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| Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Trendygurly: 5:27pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!. I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it Hmmmm I was being foolish and hopeless Now I’m so regretting my actions I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!! The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!! I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !! I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!! My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023 If you ask me why I did what I did I can’t even explain!! God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !! The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!! Please don’t be like me Don’t follow my path I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it. 147 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Proserpina: 5:33pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
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| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Foodqueen(f): 5:33pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Ouch!!!! Medicine after death. 36 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by anthonyuncle(m): 5:39pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
pray to God for forgiveness 109 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Trendygurly: 5:47pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
SisterAnn:I hear !! Thanks for the suggestion. But I wouldn’t want to put my family in mystery the way I’ve put myself!! I’ll bounce back This phase shall pass I’ll testify Bookmark this !! I’m not the first to feel this way and I won’t be the last!! 258 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by SisterAnn(f): 5:48pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Trendygurly:SMH 11 Likes |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by sisisioge: 6:51pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Trendygurly: You're surely going through hormonal blues. Pele. I hope this doesn't become a huge scar in your life. Biko go see a doctor for proper assessment of your pregnancy or non pregnancy. It will be crazier if you end up with an infection, incompetent uterus or congenital baby. It is insane to have done it without a reason in the first place....meaning, you also need your mental state checked. Something is causing you to act unnaturally. It is really well fa. 161 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Kemadealadire(f): 8:12pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Hmmn! 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by MMempire(m): 8:16pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Love the fact that you know and accepted that you have made a terrible mistake. May God in His infinite mercy and compassion, forgive you of your sins. 173 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Michelle55: 8:46pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
You would be fine, take all the time you need to grieve and heal. Everything would fall into place for you soon! Be strong. It takes a strong-willed person to carry out an abortion oh, the thought of it alone scares the shiit outta me. Pele hon, just give yourself time to heal. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by obinna58(m): 8:56pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Give your fiancé more puxy or Come make I give you another belle, you have nothing to worry about unless you hurt your womb too, then you’re in big trouble 5 Likes |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Brownshoe: 8:56pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
What you are feeling is dcatretheratinlktin is normal. Pls don't try that grammar at home 6 Likes |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by labake1(f): 9:37pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Pray and seek forgiveness, it would have been a great child 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Sucre6: 9:44pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
SisterAnn: You are heartless, chances are that you that is judging her had in the past done worst, Op I don't want to blame you too much or play a pope by saying u are the devil, You need to forgive yourself in order to move on, God will forgive you. No one is perfect 52 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by culf: 10:46pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Trendygurly: Don't be too harsh on yourself and don't consider suicide either, 2 wrongs doesn't make a right. We all make mistakes, its good you're remorseful about it, forgive yourself and move on. Also use the opportunity to discourage anyone trying to take that part but if you don't survive, how do you then help others from making same mistake. It is well dear, you will be fine. God bless and be with you 25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Tayorshd2(m): 11:07pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Have once made such mistake too and it's Abt 11 years ago .. But recently God just answered my prayer again by giving me a male child but most of my friends that they gave birth then ehn thier children are now Abt 11/12 years but mine is just 2months old baby 😢😭 Am not really happy with it but what can I do  ?I will still move on with life and thank God once again 59 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by James289(f): 11:18pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
i know exactly how you're feeling, you are not alone in having feelings of regret after this decision. it's a very tough spot to be in, and no matter which way you choose, there is no good answer. you and i chose the same route, and i also experienced regret for years after. here is what i eventually came to: the child-that-could-have-been (since it was too early for it really to be a child yet) did not cease to be in vain. I decided that the only way for me to move on was to make the most of my life and my opportunities, to never settle for a bad relationship, to never give up on my studies or my jobs. the only way for that decision to be meaningful is if i did not waste away in regret, but instead, if i moved forward. it's been about 5years since i came to that realization (a realization i came to about 2 or 3 years after the abortion). it's been hard at times, but knowing that every day that is spent in a positive way,every day spent moving me forward in my career, personal goals, and relationships, gives meaning and importance to the loss i suffered back then. it gives the death of the child-that-might-have-been meaning, something that has helped a whole lot. good luck to you and wish you only the best. 32 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by SisterAnn(f): 12:17am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Sucre6:You are one of the gullible masses that can't identify trolls. Probably, you are the Op sef. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Sucre6: 3:16am On Apr 07, 2023 |
SisterAnn: Lols, if u can actually type this crap then it shows you are not smart at all. 26 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by frozen70(f): 4:54am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Trendygurly: You are going through a lot and you are having a very big problem with yourself If you don't take time, you will be alone in this crazy world 1 Like |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by EastAlchemist: 4:57am On Apr 07, 2023 |
frozen70: |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by frozen70(f): 4:59am On Apr 07, 2023 |
EastAlchemist: Dey play 2 Likes |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by SisterAnn(f): 5:21am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Sucre6:You also hate the truth. Too much for one person. |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by EastAlchemist: 5:24am On Apr 07, 2023 |
frozen70:I said what I said |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by EastAlchemist: 5:28am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Life is external and internal Most of us have been thought only the external deliberately Internally we are dead or empty Op has gone internal If you had developed the internal well you wouldn’t have made the mistake in the first place Keep going Op and be bold Believe me you will come out stronger and better than who you were Making better choices for yourself Keep going 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by EriMma1: 7:58am On Apr 07, 2023 |
Why does this sound fake? Anyways if it true then I don't think terminating the pregnancy is what is really bothering you but the fear that the quack nurse didn't do a good job which might pose a risk to your life resulting in complications and exposing your evil deed to the whole world. That's the feeling you having and not really one of remorse. Keep sleeping around unprotected and doing abortions at will. Later you'll start jumping from one church to another looking for the fruit of the womb. What girls nowadays do with their youth ehn? Chai! No moral values left in the youth of this generation. Your senior partners in crime will soon flood here to call me holier than thou judgemental fellow,. I agree and I won't stop until every girl stops this indecent wayward lifestyle that is fast decaying the society. Tufia! 15 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by chris4gold(m): 10:15pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Is okay |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by TheRealMalcolmX(m): 10:15pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
 What's done is done............ |
| Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by mozona(m): 10:16pm On Apr 07, 2023 |
Ok |
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