emmaodet:


Instead of all these stress, why not just save for some years and just buy a building or apartment.
It saves alot of stress.
I don't know why we haven't cultivated the habit of buying apartments rather this one block today, two bags of cement tomorrow

eepeepook:
Looks like a skit.

Aaaaarghmed:
Too much lies, over 40years.how old she be.lie too much.

ChineduAPC:

Provide proove......elluppee liars gang

UselessBuharist:
One of my parents sold my first house at roofing level, I got wind of it from a friend, I asked and I was further lied to. As if that was not enough dem pressure me to bring money for roofing for house wey dem don sell oo.

I made up my mind that i won’t send #1 for the purpose of that house again and they won’t know anything I do going forward.

2 yrs later I asked my sister to buy another land and start a project, I told her I’ll lodge you in a hotel near the project so that she can finish the project before going back home, I even beg her husband we agree oo she do am to roofing level her husband asked her to come back home. Na so them leave the house, 3 weeks later her husband tell me say dem see one very good land suitable for hostel make I come buy, rush rush I pay oo, they said I should just start the building project immediately, I ask my in-law can you handle it he said yes, na so I begin pump money oo, I give my in-law the job, he gave his friend the job and his friend gave a contractor. Dem chop me nor he small but I didn’t complain because the money dey then and I thought they were using the best materials only to come naija meet 21 cracks for house wey dem complete less than 2 months before I come naija. Before I come I don buy car for my brother in law, when I got to the house I was so disappointed right there I told my sister I will never talk to her again. I went and completed the one she was building before by myself. Long story short I sold the hostel last December the same day I bought another house with money I got from selling the hostel. The hostel was just there, nobody goes there to check, even the agent I gave to help me manage it dey do me anyhow.

Because I nor get anyone else to trust I went to my parents to help me build my living house… this one na another long story.

Me, my sister and her husband are cool now, she is even going to check the house I bought in December on Saturday. She has the documents to all my properties since wife never join but I tell her say if you hear say I close my eyes forever make sure everything goes to my son.

I be senior brother, I carry everything wey happen as part of life, I love my family

UselessBuharist:
One of my parents sold my first house at roofing level, I got wind of it from a friend, I asked and I was further lied to. As if that was not enough dem pressure me to bring money for roofing for house wey dem don sell oo.

I made up my mind that i won’t send #1 for the purpose of that house again and they won’t know anything I do going forward.

2 yrs later I asked my sister to buy another land and start a project, I told her I’ll lodge you in a hotel near the project so that she can finish the project before going back home, I even beg her husband we agree oo she do am to roofing level her husband asked her to come back home. Na so them leave the house, 3 weeks later her husband tell me say dem see one very good land suitable for hostel make I come buy, rush rush I pay oo, they said I should just start the building project immediately, I ask my in-law can you handle it he said yes, na so I begin pump money oo, I give my in-law the job, he gave his friend the job and his friend gave a contractor. Dem chop me nor he small but I didn’t complain because the money dey then and I thought they were using the best materials only to come naija meet 21 cracks for house wey dem complete less than 2 months before I come naija. Before I come I don buy car for my brother in law, when I got to the house I was so disappointed right there I told my sister I will never talk to her again. I went and completed the one she was building before by myself. Long story short I sold the hostel last December the same day I bought another house with money I got from selling the hostel. The hostel was just there, nobody goes there to check, even the agent I gave to help me manage it dey do me anyhow.

Because I nor get anyone else to trust I went to my parents to help me build my living house… this one na another long story.

Me, my sister and her husband are cool now, she is even going to check the house I bought in December on Saturday. She has the documents to all my properties since wife never join but I tell her say if you hear say I close my eyes forever make sure everything goes to my son.

I be senior brother, I carry everything wey happen as part of life, I love my family

officialwdhtv:
American returnee in tears after she saw the "2Storey" building her brother built for her after 40years of living in the USA and sending money to him


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkKu4Zono5g

Ransomware:
Rule 1: Money and Family don't mix, like 2 dicks
Rule 2: A Nigerian will scam you, the level of scam may differ according to conscience but they will scam you
Rule 3: If you want to do something in Nigeria, do it yourself, all those in starch clothes circling you are not people they are vultures
Rule 4: Never lend anyone in Nigeria money. If you want to help simply give them the money and forget about it
Rule 5: Always know that all stories are exaggerated to get your sympathy and eventually fleece money from you.
Rule 6: Please know that this is an accepted way of life in Nigeria, so crying and wailing will not solve the problem. even your father will tell you to forgive and go hustle some more

davillian:
It takes Gods grace and luck...
I've handled couple of projects for my cus outside Nigeria but he gave me penny..
He brought another job I rejected forming busy he gave his sis that one sucked him dry.
He brought another one and I told him find out how much other people can do it for him and minus 40% and pay me 60% that I would do the job and he ran till today.
Sometimes those people there like to use people for free....

OldSkoolHeadBoy:
You are the only one devoid of emotion and thinking straight here ! We already know that anyone having OBI as part of his name lies without a conscience, however I wish to know how much she has sent up to date before passing judgment on Obinna. Most of these people wey don loss for oyinboland would think $50,000 can buy them the whole of Nigeria without realising that is less than N35M at the most favourable exchange rate. This structure that I am looking at would have gulped nothing less than N50M.

Ransomware:


Who have you given money in Nigeria unsupervised to build you a project? How did that turn out?

Come and update us when u have real life experience

UselessBuharist:
One of my parents sold my first house at roofing level, I got wind of it from a friend, I asked and I was further lied to. As if that was not enough dem pressure me to bring money for roofing for house wey dem don sell oo.

I made up my mind that i won’t send #1 for the purpose of that house again and they won’t know anything I do going forward.

2 yrs later I asked my sister to buy another land and start a project, I told her I’ll lodge you in a hotel near the project so that she can finish the project before going back home, I even beg her husband we agree oo she do am to roofing level her husband asked her to come back home. Na so them leave the house, 3 weeks later her husband tell me say dem see one very good land suitable for hostel make I come buy, rush rush I pay oo, they said I should just start the building project immediately, I ask my in-law can you handle it he said yes, na so I begin pump money oo, I give my in-law the job, he gave his friend the job and his friend gave a contractor. Dem chop me nor he small but I didn’t complain because the money dey then and I thought they were using the best materials only to come naija meet 21 cracks for house wey dem complete less than 2 months before I come naija. Before I come I don buy car for my brother in law, when I got to the house I was so disappointed right there I told my sister I will never talk to her again. I went and completed the one she was building before by myself. Long story short I sold the hostel last December the same day I bought another house with money I got from selling the hostel. The hostel was just there, nobody goes there to check, even the agent I gave to help me manage it dey do me anyhow.

Because I nor get anyone else to trust I went to my parents to help me build my living house… this one na another long story.

Me, my sister and her husband are cool now, she is even going to check the house I bought in December on Saturday. She has the documents to all my properties since wife never join but I tell her say if you hear say I close my eyes forever make sure everything goes to my son.

I be senior brother, I carry everything wey happen as part of life, I love my family

Aaaaarghmed:
Too much lies, over 40years.how old she be.lie too much.

Vic74real:
Na waoh.So heartbreaking.But she shd have been coming to Naija from time to time to check nah.It must be that she didn't come home for a long time.I once handled a building in Uyo for an American-based guy.The guy was coming to look him house like 3 times every year

Elmojiid post=122629305[b:
]Family is over rated sometimes, some are good and some are bad if you come from a good family you're lucky no family is perfect[/b]

LastProphet:


God will bless you for your spirit, family is everything. But your son you got secure him with lawyer and documents. Collect the documents from your sister later, tell her how a friend bla blah blah, let your lawyer collect the docs from her, do a will and put everybody you want to put, secure your son. Your sister might fail you again

Jozilinn:
Abeg oga no vex but collect those documents from her,you should have learnt from this earlier get a lawyer to hold those for you for the sake of your son, family dey change oh even the most trusted....you sound pretty rich sir by now you should have known your son is an easy prey for selfish people, everyone wants to fight for their own and their children oh , besides you are the one doing yourself,like seriously your wife is in Nigeria and you are just giving money anyhow to people and exposing yourself,no matter anything your wife knows your son's interest is involved hmmm...No dey carry carry dey give try dey calm down life is too short,thank you sir and God bless you and your family.

sharone21:


But the Lawyer shouldn't hold his landed documents even the will sef . 2e have seen cases where Lawyers are compromised and the family teams up with him.

I wonder why some people are angry with this guy's format when it is similar to Hakimi's( lol).... Trust family members especially hungry family members at your own peril. Father's side dey fall hand many times for Africa.

Any woman he will marry should be God fearing and accept his son... His documents should be inside his home not outside.... In some families, 8t is even the wife that keeps many important documents including marriage certificate etc

Megabig:


You’ve been all over the place, wetin the guy do you bros