Salasa:
I refused to take this to the religious section because I'll be judged and cursed. Not as if I'm seeking for validation to fornicate but I just want to be plain.

I just begun my 20's, I was introduced to sexual activities at a very early age, I first sexually touched my playmate on their bed at the age of 10, she lured me into it. I'm very handsome and and intelligent, I've everything a lady might need. Girls frolick around me and even offer themselves for sex and relationship, but I hold myself, I've no girlfriend.

I first saw porn on a friend's phone, saw it on my uncle's, friend's, neighbors, etc. In junior sec, I had a girl we got touchy as per puberty hormones but never tried sex, I was in junior secondary.

Briefly, I realized I've a high libido, when I'm hot, my brain, soul and body halts, I'll coercively view light porn and self-service off, just to cool my head. I've tried as much as possible not to allow myself addicted to wanking, I can say I'm not addicted to it, I'm just on it because I've no choice but I've control over it.

I had my first intensed pre-intimacy, romance and dry humping earlier this year. The girl seduced me for days and even mocked me If I'm impotent, I finally fell in, we romanced and cum but never penetrated.

Lately, I'm into skill learning, I've time for myself, but I'm so hot, I crave sex so much. I just want to have it so I can regain my mind and stop lusting after ladies. My mind isn't fit, I've prayed, abstained from porn and masturbation, done a lot.. my mind is willing but my flesh is weak.

I started asking God why he gave me hormones but I'm ban from exploiting, coupled with, I knew about sex very early, I'm so smart and sharp, very wise from childhood, I'm ahead of my peers academically and in knowledge.

I fear God and I know him well, but this sexual urges is my weakness, I've controlled it from ladies, but I know, deeply, I masturbate, but it's not enough, I don't enjoy it, it just cools down for a while.

What do I do? Should I break my virginity? Will God forgive me? I've been thinking of drugs to take to make me lose sexual urges.

Shapeaso:
Op, seriously you need a girlfriend before you rape someone.

TradingGod:
if sex is sin,

Then what is masturbatioñ?

AbuAeesha:
You are I your 20's
You are never too young to get married regardless of your faith.
Why not put more effort in getting married.
You mind will totally be at peace wen u have marital love session with a legally married wife.
Don't give the devil that opportunity to take full control over you.

Salasa:


I can never rape, i don't even go near ladies. Religious beliefs.

Salasa:


Still a sin, it's sexual immorality and it isn't right, but going down with someone, my mind isn't giving in.

I masturbate because I'm human, I'm active, I've urges, it's not my fault.

TradingGod:
masturbation is a higher sin because God created woman for man but you are going against God principles by pleasuring yourself without a woman

Its just like a guy and guy fvcking, it's against God principle

TradingGod:
masturbation is a higher sin because God created woman for man but you are going against God principles by pleasuring yourself without a woman

Its just like a guy and guy fvcking, it's against God principle

Salasa:
I refused to take this to the religious section because I'll be judged and cursed. Not as if I'm seeking for validation to fornicate but I just want to be plain.

I just begun my 20's, I was introduced to sexual activities at a very early age...

Salasa:
I refused to take this to the religious section because I'll be judged and cursed. Not as if I'm seeking for validation to fornicate but I just want to be plain.

I just begun my 20's, I was introduced to sexual activities at a very early age, I first sexually touched my playmate on their bed at the age of 10, she lured me into it. I'm very handsome and and intelligent, I've everything a lady might need. Girls frolick around me and even offer themselves for sex and relationship, but I hold myself, I've no girlfriend.

I first saw porn on a friend's phone, saw it on my uncle's, friend's, neighbors, etc. In junior sec, I had a girl we got touchy as per puberty hormones but never tried sex, I was in junior secondary.

Briefly, I realized I've a high libido, when I'm hot, my brain, soul and body halts, I'll coercively view light porn and self-service off, just to cool my head. I've tried as much as possible not to allow myself addicted to wanking, I can say I'm not addicted to it, I'm just on it because I've no choice but I've control over it.

I had my first intensed pre-intimacy, romance and dry humping earlier this year. The girl seduced me for days and even mocked me If I'm impotent, I finally fell in, we romanced and cum but never penetrated.

Lately, I'm into skill learning, I've time for myself, but I'm so hot, I crave sex so much. I just want to have it so I can regain my mind and stop lusting after ladies. My mind isn't fit, I've prayed, abstained from porn and masturbation, done a lot.. my mind is willing but my flesh is weak.

I started asking God why he gave me hormones but I'm ban from exploiting, coupled with, I knew about sex very early, I'm so smart and sharp, very wise from childhood, I'm ahead of my peers academically and in knowledge.

I fear God and I know him well, but this sexual urges is my weakness, I've controlled it from ladies, but I know, deeply, I masturbate, but it's not enough, I don't enjoy it, it just cools down for a while.

What do I do? Should I break my virginity? Will God forgive me? I've been thinking of drugs to take to make me lose sexual urges.

Salasa:
I refused to take this to the religious section because I'll be judged and cursed. Not as if I'm seeking for validation to fornicate but I just want to be plain.

I just begun my 20's, I was introduced to sexual activities at a very early age, I first sexually touched my playmate on their bed at the age of 10, she lured me into it. I'm very handsome and and intelligent, I've everything a lady might need. Girls frolick around me and even offer themselves for sex and relationship, but I hold myself, I've no girlfriend.

I first saw porn on a friend's phone, saw it on my uncle's, friend's, neighbors, etc. In junior sec, I had a girl we got touchy as per puberty hormones but never tried sex, I was in junior secondary.

Briefly, I realized I've a high libido, when I'm hot, my brain, soul and body halts, I'll coercively view light porn and self-service off, just to cool my head. I've tried as much as possible not to allow myself addicted to wanking, I can say I'm not addicted to it, I'm just on it because I've no choice but I've control over it.

I had my first intensed pre-intimacy, romance and dry humping earlier this year. The girl seduced me for days and even mocked me If I'm impotent, I finally fell in, we romanced and cum but never penetrated.

Lately, I'm into skill learning, I've time for myself, but I'm so hot, I crave sex so much. I just want to have it so I can regain my mind and stop lusting after ladies. My mind isn't fit, I've prayed, abstained from porn and masturbation, done a lot.. my mind is willing but my flesh is weak.

I started asking God why he gave me hormones but I'm ban from exploiting, coupled with, I knew about sex very early, I'm so smart and sharp, very wise from childhood, I'm ahead of my peers academically and in knowledge.

I fear God and I know him well, but this sexual urges is my weakness, I've controlled it from ladies, but I know, deeply, I masturbate, but it's not enough, I don't enjoy it, it just cools down for a while.

What do I do? Should I break my virginity? Will God forgive me? I've been thinking of drugs to take to make me lose sexual urges.

fastanddubious:

Na God explain am give you like this?

Shapeaso:
Op, seriously you need a girlfriend before you rape someone.

The bolded might sound like a joke, but if you had a senior brother or uncle you trusted, he would have since given you the same advice.

Religious people need to learn to stop trying to be innately who you were not created to be, even Paul said clearly that instead of burning needlessly (and some even assaulting boys), go and marry. Yes you cannot marry yet, but God made you good looking, girls are naturally all over you, yet you are burning like charcoal, and still asking what next

AbuAeesha:
You are I your 20's
You are never too young to get married regardless of your faith.
Why not put more effort in getting married.
You mind will totally be at peace wen u have marital love session with a legally married wife.
Don't give the devil that opportunity to take full control over you.

thedarkened:




Op take this advice!!

It's better not to taste it (sex) at all in the first place, because the moment you taste it, you crave for more; it's just how our body system is wired.

If you are incapacitated to marry at this time, which of course I strongly recommmend, then I advise you to keep yourself very busy; be occupied with one or two things, like the skill you are learning.

Try to avoid situations that would make you be idle and carried away in thought about stuff like that. Visit friends if need be;just be occupied.

Also, avoid situations that would make you be alone with the opposite sex (this increases one's vulnerability level; it's not always the devil, we can cause it too).

Meanwhile, when you are alone, think positively, take your mind off erotic thought and contents. Mind you, it will come but the moment it comes, be proactive now to think of what you could replace that thought with.

Please note that, sexual immorality does not only occur when there is peneration of the female genitals; masturbation, touching of the opposite sex private parts or genitals, deep kissing of one who's not one's spouse etc are all under the umbrella of sexual immorality.

Finally, I could see you really want to stop, therefore don't rule out the impact of prayer. Talk to God like a son would demand things from the father. Tell him how you feel and how you so much want to stop this, he sees your heart and would definitely help;cry to him if need be, he will help.

I believe this will pass!!!!

AndroBlaze:


All these people advising you that the moment you "taste it" you will become an addict are just clowns...OP I will advise you for the last time, be natural, read your bible "clearly", God has always preferred those who are natural and imperfect (Jacob, Moses, David, Solomon, Paul (look at his past)) to those who will strangle this life with their holier than thou pretentious attitudes (Pharisees and nigerian christians).

Their are so many people who have had sex once and never gone back or show serious lack of interest....if your body continues to need it after your first experience, it is because that is the way you are naturally, simple, not listening to your body will only make it worse...I personally know of no young man who craved sex more after his first time than before he had it, I seriously despise people who give young men this kind of perverted advice of "abstinence is the only way to stop addiction", utter rubbish!!

thedarkened:





You completely missed the message because you want to attack; as a matter of fact, you completely derailed from the logic and rationale behind my advice for the young man.

I never blamed nor castigated him, did you see any? I only advised him.

Point out a line or paragraph in what I typed that could further worsen his case or make him stray. Your guess is as good as mine, you can't find any.

Now look at what you just said!! Are you really trying to help him with that kind of advice?