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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by pills90(m): 10:34pm On Apr 07, 2023
please try and seek help from someone, maybe your church pastor
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Ghezo: 10:34pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

take a bow, bitch

Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by EbenMayor(m): 10:35pm On Apr 07, 2023
How re you & those liking your comment better than the lady?
Learn to keep quite instead of saying rubbish on social media. And your bio even says you re a female
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:35pm On Apr 07, 2023
sisisioge:


You're surely going through hormonal blues. Pele. I hope this doesn't become a huge scar in your life. Biko go see a doctor for proper assessment of your pregnancy or non pregnancy. It will be crazier if you end up with an infection, incompetent uterus or congenital baby.

It is insane to have done it without a reason in the first place....meaning, you also need your mental state checked. Something is causing you to act unnaturally. It is really well fa.

Hmmmm. You sound very experienced, mama.

Tell me something.

Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by VTJN(m): 10:35pm On Apr 07, 2023
EriMma1:
Why does this sound fake?

Anyways if it true then I don't think terminating the pregnancy is what is really bothering you but the fear that the quack nurse didn't do a good job which might pose a risk to your life resulting in complications and exposing your evil deed to the whole world. That's the feeling you having and not really one of remorse.

Keep sleeping around unprotected and doing abortions at will. Later you'll start jumping from one church to another looking for the fruit of the womb.

What girls nowadays do with their youth ehn? Chai! No moral values left in the youth of this generation. Your senior partners in crime will soon flood here to call me holier than thou judgemental fellow,. I agree and I won't stop until every girl stops this indecent wayward lifestyle that is fast decaying the society. Tufia!
but You know men are responsible for the waywardness of these girls and you're trying to exonerate them

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by jessylaurel(f): 10:36pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Sorry for yourself. God have mercy on you. sad sad
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by PulaPower: 10:37pm On Apr 07, 2023
Too bad. That’s a murderer.

Abortion is part of the reason why their puccy do smell..
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Omoawoke: 10:37pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Valentine baby. It has happened and it has happened. Please forgive yourself, it is very important .
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by jessylaurel(f): 10:37pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:

I hear !! Thanks for the suggestion.
But I wouldn’t want to put my family in mystery the way I’ve put myself!!
I’ll bounce back
This phase shall pass
I’ll testify
Bookmark this !!
I’m not the first to feel this way and I won’t be the last!!

You're just delusional. Imagine the rubbish you're spewing out. Now I see that your village people are taking possession of you. I pity the poor father of the child you killed.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by valinno(m): 10:38pm On Apr 07, 2023
If I'm your fiance, that's the end of the relationship, because if I allow you to enter my house, you will do worst.Is not that the young man refused to accept the responsibility for the pregnancy, just that you're wicked.pray it won't damage your womb because there are babies that you won't go Scott free if you abort.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by VTJN(m): 10:39pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
D&C in a standard reputable hospitalis the best option for abortion. Don't use drugs from pharmacist or any quark doctor or nurse

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Kingwadada85(m): 10:42pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
before you act think deeply about others that doesn't have what you have...my dear I have been looking onto God for good nine years now. You removed the special baby God gave you easily.

Sorry... but am very sad right now 😞😞😞

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Johnweeked12: 10:43pm On Apr 07, 2023
Hey You!!! you made a terrible one, like so many people out there, this is not to lighten what you did but it is done, question is if you want to wallow in self pity or repent of it and make sure you bounce out of it as quick as you can before it messes up your life for good.
1. Take your health seriously, go for a scan and make sure everything is good in there
2. Talk to a doctor and please make sure you are not infected or affected in any way from the quack you employed.
3. Ask God for forgiveness and really leave the guilt there, it will help you deal with the pain.
4. Face another day with so much hope and strive to be better than yesterday.
Remember life has no manual, just look around, count your blessings and be grateful for what you have now, don't be resentful of yourself, you are perfect, believe that and engrain it into your mindset. This too will pass.
Just don't take chances with your health Sha, see a doctor soon
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Adolak(m): 10:43pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Would you want to get pregnant again soon?
Answer that question and you might get the clarity you seek.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by NaijaCover(m): 10:44pm On Apr 07, 2023
Nawa o
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by stasius: 10:46pm On Apr 07, 2023
So what do you want us to tell you?
Listen to yourself again.

Abeg shift!
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Moutine(m): 10:47pm On Apr 07, 2023
Arh
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by EriMma1: 10:51pm On Apr 07, 2023
VTJN:
but You know men are responsible for the waywardness of these girls and you're trying to exonerate them


I said the "youth" of this generation and that includes the men too.

The girls have a choice not to give in to the sexual advances of these men but they chose to open their legs at every opportunity they get. Na wa!
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Osanoghodua1: 10:54pm On Apr 07, 2023
Go and confess your sin, you're a murderer. God has forgiven you, but stop fornicating. Pls go to the hospital for proper examination, don't terminate the baby if he's still there. God help you ma.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by izubext007: 10:58pm On Apr 07, 2023
Super story, u can't use this to drag attention
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by johnfem321: 11:01pm On Apr 07, 2023
You belong to the street… the better you turn a new leaf the better and stop going about hurting innocent people with your reckless, pathetic and selfish life… you should also go to a proper doctor for a proper scan to be sure your womb is clear if not to go Condemn womb..
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by fitinwell: 11:01pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Op stop taking hard substance... Now it's affecting the way you think..
You are not stable..

You need proper guidance..
Though in this country.. OYO is your case... Nobody send you..

Carry your own cross and mend the pain alone...

Engaging unprotected Sex .. shows you are ready whatever outcome..

So why are you seeking for advice after your actions...?
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by tiswell(m): 11:05pm On Apr 07, 2023
MMempire:
Love the fact that you know and accepted that you have made a terrible mistake. May God in His infinite mercy and compassion, forgive you of your sins.
there Is no forgiveness in this kind of sin.

Abortion is a sin against the holy spirit,and the bible says it's unforgivable.

Dear sis,@op,you just booked a space in el-faya!
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by MrCuteking(m): 11:05pm On Apr 07, 2023
Finally I have seen everything
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by texannaija: 11:06pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it


Yawnsssssssssssssss!!!!
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by grandstar(m): 11:06pm On Apr 07, 2023
sisisioge:


You're surely going through hormonal blues. Pele. I hope this doesn't become a huge scar in your life. Biko go see a doctor for proper assessment of your pregnancy or non pregnancy. It will be crazier if you end up with an infection, incompetent uterus or congenital baby.

It is insane to have done it without a reason in the first place....meaning, you also need your mental state checked. Something is causing you to act unnaturally. It is really well fa.

She had a reason for aborting it.

First, why did the chicken cross the road? Answer: To get to the other side.

Now, why did she aborting her child? Answer: Because she was not ready for it. It was unplanned. She was was and is still unwed. The baby wasn't planned, and so freaked out.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Ynix(m): 11:06pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.
Ask God for forgiveness and also forgive yourself, it's unfortunate you didn't allow a beautiful soul have entry into the world through you, nevertheless forgive yourself. It won't be easy but do your best to do so
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by isabi2lof: 11:09pm On Apr 07, 2023
You will surely bounce back , I hope it doesn't hurt you in the future
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by panpan(m): 11:11pm On Apr 07, 2023
Abortions are so final.
A pregnant woman can always change her mind before the abortion is carried out, but she cannot change her mind after the baby is gone.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:13pm On Apr 07, 2023
Women b killing babies since d days of moses
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by samnaija: 11:13pm On Apr 07, 2023
Truth is if you were truly pregnant before. You were not sure whether the pregnancy was your fiance or not. Or you knew it wasn't his own at all. That is the reason you took such decision the story you wrote those not add up .
Look on the bright side, you can now start on a clean slate with your fiance, if he falls for the trick.

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