Family good morning.abeg I wan ask an inlaw lost their mother and they had a meeting and it was decided among them that all their inlaws will contribute 400k each ,d woman have 5 girls ,then 3 boys,funny d boys just want d inlaws contribute whole sum.
The woman was a nice lady but not we inlaws go bury am.
This makes d son look so ireslonsible in my eyes.
Na imo people ,while me Anambra,is not in our culture to task inlaws 4 burial but u can support if u want to.

Abeg Ndi Imo here is dat ur culture ,cos my wife insisting I pay it but am asking her if Na me kill her moda.ill bring sumthing but not 400k ,I'm planning 150/200k.vehicle hire go still chop me like 50k, entertainment in my house like 20k as I want few people.
Abeg Ndi imo here tell me
Tax

It is not about Imo people nor the tradition but the greedy family in particular.

The sons-in-law should be assertive, they should come together and decide how much they want to contribute, give to their in-laws and face front as they are not obligated beyond what they can comfortably afford to contribute as the sons of the deceased are the ones who should do the heavy lifting.

Mindlog:
It is not about Imo people nor the tradition but the greedy family in particular.

The sons-in-law should be assertive, they should come together and decide how much they want to contribute, give to their in-laws and face front as they are not obligated beyond what they can comfortably afford to contribute as the sons of the deceased are the ones who should do the heavy lifting.

Bro tax cos d sons running away from dr responsibility.

akpunda86:


Bro tax cos d sons running away from dr responsibility.

Let them run, while the sons in-law stand their ground. After all, will their kinsmen summon the sons in-law on why the woman has not been buried?

They are broke but wants their brothers-in-law to fund the burial of their own mother.

Hahaha I appreciate like Ur not Igbo,I'm not giving my wife d money,il put it in an envelope and give to the eldest with my family name written on it.

Is dr apporach I hate bros,can't see why an unemployed fella gonna be disturbing me,I'm bringing cos d woman was nice thou with Bleep up boys