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As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.

IyaebeTheGreat:
As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.

So if the man is in a relationship it means he's responsible? Hmmm?

Nia69:
So if the man is in a relationship it means he's responsible? Hmmm?

relationship is different from marriage

IyaebeTheGreat:
relationship is different from marriage

Okay. You don't understand me. I'm talking about marriage. Marriage is also a relationship.

Nia69:
Okay. You don't understand me. I'm talking about marriage. Marriage is also a relationship.

If so then I maintain my earlier comment

As soon as he has a regular paying carer or financial engagement.

Not age oh. So long as you can fvck and have the above prerequisite, you are good to go.

IyaebeTheGreat:
If so then I maintain my earlier comment

Okay.

IyaebeTheGreat:
As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.

You have an archaic mentality.

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Raalsalghul:


You have an archaic mentality.

It sounds archaic because it doesn't justify irresponsibility, that money you spend in clubs and on prostitutes can give you a meaningful life. Think well

imagrg:
As soon as he has a regular paying carer or financial engagement.

Not age oh. So long as you can fvck and have the above prerequisite, you are good to go.

I agree with you

IyaebeTheGreat:
It sounds archaic because it doesn't justify irresponsibility, that money you spend in clubs and on prostitutes can give you a meaningful life. Think well

Well said

There is no best age.
It depends when you have the resources to take care of another soul. I wont even say maturity cause life will make you wise quick quick.
Do he math.
At 50 when you are 60 your child is 10 . Would you be able the match the child's energy and see your great grandkids ?
At 40 when you are 50 your child is 10 . Would you be able to match the child's energy and see your grandkids ?
At 30 when you are 40 your child is 10 . Would you be able to match its energy, send him to school and possibly see your grandkids ?
Don't be governed by other people yet be wise. You don't have to be rich to be a father. You just have to be present in his/her life and provide basic needs.

Best age to becoming a father should be 25, provided you are able to shoulder basic responsibilities. Unfortunately the environment we find ourselves doesn't favor such.. it is assumed at 35yrs your kid will be 10yrs and you grow spontaneously.
At 50yrs ,your child should be 25yrs and you should be able to direct him properly in your business,trade or he is even a master degree holder.
Even if you are Called by God at that age, you are certain your son is now a man.
Procreation is basically the primary aim of Getting married and provided you aren't going into Priesthood, why Technically shift what must be Done and bringing yourself to a disadvantage.

IyaebeTheGreat:
As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.

u really have a low IQ

Who knows for real? The answer is when he is financially and mentally ready. It is easy to measure finances; mental readiness is the tricky part. So, who knows?

imagrg:
As soon as he has a regular paying carer or financial engagement.

Not age oh. So long as you can fvck and have the above prerequisite, you are good to go.

It takes more than knowing how to Bleep, to raise a family. It takes maturity. Any man below 35 should forget about marriage. Marriage is not by creating kids.


Women have a biological clock. Men don't. Let him get life experience so he can know how to deal with a wife.

4ward4:
Best age to becoming a father should be 25, provided you are able to shoulder basic responsibilities. Unfortunately the environment we find ourselves doesn't favor such.. it is assumed at 35yrs your kid will be 10yrs and you grow spontaneously.
At 50yrs ,your child should be 25yrs and you should be able to direct him properly in your business,trade or he is even a master degree holder.
Even if you are Called by God at that age, you are certain your son is now a man.
Procreation is basically the primary aim of Getting married and provided you aren't going into Priesthood, why Technically shift what must be Done and bringing yourself to a disadvantage.

typical female logic... men are not women.... lol....

IyaebeTheGreat:
It sounds archaic because it doesn't justify irresponsibility, that money you spend in clubs and on prostitutes can give you a meaningful life. Think well

After running up una body count... you will come here to start telling men when to marry lil.. a woman is supposed to get married when she's most fertile...... 19 - 26... ideally..... when una don flex finish .. ull start talking trash lol

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Your opinion holds no value.

IyaebeTheGreat:
As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.

All this arguments u guys are having makes no sense. In life there is no manual on how to live it. We have many childless couples all around, we have vagabonds too on the streets without any education. There is also no guarantee that your children will take care of you(my own experience). What you have to do is take life easy and let it run it's course because we are all here to learn.

4ward4:
Best age to becoming a father should be 25, provided you are able to shoulder basic responsibilities. Unfortunately the environment we find ourselves doesn't favor such.. it is assumed at 35yrs your kid will be 10yrs and you grow spontaneously.
At 50yrs ,your child should be 25yrs and you should be able to direct him properly in your business,trade or he is even a master degree holder.
Even if you are Called by God at that age, you are certain your son is now a man.
Procreation is basically the primary aim of Getting married and provided you aren't going into Priesthood, why Technically shift what must be Done and bringing yourself to a disadvantage.

wise saying, I wish I married earlier, the economy and the environment was not favourable then.Now we're here and what kept me going and working hard is my child and responsibilities. we are growing together gradually, we are not there yet, Al hamdu Lillah,we are progressing year in year out

IyaebeTheGreat:
It sounds archaic because it doesn't justify irresponsibility, that money you spend in clubs and on prostitutes can give you a meaningful life. Think well

You just proved the dude right that said this is archaic mentality. He was being mild by saying such thought of yours is archaic. Such thought is actually SENSELESS.

Who told you ALL bachelors above 30 years are having sex with prostitutes?

And who told you NO married man goes to club and have sex with prostitutes?


Being responsible has nothing to do with marriage.

4ward4:
Best age to becoming a father should be 25, provided you are able to shoulder basic responsibilities. Unfortunately the environment we find ourselves doesn't favor such.. it is assumed at 35yrs your kid will be 10yrs and you grow spontaneously.
At 50yrs ,your child should be 25yrs and you should be able to direct him properly in your business,trade or he is even a master degree holder.
Even if you are Called by God at that age, you are certain your son is now a man.
Procreation is basically the primary aim of Getting married and provided you aren't going into Priesthood, why Technically shift what must be Done and bringing yourself to a disadvantage.

rickleye:
There is no best age.
It depends when you have the resources to take care of another soul. I wont even say maturity cause life will make you wise quick quick.
Do he math.
At 50 when you are 60 your child is 10 . Would you be able the match the child's energy and see your great grandkids ?
At 40 when you are 50 your child is 10 . Would you be able to match the child's energy and see your grandkids ?
At 30 when you are 40 your child is 10 . Would you be able to match its energy, send him to school and possibly see your grandkids ?
Don't be governed by other people yet be wise. You don't have to be rich to be a father. You just have to be present in his/her life and provide basic needs.

You guys are funny.

Who told you early marriage is automatic early childbirth. Some married early and had their first baby after 15 years and above.

Some gave birth early only to die a year after, will the dead send the baby to school?

IyaebeTheGreat:
As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.

some men are going through health issues and find it hard to find a wife at that age,not every sick person is guilty or irresponsible,for others its the kind of work they do except they change occupation marriage would only be a mystery e.g ship captain and pilot,rig engineer and steel processing plant employees. these people have extremely slim time to date and get life partners and marrying anybody available to fill the gap would only add to their problems.doesnt mean they are irresponsible.

AfahaAbia:
All this arguments u guys are having makes no sense. In life there is no manual on how to live it. We have many childless couples all around, we have vagabonds too on the streets without any education. There is also no guarantee that your children will take care of you(my own experience). What you have to do is take life easy and let it run it's course because we are all here to learn.

those many childless couples, is it all of them that there is happiness in their life or home ? my grandfather has two wives, but the 1st wife never bear any children. every body think she birthed my mum because she has been living with her since she was a little kid. my grandfather love this 1st wife than all of his wives,some are later late. He take care of her, favour her and was very close to her than other wives that bear children. Ask grandpa why favoring and showering of gifts than the rest... He said that is the best he can do for her, that other wives children get is property and wealth when he is no more. It was a trial for both of them,but grandpa said it is painful to her more because it break her heart. The woman willingly allow grandpa to marry another wives.

IyaebeTheGreat:
As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible , no explanation whatsoever about that.

And I have told u to change this mentality of urs. Being married or unmarried doesn't make anyone responsible or irresponsible. Na girls like u them go deceive enter problem marriage if u continue like this. Some married early and are either divorced and in their second or third marriage, some married late but are still stable and happy and vice versa. And u haven't seen married men patronize call girls? They're the biggest customer base of runzgirls. Abi married men don't go to clubs abi? Change ur thinking oo it won't help u Las Las.

There's no manual for these things. It's life. U live and u learn ur individual race and lessons. Find someone who complements urs and fits in the missing blanks u both need for the journey ahead. No be to dey copy another person own. We all have our own roads. Know urs and walk it. That's how to live fully fulfilled and not by looking at others or using unrealistic standards for everyone when we're not made out of a copy. Each human is unique in everything and every way. Where u find equilibrium is what brings like minds for the task ahead.

Killbillz:

And I have told u to change this mentality of urs. Being married or unmarried doesn't make anyone responsible or irresponsible. Na girls like u them go deceive enter problem marriage if u continue like this. Some married early and are either divorced and in their second or third marriage, some married late but are still stable and happy and vice versa. And u haven't seen married men patronize call girls? They're the biggest customer base of runzgirls. Abi married men don't go to clubs abi? Change ur thinking oo it won't help u Las Las.

There's no manual for these things. It's life. U live and u learn ur individual race and lessons. Find someone who complements urs and fits in the missing blanks u both need for the journey ahead. No be to dey copy another person own. We all have our own roads. Know urs and walk it. That's how to live fully fulfilled and not by looking at others or using unrealistic standards for everyone when we're not made out of a copy. Each human is unique in everything and every way. Where u find equilibrium is what brings like minds for the task ahead.

well, I'm just wondering why a financially capable man of 30yrs and above will choose to remain single, just wondering. A popular pastor also said same thing to his congregations few years back lol

IyaebeTheGreat:
well, I'm just wondering why a financially capable man of 30yrs and above will choose to remain single, just wondering. A popular pastor also said same thing to his congregations few years back lol

That pastor is probably one of the problems of our society. Putting undue pressure on people. I bet he has his whole life figured out before him right. Make una continue... Popular pastor indeed

IyaebeTheGreat:
well, I'm just wondering why a financially capable man of 30yrs and above will choose to remain single, just wondering. A popular pastor also said same thing to his congregations few years back lol

Travelling, career aspirations, financial goals etc

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