Many women today are the cause of the problems in their families because they have insisted on attending a church different from their husband's church. This has led to divorce/separation between husbands and wives.

What women don't know is that they are on their own before God. God hates such act of disobedience. As long as your husband didn't say you should not worship God. I will point out why it is wrong with bible verses.

1. True worshippers of God worship him in spirit and truth. These are the people that God is looking for. Not those that destroy what God has joined together because they are looking for God on a mountain, in a temple, or church. God is a spirit and is everywhere, even in your room. Jesus told us what God wants from those seeking Him in John 4:20-24.
Matthew 6:6.

God hates divorce/separation as seen in Malachi 2: 16, Matthew 19:3-9, Mark 10:2-12. Divorce is the word used for separation between husband and wife. If you are a pastor, prophet, prophetess, or a wife that breaks home because of ministry, church or mountain prayers, you have a case to answer before God on the judgement day. The warning... Matthew 19:5-8, Ephesians 5:31-33.

2. Obedience to the will of God is better than any sacrifice you think you are making for God in disobedience to your head/husband. Saul was rejected by God as king because he thought that offering fat rams to God in a temple(worship) is better than the instruction God gave. 1 Samuel 15:3, 20-23.

3. Any pastor, prophet, or prophetess who knew but kept encouraging you to keep attending his church or ministry which is causing problem between you and your husband is practising lawlessness. Matthew 7:21-23. These things are not a guarantee of being right with God. Overzealousness is nothing. The will of God is above everything.

Even though they prophecy in his name, cast out demons in his name, and perform many signs and wonders in his name, they will be rejected by God on the last day. Same with the overzealous disobedient wife. Do not be deceived.

4. If your husband has this issue against you and you think by being too zealous for God that he will accept you, you are wrong and on your own. You cannot appear before God with sin as a disobedient wife who is striving with her husband and expect God to accept your work, gift, or sacrifice in the church or ministry you attend. Before God will accept you anywhere, you must go and make peace with your husband first. See it here in Matthew 5:23-24.

5. They tell you there is no husband in heaven but they won't tell you there is no church in heaven. They won't tell you that you must give account of what you did with your husband on earth before they allow you pass through the gate of heaven. If not, you are going nowhere. God only desire those that will worship him in spirit and truth wherever they are.

Know this, that if you move from one church to another, it will not be used against you on the judgment day. But when you move from one husband to another, or abandon the one that married you, you have a case to answer. God hates divorce, Malachi 2:16. So if your desire to worship with a particular pastor, church, or ministry is making you to do what God hates, then you will have yourself to blame on the day of judgement.

6. This is what it means to love God, that you keep his commandments and yet his commandments are not burdensome. His will that you seek to do is not a burden that can cause problem and separation between husband and wife, Deuteronomy 30:11-14, 1 John 5:3. What he desire from us is simple, see also Micah 6:7-8.

The purest and undefiled form of religion/worship before God is to help the orphans, widows, and to stay away from worldly things, James 1:27.

7. Let no man judge you because of keeping the Sabbath day for it ts not a requirement for going to heaven, Col 2:16-17.

Submit to your husband and have deep respect for him, Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Peter 3:1-2, 5-6.

If you are a pastor, prophet, or prophetess, and you have a member who is having such issue with her husband, it is better to do the needful accordingly to what is written in Matthew 5:23-24. Let them go make peace first with husbands and come clean before God for worship.

Even if it means they won't come back, at least you are not guilty of causing division and breaking what God has joined together.

True
More pastors should preach on this

thesicilian:
True
More pastors should preach on this

Yeah but it is difficult to hear it anywhere.

Submit to your husband if you want peace in your home. Forget all the social media trash that encourages lack of respect and disobedience to your husband. You, the wife, cannot be the head of the home no matter who you are and how you try. Your husband is your head. If you can't submit then you can as well stay single. You will never gain anything by dishonouring and disrespecting your head but you will potentially lose everything by lack of submission. That's how God has made marriage and nothing can change it. Husbands love your wives and make adequate provision for them.

Which obedience?

When many have derailed from God's plans for marriage.

The same husband who fornicated his way to marriage and slept with many women along the line?

Or the same wife who probably slept her way through marriage with a long mileage to add?

Marriage is honorable if it's entered rightly and the way God intended it to be. A marriage you didn't enter with God's standards according to His word, you're now quoting scriptures to suit your narrative.

Amos 3:3 says can two work together unless they agree? If you don't have a solid foundation that you both agree on before getting married, na these kind issues una go dey deal with in marriage.

Pastor doesn't even need to preach it, cause for a woman who doesn't have the right Christian foundation, pastor fit preach tire, she still no go change. You know how many pastors preach say fornication is a sin? She change, even you change? Shebi una continue till una marry?

But somehow you want the woman to obey you cause the bible says so.

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I no dey reply anybody mention.

But why is it that, when a Muslim woman who is married to a Christian man decides to go to mosque the husband will not see it as issue. But when a Christian woman tells her husband i don't want to go to your church, it becomes a problem?

Why are churches competing among themselves for nothing?

Romanoff:
Which obedience?

When many have derailed from God's plans for marriage.

The same husband who fornicated his way to marriage and slept with many women along the line?

Or the same wife who probably slept her way through marriage with a long mileage to add?

Marriage is honorable if it's entered rightly and the way God intended it to be. A marriage you didn't enter with God's standards according to His word, you're now quoting scriptures to suit your narrative.

Amos 3:3 says can two work together unless they agree? If you don't have a solid foundation that you both agree on before getting married, na these kind issues una go dey deal with in marriage.

Pastor doesn't even need to preach it, cause for a woman who doesn't have the right Christian foundation, pastor fit preach tire, she still no go change. You know how many pastors preach say fornication is a sin? She change, even you change? Shebi una continue till una marry?

But somehow you want the woman to obey you cause the bible says so.

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I no dey reply anybody mention.

No body is interested in who changed and who did not change. As long as they(you) know they are zealous for nothing and wasting their time seeking God in disobedience. And that hellfire is bouncing and waiting to receive, no qualms.

If you are one of them and you are doing your own because your husband is fornicating up and down, both of you should remember that thing I said is bouncing above. It doesn't listen to such reason.

paxonel:
But why is it that, when a Muslim woman who is married to a Christian man decides to go to mosque the husband will not see it as issue. But when a Christian woman tells her husband i don't want to go to your church, it becomes a problem?

Why are churches competing among themselves for nothing?

It could be that they had an agreement before marriage. I don't know about Muslims, I wrote as a Christian.

As Christians If the man say no, there is nothing she can do about it except she can make him change his mind through prayers and good conduct.

Men who are having this issue should show their wives these things.

Wives having issues with their husbands should know that the love for the will of God is above everything. Unless you are going to that church because of your love for the pastor, prophet or prophetess which cannot take you to God. Even those prophesying and doing signs and wonders will be rejected on the day of judgement for going against the will of God.

These things above cannot be disputed by anybody.

My Philosophy for couples with traditional values is, if you’re in a relationship where you can’t obey your man and be submissive to him, don’t marry that man, find your husband. Your husband is the head of you and the family, just as Christ is the head of the church.

If you don’t have traditional values and are dating a man with traditional values, stop wasting your times, it’s a big red flag, compromise of core values in most cases will lead one of you to lose their identity and become a shadow of themself later on.

the way it is now, it’s like everyone is going to the other religion’s hell

Wow

Here no be church.. This is the General Assembly of Trouble Makers!

You see this topic made me had a rethink for the no 1 on my list. An apostlic church bred suddenly turn cele and was hell bent on no withdrawal. Baba gently begin take steps backward. I don't want confused kids with different notion in faith. Thanks for bringing this up.

The so called pastors are not helping matters.. Ideally before a woman kneels to greet her pastor, she must first kneel to greet her husband whom God Himself made the head of the family unit.. all others religious figures like pastors, imams, bishops, reverend fathers etc. are secondary.

There is no way God will answer your prayers when you fail to honour your immediate "lord" which is your husband as ordained by the Almighty in heaven. God is specific and HE doesn't change.

Why is the price of everything up.
Olosho that use to charge me 1.5k is now talking about 10k .

Am thinking of getting one carton of tetmosol

I still maintain what the Bible says.....

Proverbs 14:1 Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

Your home is in your hands.

Imagine my wife dey vex for me say I no go church wey pastor sef dey follow us sin😂

Wives should listen to their husbands and attend the same church with their husbands. That is simply called submission.

The man is to blame if the wife worship at a different church.
The day my wife tries that, she gets divorce letter the following day...there'll be no time to negotiate. Period

Boomark:
Many women today are the cause of the problems in their families because they have insisted on attending a church different from their husband's church. This has led to divorce/separation between husbands and wives.

What women don't know is that they are on their own before God. God hates such act of disobedience. As long as your husband didn't say you should not worship God. I will point out why it is wrong with bible verses.

1. True worshippers of God worship him in spirit and truth. These are the people that God is looking for. Not those that destroy what God has joined together because they are looking for God on a mountain, in a temple, or church. God is a spirit and is everywhere, even in your room. Jesus told us what God wants from those seeking Him in John 4:20-24.
Matthew 6:6.



God hates divorce/separation as seen in Malachi 2: 16, Matthew 19:3-9, Mark 10:2-12. Divorce is the word used for separation between husband and wife. If you are a pastor, prophet, prophetess, or a wife that breaks home because of ministry, church or mountain prayers, you have a case to answer before God on the judgement day. The warning... Matthew 19:5-8, Ephesians 5:31-33.

2. Obedience to the will of God is better than any sacrifice you think you are making for God in disobedience to your head/husband. Saul was rejected by God as king because he thought that offering fat rams to God in a temple(worship) is better than the instruction God gave. 1 Samuel 15:3, 20-23.

3. Any pastor, prophet, or prophetess who knew but kept encouraging you to keep attending his church or ministry which is causing problem between you and your husband is practising lawlessness. Matthew 7:21-23. These things are not a guarantee of being right with God. Overzealousness is nothing. The will of God is above everything.

Even though they prophecy in his name, cast out demons in his name, and perform many signs and wonders in his name, they will be rejected by God on the last day. Same with the overzealous disobedient wife. Do not be deceived.

4. If your husband has this issue against you and you think by being too zealous for God that he will accept you, you are wrong and on your own. You cannot appear before God with sin as a disobedient wife who is striving with her husband and expect God to accept your work, gift, or sacrifice in the church or ministry you attend. Before God will accept you anywhere, you must go and make peace with your husband first. See it here in Matthew 5:23-24.

5. They tell you there is no husband in heaven but they won't tell you there is no church in heaven. They won't tell you that you must give account of what you did with your husband on earth before they allow you pass through the gate of heaven. If not, you are going nowhere. God only desire those that will worship him in spirit and truth wherever they are.

Know this, that if you move from one church to another, it will not be used against you on the judgment day. But when you move from one husband to another, or abandon the one that married you, you have a case to answer. God hates divorce, Malachi 2:16. So if your desire to worship with a particular pastor, church, or ministry is making you to do what God hates, then you will have yourself to blame on the day of judgement.

6. This is what it means to love God, that you keep his commandments and yet his commandments are not burdensome. His will that you seek to do is not a burden that can cause problem and separation between husband and wife, Deuteronomy 30:11-14, 1 John 5:3. What he desire from us is simple, see also Micah 6:7-8.

The purest and undefiled form of religion/worship before God is to help the orphans, widows, and to stay away from worldly things, James 1:27.

7. Let no man judge you because of keeping the Sabbath day for it ts not a requirement for going to heaven, Col 2:16-17.

Submit to your husband and have deep respect for him, Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Peter 3:1-2, 5-6.

If you are a pastor, prophet, or prophetess, and you have a member who is having such issue with her husband, it is better to do the needful accordingly to what is written in Matthew 5:23-24. Let them go make peace first with husbands and come clean before God for worship.

Even if it means they won't come back, at least you are not guilty of causing division and breaking what God has joined together.

When you marry a WHÓRE...
When you marry a stupīd brat that thinks being stupidly stubborn is a flex...
When you marry a girl that has been through a lot...
When you marry a girl that a lot has been through...
When you marry a girl with lots of Ex...
When you marry a girl with more than 2 BODYCOUNT...
When you marry a girl that has slept with one or various married men...
When you marry girl trained by a useless feminist or single mother...
When you marry a girl that thinks her phone is more private than her private parts ...
Etc

There's no guarantee or possibility that the girl will give you peace of mind.
No guarantee she'll be a prudent wife or mother
No guarantee she'll respect you
MOST IMPORTANTLY
She'll mostly likely cheat on you with her ex and other new lovers and bore you Bastards to raise if care is not taken...

That's the beauty of Islam. You can pray at any mosque in the world. The same way

Dem go dey kneel down for pastor and dey form feminist for their husband

Dem go dey call their husband papa John and call their pastor , daddy , my lord

They can't contribute one penny to their homes but always sowing endless seed in the life of their pastor

Boomark:


Many women today are the cause of the problems in their families because they have insisted on attending a church different from their husband's church. This has led to divorce/separation between husbands and wives.

God hates divorce/separation

Blame the woman. Why not the man? ... isn't he the one that chose the wife? ... Didn't he know the wife belongs to a different church?.. and if he marries her they would be unequally yoked? ... and doesn't the Bible specifically say don't be unequally yoked? So how can she be the cause of problems in the family? Isn't he the one that built his house on sand instead of solid rock? ... and when the house comes crashing down you blame the wife? Bro .... all those scriptures are irrelevant ... the one that really matters with regard to your topic is do not be unequally yoked. women can be rightfully blamed for a whole lot of stuff ... but not this one.

"God hates divorce"... really? God of love is also a hater. Why would He hate divorce when He has made provision for it? Was He the one that have people swearing at marriage until death do us part?

Romanoff:
Which obedience?

When many have derailed from God's plans for marriage.

The same husband who fornicated his way to marriage and slept with many women along the line?

Or the same wife who probably slept her way through marriage with a long mileage to add?

Marriage is honorable if it's entered rightly and the way God intended it to be. A marriage you didn't enter with God's standards according to His word, you're now quoting scriptures to suit your narrative.

Amos 3:3 says can two work together unless they agree? If you don't have a solid foundation that you both agree on before getting married, na these kind issues una go dey deal with in marriage.

Pastor doesn't even need to preach it, cause for a woman who doesn't have the right Christian foundation, pastor fit preach tire, she still no go change. You know how many pastors preach say fornication is a sin? She change, even you change? Shebi una continue till una marry?

But somehow you want the woman to obey you cause the bible says so.

🤣
I no dey reply anybody mention.

Ur body just dey hot this morning