Is it possible getting a second wife that treats my first kids as her own,I'm scared.
Im opening a trust fund for my kids plus the rent from the house can take kia of the school fees incase of Demise.
My lovely wife just strayed ,changed till my family supported me to divorce her.

I just planted enuff cameras 2 watch my kids as my new nanny takes over but still ponder how can a mother abadon her kids for a federal govt job offer dat looks like scam

akpunda86:
Is it possible getting a second wife that treats my first kids as her own

yes very possible...

but still ponder how can a mother abadon her kids for a federal govt job offer dat looks like scam

Hmmmmm....majority of step moms are nasty. Maybe if she's older and doesn't have kids, she might appreciate your children as gifts from God.

Why not continue with the nanny system for now. It is well fa.

sisisioge:
Hmmmmm....majority of step moms are nasty. Maybe if she's older and doesn't have kids, she might appreciate your children as gifts from God.

Why not continue with the nanny system for now. It is well fa.

Appreciate ke, most childless women I have seen are very wicked. They're always aggressive and behave as if you're the cause of their childlessness......They can even give a new born crying baby a hot slap for disturbing them.

akpunda86:
Is it possible getting a second wife that treats my first kids as her own,I'm scared.
Im opening a trust fund for my kids plus the rent from the house can take kia of the school fees incase of Demise.
My lovely wife just strayed ,changed till my family supported me to divorce her.

I just planted enuff cameras 2 watch my kids as my new nanny takes over but still ponder how can a mother abadon her kids for a federal govt job offer dat looks like scam

yes their step mothers/fathers who can

but why take away the children from their mother if the mother is still capable of looking after them ?

Yes. If u are lucky and like me my wife is taking care of my son and her children dnt even know that their mother is the biological my mother of my first born 15years nw

Yes, until she has her own kids.

If anything should happen to my wife or marriage and I have kids, I'll rather have sidechick than remarry.

All I need in the house is a non live-in paid nanny.

She works 8-10 hours mondays to fridays and I will take care of my kids for the rest of the time, I'm not disabled biko.

I can kill because of my kids and that's what I will like to avoid by not remarrying.

If she loves kids yes. Test her with other kids to find out if she loves kids.

Some people/parents don't like kids

sisisioge:
Hmmmmm....majority of step moms are nasty. Maybe if she's older and doesn't have kids, she might appreciate your children as gifts from God.

Why not continue with the nanny system for now. It is well fa.

in this part of the world, it's rare to get a women that would take care of another fellow woman's child(Ren) like her own. It's a Fact. Even among blood sisters.... We do read/ hear many sad stories.

akpunda86:
Is it possible getting a second wife that treats my first kids as her own,I'm scared.
Im opening a trust fund for my kids plus the rent from the house can take kia of the school fees incase of Demise.
My lovely wife just strayed ,changed till my family supported me to divorce her.

I just planted enuff cameras 2 watch my kids as my new nanny takes over but still ponder how can a mother abadon her kids for a federal govt job offer dat looks like scam

your lovely wife but you're thinking of a second wife.
Biko stick to the purpose of the thread without telling us what your "lovely wife did. She's an adult and has chosen her way of life.

Black Men have been known to walk away from families and kids and nothings been done about it. Arrghhh!

akpunda86:
Is it possible getting a second wife that treats my first kids as her own,I'm scared. Im opening a trust fund for my kids plus the rent from the house can take kia of the school fees incase of Demise. My lovely wife just strayed ,changed till my family supported me to divorce her. I just planted enuff cameras 2 watch my kids as my new nanny takes over but still ponder how can a mother abadon her kids for a federal govt job offer dat looks like scam

Your question makes no sense given that all women aren't the same, same way all men aren't the same. It all depends on the woman you land yourself and your kids with. So, rather than come here asking us, why not consider whether it is not better for you to remain alone caring for your kids with these fears you obviously harbor towards women at this point in time?

akpunda86:
Is it possible getting a second wife that treats my first kids as her own,I'm scared.
Im opening a trust fund for my kids plus the rent from the house can take kia of the school fees incase of Demise.
My lovely wife just strayed ,changed till my family supported me to divorce her.

I just planted enuff cameras 2 watch my kids as my new nanny takes over but still ponder how can a mother abadon her kids for a federal govt job offer dat looks like scam

It will always take the grace of God to get a woman that will love your children like their biological mother

Maybe 1 in hundred.

Better continue with your nanny system and keep a girlfriend.

Will your children accept your second wife as their mother, moreso their biological mother is still alive?