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Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 11:58am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Shhhh...π€«π€«π€« sniperr007: 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 12:01pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
When you love someone, you'd do anything to make the person happy.. It has nothing to do with culture or feminism. OBTOREPA: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Celebrity5496: 12:25pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
id4sho:π π π That's all |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:34pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay:your own no dey pass broke men..its just a question,tribe and cultures differs and the OP needs clarity,in my tribe you send money to them to arrange before you come.it might be different in another tribe,abi do you know the process of all the tribes in Nigeria,dey calm down sometimes. 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by tonididdy(m): 3:01pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Fahvvy: Entirely depends on the tribe |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by tonididdy(m): 3:03pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
id4sho: Some tribe will triple your bill if you impregnate their daughter before doing the needful |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by tonididdy(m): 3:05pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
GboyegaD: What do you propose instead? Remember this ah a century old tradition If any family decides to boycot the regular traditional process, they are being overly nice otherwise itβs tradition Eg in urhobo land the brides family is entertained by the groom ( good and drinks ). Tho the bride list is very fair but it is what it is |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Enice(m): 3:15pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
BmAe:wrong how? Which tribe are you from? In Nigeria, the groom is responsible for every kobo spent in a marriage process. The bride can help if she wants to but it's not obligatory. For Nigeria, na man dey marry woman, not the other way round. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by BmAe: 3:25pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Lovelydaisies:i have no issues with what you are saying but sometimes courtesy matters |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Lovelydaisies: 4:20pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
BmAe: I tried to be cautious but why did you come at me the way you did? I never called you names. If my answer was that I took care of the hosting, would your earlier message have changed? Or because I said otherwise, you said what you said. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by GboyegaD(m): 5:34pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
tonididdy: I guess I responded based on the SW tradition that I am familiar with. Thus, I would say my response may be biased in that direction. That said, my proposition is if the discussion on bride price will be held in the wife's family house, then they should provide for the guest. Worst is that they should tell the groom the maximum number they will be expecting from him and his family. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by WantsandMore: 8:02pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Samantha124:what culture is this please? |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by BmAe: 8:18pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Enice:i won't send anything, if her dad can't just arrange rice and stew which won't cost more than 15k for my 5 relative then her parents are stingy....a stranger is coming to your house, besides he is not even coming empty handed o.. You people should stop saying dirty things... Some family cry for food.... My cousin sister's marriage, her dad is just a palm wine tapper but he still cough out money to cook for his inlaws when he heard they were coming from lagos to the village with joy 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by BmAe: 8:24pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Lovelydaisies:you might be right just that actually some family are welcoming with food why some are not. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
Sepedi. WantsandMore: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by OBTOREPA(m): 7:37am On Apr 19, 2023 |
Samantha124:Marriage is a different ball game altogether. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by kingsolomonjnr01(m): 2:16pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
CalabarPikin: Exactly.. My younger sister's wedding is coming up soon. I told my dad that if I see any of those youth or old men that will come and talk nonsense or cause problem that I will arrest them all... These are people who doesn't know if we exist 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by LivingSage: 3:42am On Apr 23, 2023 |
It shows you come from a broke and entitled family. Sane man must avoid you because you'll affect his family with abject poverty your family suffers from. Get a job and be responsible, no man wants a liability again Jennyclay: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by okine4real: 11:13am On Jun 14, 2023 |
livingstone2013: When i wedded my wife, I gave them money for traditional, they added money too. I know do I troduction because myself and my wife dey leave the same area, we just do traditional straight. Introduction, if you give your babe family money for introduction, I swear the babe Family know get SHAME,( EXCEPT YIU KNOW SAY THEM DEY VERY VERY POOR) Don't forget when you going for Introduction, the babes family gives you date, they giving you date means they have prepared for your coming, introduction self, highest 10 numbers if the Grooms family, shy na that one the babe papa know fit run? Well powerty dey sha, but even if the Groom run the payment, the fact is, that is not the way it should be, the babes family takes care of there guest. Then for traditional marriage, the Groom has there own guest, the bride has there own guest, First, the brides family takes care of the grooms family, that is there first priority, then what is left is, the brides guest and the grooms guest, now before the marriage the husband's prefers to give the prides family money to cater for food, because it's assume the husband's family are coming from a very place. Eg the bride is in Imo state, the groom and family are coming from Lagos, they can't cook and bring to the venue, so they give money to the brides family to cater for bride and grooms guest. If you are doing a traditional marriage in Lagos, both bride and groom reside in Lagos, husband family go cook come while bride family go cook come, na there you go dey see say them go dey look face dey share food. But the both of contention is, COMMON SENSE, WHEN YOU CINE TO MY HOUSE, ITS MY JOB TO FEED YOU AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND. |
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