confidential

Good for you
Next time, know how to keep your mouth locked. Whatever happened between you two, belonged between the two of you. You wanted to pour sand in her gari, but the sand blew back in your own eyes.
Why should you be invited to their engagement party Mr enemy of progress Mr stalkerish ex? So you can be telling other guests tales about them at their own party PuhLEEEZZZZ!!!
They will have kids and you won't be invited to the naming. DEAL WITH IT!!!

poster

i take my initia comment back due to new development

Your friend is a real man. Its obvious you still had grudges for that you ex babe and never wanted her to be happy, you prolly tot your friend would sle[i]e[/i]p with her and dump her. Just stay off their relationship and get your own babe

Just apologize to him and let him know you really meant well though at the same time you can not stop destiny

nxt time learn how to kp ur mouth shut

confidential

poster i'm wit u, u've done ur part jor, 4get dem n move on wit ur own life, ur frnd na mumu(sorry 4 dat)

@poster
bro, your friend is a BIATCH!!!!! and you didnt do anything wrong. this is what FRIENDS DO!!!!
the day this gal play him (like she did her ex) then you will have nothing on your conscience. this friend of yours shouldnt have gone for your leftovers (to begin with) and if he does then he MUST accept that you have a history with her.
what you told him is THE TRUTH and you are only looking for your buddy's best interest!

i completely understand you: first he just wanted to sample the biatch and suddenly he turns around and want to marry her, so a head check and THE TRUTH was needed!!!!

as for him not inviting you to the party, why do you care? if he has decided to not talk to you any longer because you told him THE TRUTH then move along with your life knowing that you didnt do anything wrong.

That song when a man is in love : try and listen to it and run a thesis by it,

People change and you had no right telling on the babe as if you are better than her,

Now you lost a friend and where you shld have been best man , you are now men left at work

as i hold my thumbs to my cheeks and hold my tongue out to the poster , (serves you right)

Lesson learnt don't interfere with someone's love

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I think i know someone - a nairalander - who has slept with the girl too

ask me - i would gladly say    
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Who please

^^
me

leave him alone, let him suffer it. . . ppl no dey hear word

confidential

You did the rt thing but why did you think your friend wont tell his wife to be? they are going to be living together forever we hope and you think he would just shake you and say thanks man then drop the gal? Anywys age has nothing to do with envying them or not.

I am only happy that you and your friend's evil plan to callously use the poor gal and dump her just cos she wants a man in her life blew up in your faces. Good for both of you.

@poster, I gat your back bro! You did the perfect thing, if i were in your shoes i may have done the same thing,it's just that your friend loves the girl, no matter her past. Well i'm not condemning her,she deserves to be happy at least nobody is a saint; we all fall in love with someone else's dung unknowingly. It's just that both of them are immature the way they are going about it,if they wouldn't talk to you, ignore them as if they don't even exist.

U did d right thing as a friend, i pray ur friend dont fall victim to watever ur ex is planning

This is the type of situation I love. Just step back and watch the movie play. He will be back saying sorry

poster y u dey modify ur post na?na wa u o

Na so oh seeing plenty editing

^^^
His friend probably discovered his user name

@ Mynd 44
Your rite,I have friends and colleagues who's known my nairaland user name,so as soon as a colleague saw it ,I had a call and request was made for the identity of the guy,which i refused to reveal,thought it otherwise to remove it to avoid escalation.

^^^ End of story.