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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by BackFromBalablu: 11:15pm On Apr 07, 2023
why did you do it? Just why? You don't knw what u've wasted like this o.
May God forgive u it was an act of fear and lonliness don't let those things affect u in the future again and pray your womb is intact too. Abortion is not good at all, no matter how the world try to sugar coat it cry
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by wealthpreach(m): 11:16pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

My to-be spouse was this stubborn, but I fought like a lion and on the fifth of this month a beautiful boy was born. Na she come like the pikin pass me.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by finallybusy: 11:16pm On Apr 07, 2023
First time. Na normal thing. By the fourth abortion, you no go see am as anything. I remember smoking weed for the first time, confessing that I finally ran mad. Now I can smoke the thing without a second thought — the same for eating it. Initial gra-gra, na him dey do you.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Okechinwadike: 11:29pm On Apr 07, 2023
yawo yawo ladies, runs girls, bobrisky and feminist everywhere. tomorrow one innocent man will come and carry this one begin de suffer for a child. NONSENSE AND YAWO YAWO SENIOR OLOSHO

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by ModCaller: 11:39pm On Apr 07, 2023
Fake AF. You are trying too hard, that's what gave you away as fake
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by sisisioge: 11:43pm On Apr 07, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Hmmmm. You sound very experienced, mama.

Tell me something.

Innocent person like me grin grin grin
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by joeeee240(m): 11:49pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Why did you abort a baby when your fiance was supportive?

Some of these fòolish girls sef
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Bahamas95(m): 11:50pm On Apr 07, 2023
I am suspecting a guy is catching cruise.





No Nigerian woman, I repeat no Nigerian woman would reveal this kinda dirty secret about herself on the internet. They would rather take it to the grave.......Werey dey disguise.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by joeeee240(m): 11:53pm On Apr 07, 2023
wealthpreach:


My to-be spouse was this stubborn, but I fought like a lion and on the fifth of this month a beautiful boy was born. Na she come like the pikin pass me.

But why will a girl want to remove her baby when her partner is supportive?
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by joeeee240(m): 11:55pm On Apr 07, 2023
Trendygurly:

I hear !! Thanks for the suggestion.
But I wouldn’t want to put my family in mystery the way I’ve put myself!!
I’ll bounce back
This phase shall pass
I’ll testify
Bookmark this !!
I’m not the first to feel this way and I won’t be the last!!

Abeg shut up

You didn't know all these before aborting your baby even when your partner is supportive

It's your fiance i pity for wanting a girl like you
He should dump you asap

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Haveyoueatentod: 11:58pm On Apr 07, 2023
When you were sucking and licking we weren't there so gerarahia men you know what I'm saying
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by chaloskyx: 11:59pm On Apr 07, 2023
The decision of doing an abortion isnt the problem its the fact that it wasn't done properly that's the main issue so you advice to people is if you want to have an abortion make sure you use a qualified doctor or good hospital
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Joshcoli(m): 11:59pm On Apr 07, 2023
I dong know why I'm seeing you just lost your only chance of having a baby...
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Willgates(m): 12:04am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.

Seek proper medical attention. Don't put your life at risk. You can still have another baby if you take good care of yourself
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by OriOko88(m): 12:05am On Apr 08, 2023
labake1:
Pray and seek forgiveness, it would have been a great child
Labake je kama fera
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by wealthpreach(m): 12:08am On Apr 08, 2023
joeeee240:


But why will a girl want to remove her baby when her partner is supportive?

A lot goes on. They doubt if you will still want to marry them. They think of their future also; further communication unravels their fears, then you help and calm them down with as many reassuring words and actions.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by juman(m): 12:17am On Apr 08, 2023
Go to hospital for check up.
You will get the right answer.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by jubrilELsudan: 12:34am On Apr 08, 2023
6 WEEKS OLD PREGNANCY IS NOT A BABY

IT IS AN EMBRYO

THE EMBRYO NO EVEN GET SPIRIT SEF

Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Daqvader: 1:02am On Apr 08, 2023
Trendygurly:
If you were like me thinking Abortion will make your life feel better then you’re in for a depressing ride!!.
I terminated a 6weeks old pregnancy because I didn’t want it
Hmmmm
I was being foolish and hopeless
Now I’m so regretting my actions
I feel so suicidal and the only way I can cope is by leaving it here. I’m such a selfish demon!!!
The gentleman responsible for it accepted it with all his might and Love but because of the demon In me I went ahead to tamper and terminate my a month baby!!
I feel sorry for my darling fiancé too cause I don’t deserve him!! He begged me to birth the child and give it to his mum but i vehemently refused !!

I don’t think I can ever recover from this life disastrous act!!
My baby was suppose to be due by 28th November 2023
If you ask me why I did what I did
I can’t even explain!!

God doesn’t make mistakes.. He knew I needed this child in my life because Apart from my Fiancé nobody cares about me and then he gave me this beautiful creature to love me and care for me and I had the nerve to discard it like a piece of thrash … Ahhhhh Lord have mercy on me !!

The painful part is I don’t even know if the abortion was successful cause the blood I saw wasn’t what the quack nurse that did it for me said!! Now I’m on a cross road whether the abortion was complete or whether I’m still expecting a damaged and disfigured child!!

Please don’t be like me
Don’t follow my path
I hope I recover from this and if I don’t so be it.


You'll get over it for sure. Right now your man has to stand by you.

Women are designed to bring life to this world and not take life out. Once you work against your existence, you'll feel this guilt. But fret not.. It will pass
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by emmabest2000(m): 1:14am On Apr 08, 2023
Foodqueen:
Ouch!!!!

Medicine after death.

The medicine 💊 set
Na expired one

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by kingsleyejims(m): 1:18am On Apr 08, 2023
Personally, I see nothing wrong with abortion if it's not convenient especially at the initial stage within 8 weeks. Nothing stops the OP from doing a lab work to be sure the removal is complete. Life is all about choices, you've taken a decision, own it and move on. There will always be a next time if necessary. Africans will always come at you with stories as this but may do worst if met with similar circumstance. It's your life, find ways to make your fiance' understand your deep plight so you both can live happily...peace!
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Nobody: 1:55am On Apr 08, 2023
I know a lot of people that have aborted in the past and are doing great.

Go through the comments section of Nairaland and will realize the world would have been a better place if most of the posters were aborted.

I know people who did not abort, gave birth and suffered all through life with the child.

If not ready to take care a child, do not get pregnant or get a safe abortion.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by chris51(f): 2:01am On Apr 08, 2023
In the 1st instance why did you have unprotected sex when you are not ready for pregnancy?

Secondly your fiance accepted the pregnancy and offer to give the baby to his mother when born.

Thirdly go and check the statistics of girls running helter skelter looking for the fruit of the womb when married.

Fourthly, one abortion can cause infertility in a lady for life.

I pray to Almighty God to forgive you your son.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by chris51(f): 2:01am On Apr 08, 2023
chris51:
In the 1st instance why did you have unprotected sex when you are not ready for pregnancy?

Secondly your fiance accepted the pregnancy and offer to give the baby to his mother when born.

Thirdly go and check the statistics of girls running helter skelter looking for the fruit of the womb when married.

Fourthly, one abortion can cause infertility in a lady for life.

I pray to Almighty God to forgive you your son.
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by chris51(f): 2:04am On Apr 08, 2023
kingsleyejims:
Personally, I see nothing wrong with abortion if it's not convenient especially at the initial stage within 8 weeks. Nothing stops the OP from doing a lab work to be sure the removal is complete. Life is all about choices, you've taken a decision, own it and move on. There will always be a next time if necessary. Africans will always come at you with stories as this but may do worst if met with similar circumstance. It's your life, find ways to make your fiance' understand your deep plight so you both can live happily...peace!


Definitely it's her life but I hope her womb is not damaged for life. What is wrong with protected sex? You can not eat your cakkr and have it
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by chris51(f): 2:04am On Apr 08, 2023
chris51:



Definitely it's her life but I hope her womb is not damaged for life. What is wrong with protected sex? You can not eat your cake and have it
Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Kayouzka(m): 2:05am On Apr 08, 2023
Tokyobanana2:
You just prevented another child from coming into this cruel world to suffer sins he/she had no idea. Birth and handover to your would-be mother-in-law, what nonsense. Don't worry, the guilt will be over pretty soon. How cheap are contraceptives and postinors these days that people are still having unwanted pregnancies.

She did well in disguise, this world is evil and every attempt not to bring someone here is best, we pretend that life is a gift but the opposite is the case.

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Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by Oksman(m): 2:20am On Apr 08, 2023
anthonyuncle:
pray to God for forgiveness

Which forgiveness?

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