I was coming back from work this evening with some office files inside a leather and some things i bought for my wife and children. We met with my wife just outside the house while i was going in and then she greeted me quitely and passed without collecting what i was holding. I felt so embarrassed because the way some neighbours of mine all looked at me ehn? Please what do you have to say cos the anger in me right now Oh my God... Most times i am the one who makes conversations with her when we're in the midst of people but yet she always make it look as if i am forcing her to talk even in the midst of people.

Check her well.....all this marriage gory stories don too full my ear abeg.

Why didn't you say anything? Next time say something.
If you can't command respect, demand it!

You're obviously not ready for marriage

i don't understand please explain further

Who is the 'she' that u met outside that greeted u quietly and passed....

Be elaborate

Rtk4:
I was coming back from work this evening with some office files inside a leather and some things i bought for my wife and children. We met just outside the house while i was going in and then she greeted me quitely and passed me without collecting what i was holding. I felt so embarrassed because the way some neighbours of mine all looked at me ehn? Please what do you have to say cos the anger in me right now Oh my God...

Would you collect her own bag when she comes back from work
If you won't, then please don't disturb us here.

Rtk4:
I was coming back from work this evening with some office files inside a leather and some things i bought for my wife and children. We met with my wife just outside the house while i was going in and then she greeted me quitely and passed without collecting what i was holding. I felt so embarrassed because the way some neighbours of mine all looked at me ehn? Please what do you have to say cos the anger in me right now Oh my God... Most times i am the one who makes conversations with her when we're in the midst of people but yet she always make it look as if i am forcing her to talk even in the midst of people.

forget what your neighbour thinks and instead understand the type of woman you have....as you claimed thats the way she is. but really, greeting someone properly (and not as if it is a burden) and/or helping someone with bags when they arrive at home is just COMMON SENSE, and therefore it seems that this wife of your is uncaring or bitter about something.

maybe you guys should sit down and have an open heart talk about the issue that seem to bother the woman.... or just teach her how to behave in a normal loving/caring union

Find something good to chill over her behavior. Don't mention anything to yet. When you are cooled off, find a day and time she is happy with you to treat the matter. I will also advice that you have every plan ready to give to her response

Oga arrange for a comeback and snub her back. Na your own go pain her pass.

siofra:


Would you collect her own bag when she comes back from work
If you won't, then please don't disturb us here.

Babe u dey there, but on a normal level the wife no try. Tell us the whole truth, did u offend her?

Rtk4:
■ I was coming back from work this evening with some office files inside a leather and some things i bought for my wife and children. We met with my wife just outside the house while i was going in and then she greeted me quitely and passed without collecting what i was holding. I felt so embarrassed because the way some neighbours of mine all looked at me when?
■ Please what do you have to say cos the anger in me right now Oh my God... Most times i am the one who makes conversations with her when we're in the midst of people but yet she always make it look as if i am forcing her to talk even in the midst of people.

Is your wife your house girl or something? Is that why you came here to create this thread?

2. If you are having trouble in your marriage, then work on that. Consult a professional marriage counselor to help mediate and figure out why your wife does no talk to you as you would want. Something tells me it may have to do with your expectations of her as illustrated in the first part of your OP. But there are likely other reasons you conveniently left out of this post of yours..

Wotoporiously speaking

Your wife is ashamed of you..but if you ask am she go cap you say you offend am meanwhile na lia Mohammed she dey cap, left for you to find out the real truth and put a permanent solution to it or your marriage go expire before the end of this year, cuz things like infidelity and others go run am for you...🤣

Una suppose dey pay me for all this advise

Rtk4:
I was coming back from work this evening with some office files inside a leather and some things i bought for my wife and children. We met with my wife just outside the house while i was going in and then she greeted me quitely and passed without collecting what i was holding. I felt so embarrassed because the way some neighbours of mine all looked at me ehn? Please what do you have to say cos the anger in me right now Oh my God... Most times i am the one who makes conversations with her when we're in the midst of people but yet she always make it look as if i am forcing her to talk even in the midst of people.

it's nothing and u can maintain silent too when u feel like

If there is no misunderstanding before you left in the morning between you two what your wife did is totally wrong. There are many times I have collected things met for the family from my wife hand when entering the house from work. This is common sense naw, u can't just come in into the house with heavy load met for the family or your personal belonging self and you ignore it like you are less concern. It is not right naw.
Bro stop giving yourself unnecessary pressure, communication is very important in marriage. Talk to your wife and let her explain why she did that to you. She might have her reasons

Rtk4:
I was coming back from work this evening with some office files inside a leather and some things i bought for my wife and children. We met with my wife just outside the house while i was going in and then she greeted me quitely and passed without collecting what i was holding. I felt so embarrassed because the way some neighbours of mine all looked at me ehn? Please what do you have to say cos the anger in me right now Oh my God... Most times i am the one who makes conversations with her when we're in the midst of people but yet she always make it look as if i am forcing her to talk even in the midst of people.

Hello sir, Nairaland is not the ideal place to bring ur family issue. You have people around you who know the two of u very well. Do the needful sir!

Rtk4:
I was coming back from work this evening with some office files inside a leather and some things i bought for my wife and children. We met with my wife just outside the house while i was going in and then she greeted me quitely and passed without collecting what i was holding. I felt so embarrassed because the way some neighbours of mine all looked at me ehn? Please what do you have to say cos the anger in me right now Oh my God... Most times i am the one who makes conversations with her when we're in the midst of people but yet she always make it look as if i am forcing her to talk even in the midst of people.

If everything you are saying here is true, then your wife has a snobbish character.
That's who she is - trust me, she won't even see or admit doing anything wrong - so don't take it personal.
You definitely noticed all these during Courtship so nothing you say/do can change her, rather it will only wedge a spanner between you guys!

siofra:


Would you collect her own bag when she comes back from work
If you won't, then please don't disturb us here.

hey siofra good news..am in Nigeria. Can you come to meet me at my hotel 4pm tomorrow: Oriental hotel,...will wait for u at the hotel lobby.. please were miniskirt..cant wait!!

Cerebellum:
You're obviously no ready for marriage

Sometimes I wonder if people like you have sense or not what kind of stupid comments is this if you don't know what to say keep quiet, it's obvious you are not yet married

siofra:


Would you collect her own bag when she comes back from work
If you won't, then please don't disturb us here.

u would soon tell me who is the man of the relationship

MechanicMike:



hey siofra good news..am in Nigeria. Can you come to meet me at my hotel 4pm tomorrow: Oriental hotel,...will wait for u at the hotel lobby.. please were miniskirt..cant wait!!

so siofra is a common LovePeddler,tueh

Qatar2022:

Sometimes I wonder if people like you have sense or not what kind of stupid comments is this if you don't know what to say keep quiet, it's obvious you are not yet married

For quoting me with this shows you're exactly what you thought I'm