisting that women should look like pohn stars. They never cease to amaze.

Bluezy13:
Adventure ends.


sometimes, When you don't have something, you wish to have it. When you eventually have it, you find out it was not worth the stress. You calm down.
When you are crushing on a girl, you wish to have her by your side. That feeling is thrilling. It is adventurous. When you eventually have her by your side, the feeling of longing is no more there. Adventure ends.

Same is applicable to marriage.

You're apt.

You are an obvious Adventurer.

Women marry solely for look. Men, on the contrary , marry cuz they think it's the fastest way to unending sex. Men aren't attracted to these women they marry in the first place. You'll see a very good looking man with an ugly woman. People should only marry for look,not for commitment, compatibility ot anything,but for look. If a woman marry a good looking man, the marriage will work and it will last

handsomeyitayo:
Hello Nairalanders

I do observe that most married couples don't find their selves attractive unlike when they started their relationship before marriage.

I have experienced three married couples like that.

I remember when this my neighbor brought her wife to be then, this man is very jelous and he always challenge her when he sees her chatting with guys in the compound but some years later, they did wedding and she gave birth to two lovely girls but now all those jealousy of those days, he is not doing that again even if he comes from work he will just over look the person chatting with his wife and he comes back late in the night.. weekend he will be indoor not minding the wife is outside still conversating with neighbors I mean male neighbors,but then who dares go near to interact with her before marriage.

Even the other couples they will be doing as if they don't know each other .. I learnt that he said he doesn't find her attractive no more but what made him marry her? Didn't he see the signs she is not attractive.

Even also it happens to ladies that will later say she is tired of her husband.

The human nature loves variety.

Know this and know peace.

Remove beauty and fake social media fake lifestyle before choosing a partner..

Is a life time something, sometimes people over package what they are not and end up attracting wrong partner.

vacanci:


As soon as she sees the bulging stuff, she humbles and we start marathon. We are still very much attracted to each other in that regard even after 3 kids with the last being 5 plus.

Sometimes on a Saturday morning as early as 7am when they are all awake, we asked them to not come over to play with us in our room until we sent for them. We can just catch a quickie or 2 between room and bathroom. oh by the way, my wife and I share same room every night.

I still cannot find other woman more attractive than her and same goes to her. I have not seen any difference in our sexual experience especially the way she enjoys it and splash all over. If something has changed then i will be concerned that she doesnt find me attractive any more but it gets better and better.

We dont exchange words when we are angry at each other. We could stay up to 4 days not talking to each other but we still communicate using the kids as proxy. We just maintain the coldness towards each other. The day one of us manages to open up a conversation, omo, that person is the one feeling more Hot at that time and i can bet you that night will always be one to remember. That sex after making up is the most passionate

This is Absolutely Intriguing.

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People need to understand That The IDEA OF MARRIAGE is ENDURING AND ENJOYING EACH OTHER No Matter The Conditions for The Sake of Your Own Children.



This is the reason it is very important that one marries a person that you can TOLERATE At Almost ALL TIMES.

BRATISLAVA:


And the men, they only become hotter, right? The disinterest can only come because the wife "lowers their guard", correct?

You listened to saints telling you about their marriages.

But Men are generally good looking than women. I've never seen a woman dating an ugly man, but 95% of women are ugly and they date better men.

Marriage should Only revolve around look. Women should stop looking at any other requirements in a man other than handsome face and good body. It doesn't matter whether the man is a good man, respectful or not. If he's good looking and disrespectful, it's okay.

LarochelE:


But Men are generally good looking than women. I've never seen a woman dating an ugly man, but 95% of women are ugly and they date better men.

Marriage should Only revolve around look. Women should stop looking at any other requirements in a man other than handsome face and good body. It doesn't matter whether the man is a good man, respectful or not. If he's good looking and disrespectful, it's okay.

Men don't look better than women. 98% of men are ugly. There are many women dating very ugly men, because men feel entitled to having beautiful women even when they are nothing to write home about. You will see a fat slob who wants to marry a model, a weak looking man demanding a hot bride. And the women don't judge them because of the their society.

If marriage only revolved around looks, ugly men like Ned and a lot of the commenters here wouldn't be married. So many other ugly, unfit men would be single till death if women judged them the same way men judge the appearance of women.

But men want to judge women only by looks. You can see how they claim all their marriages are failing because of the woman's look. They care nothing about her character or anything else, just her looks, since it's the most important thing to them. It's clear that men are liars, hypocrites and deluded.

Evergreen12345:
most women /girls are very dirty they only look good smell good and dress good when they want to get the attention of men when you keep them in the house you will get tired of them in weeks , I mean how can you tie wrapper in your husband's house in this modern age ? cook you won't cook better food you won't keep house clean and you talk to the man as you want and you want him to stick to you like bread and butter common all men want is peace of mind we can't be hustling to make sure you look good and won't get appreciated some will even end up cheating on the man .

For some men, that wrapper is an invitation for quickie you know.

IntroTech:


The human nature loves variety.

Know this and know peace.

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Abundant Peace Be Unto You For This Soothing Relief.

Most stop making effort in a lot of things. You discover some hidden truths. Horrible hygiene and some weird dirty habits.
A lot of things

omooba969:


I want to believe you guys are in your thirties.

No. My wife will be 43 this year and i am way older than her

vacanci:


No. My wife will be 43 this year

Beautiful 👌

MessiahOfAfrica:
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Abundant Peace Be Unto You For This Soothing Relief.

You're welcome.

I can only give you these three tips from experience, it has and is still working for me like magic.
1. Marry your friend
2. Always remember what attracted you to each other the very first time and don't let it die off completely in your marriage
3. Spice up your marriage from time to time and keep yourselves a little upgraded not stagnant and backwards

omooba969:


Kid

Well, know whom you marry before agreeing to marry the person.
If not, just break it off quickly and go away.
.
Call it kid or whatever. But it is still on this NL website that we have read countless stories of married men bashing their wives.
Complete men with hand and leg and fully developed bodies.

...the ladies start becoming more matured...more men like.....

handsomeyitayo:
can you explain that ? I want to know why ... because am scared of marriage. Nowadays couples are scaring us away from doing marriage. Most men are going through a lots in marriage they won't tell you..

90% of people marry with their eyes...whom they find attractive...

man is a spirit being...you have to marry whom resonates with your spirit not your eyes....the one who resonates with your spirit you will always love her and find her attractive, especially when shes in her worst state..the one people marry with their eyes after the sex...their spirit man starts yearning for more...because they. didnt follow their spirit, and their spirit isnt satisfied, so they seek this fufilment by cheating outisde, and looking for the fuflfilment....


learn to listen to your inner voice and spirit, its the voice of God.
you shouldn't enter an institution God created with your hand, use his hand to enter

pocohantas:


You are trying too hard to sow seed of doubts into the homes of Nairalanders. If your parents are still together, I’ll suggest you channel this energy into tearing them apart.

No, not at all. That's just how life is generally. If you "love" someone, chances are they'll be after someone else who doesn't "love" them, who'd be after someone else (possibly you!), and so on. Sexual attraction wanes for at least one of the partners after years of marriage. Screenshots below say same

naijapikin2:
I can only speak about what I've heard the men say:
Some women just tend to lower their guard after marriage. They now begin to tie wrapper Instead of putting on bum shorts for your man. Just generally leave themselves unkempt. Hair undone, teeth not brushed, hey ladies your men also like to see you do make up.

I'll be back with more...

I agree with you small.
But when a man gets to a certain age and lives an unhealthy lifestyle, even if the wife fine pass mammy water and she still dey maintain herself well, the man's 'tool' may not show interest like before. A lot of men in their 50's and 60's, who used to be super-charged with testosterone while younger, now rely on Viagra before they can have uninterrupted power supply!
When such men wake up in the morning, their tool does not greet them good morning like before.

The senior citizens who are wise exercise regularly, stop smoking, cut down on the intake of alcohol, salt, sugar, carbohydrates, palm oil (yes palm oil!), butter, fried foods, and everything that can increase bad cholesterol in the blood. The bad cholesterol is a wax-like substance that prevents blood from reaching the 'tool', and we know that blood is what is needed to have a strong network.

They eat a lot of vegetables like efo riro, ugwu, garlic, onions, cabbage, carrots, cucumbers etc. They eat unripe plantain, oily fish, beans, chilly pepper(yes chilly pepper), avocado pear. They drink basil tea, ginger tea, zobo without sugar. They take watermelon in moderation. They drink blended dates, tiger nuts and coconut. They boil watermelon and lemon/lime juice (you can refrigerate the drink), taking a sip or two before bed.

They maintain a healthy weight.

Chairman, if any senior citizen is disciplined enough to do these, they will thank me later.

I have spoken from experience.

Abusive words.
Unpaid embarrassing bills,
Dirtiness, and frustrating sex finally
removes sexual apetite so extras must be sought outside.

vacanci:


As soon as she sees the bulging stuff, she humbles and we start marathon. We are still very much attracted to each other in that regard even after 3 kids with the last being 5 plus.

Sometimes on a Saturday morning as early as 7am when they are all awake, we asked them to not come over to play with us in our room until we sent for them. We can just catch a quickie or 2 between room and bathroom. oh by the way, my wife and I share same room every night.

I still cannot find other woman more attractive than her and same goes to her. I have not seen any difference in our sexual experience especially the way she enjoys it and splash all over. If something has changed then i will be concerned that she doesnt find me attractive any more but it gets better and better.

We dont exchange words when we are angry at each other. We could stay up to 4 days not talking to each other but we still communicate using the kids as proxy. We just maintain the coldness towards each other. The day one of us manages to open up a conversation, omo, that person is the one feeling more Hot at that time and i can bet you that night will always be one to remember. That sex after making up is the most passionate

Well, studies and screenshot below say you are a very rare exception indeed, or misreading, or... (no offense) lying

Twoclans:


Haba

Not really. See screenshot above

BRATISLAVA:


Men don't look better than women. 98% of men are ugly. There are many women dating very ugly men, because men feel entitled to having beautiful women even when they are nothing to write home about. You will see a fat slob who wants to marry a model, a weak looking man demanding a hot bride. And the women don't judge them because of the their society.

If marriage only revolved around looks, ugly men like Ned and a lot of the commenters here wouldn't be married. So many other ugly, unfit men would be single till death if women judged them the same way men judge the appearance of women.

But men want to judge women only by looks. You can see how they claim all their marriages are failing because of the woman's look. They care nothing about her character or anything else, just her looks, since it's the most important thing to them. It's clear that men are liars, hypocrites and deluded.

It's women who have delusional standards. He mustmust be tall, six pack , good looking, rich, earning 6 figures and all that. But Men lack standard, just have pussy and men will invest in women. What else does women bring to the table in marriage if not their ass and breast? Do you think women will matter in this world of male dominance and competitiveness if God do not give them vagina? (I leave you to think about this). Men build women. Gave them civilization. Train them in school. Find them jobs and still help them do these jobs all because of pussy. A woman that is nobody can easily get upgraded and far ahead in life by a man all because of her vagina. And you still think men asking women to have only beauty quality is delusional? Even, this beauty we're talking about, Nigerian women fall short of it.

Go around. Look at couples. Look at their wife. Can you genuinely say these women are beautiful? Their men look way better than them even with all the Money men spend to make women comfortable in this world. The day men no longer value vagina and have another substitute is the day you truly get to know how Men make women's life better than it should actually be.

Women are generally ugly than women. Men work to get their beauty, get in shape in gym, but women are believe to be born with beauty. And this beauty is lacking among today's women. When you even look at a woman unclothedness, you get disgusted and question yourself if this is what you've been chasing all this while. It's just the urge that keep men chasing and wanting women

Which bring the question, what do women bring to marriage??

When my crush got married I no longer find her attractive. She now looks like a step mum to me.