I love intelligence but I also love good character. I am in a big state of dilemma as I don't know who to choose between thee two ladies I am currently dating.
I first met with the girl with good character; humble, respectful, cheerful, welcoming and all that are considered morally right.
The second girl is intelligent but rude. She is badly in love with me so she doesn't behave stubbornly towards me.
The truth is that I am deeper in love with the intelligent girl than the one with good character.

What's your take on this?

why would anyone want to settle with someone who is rude aka disrespectful?

MrBrownJay1:
why would anyone want to settle with someone who is rude aka disrespectful?

I am in love with her intelligence. Guy her brilliance is visible to all senses of reasoning and I find her irresistible.

This girl has been head girl since her pre-school to her high school. She's currently the class rep in her department(polytechnic).

We share the same traits: intelligence, leadership, stubbornness, resilience and the rest of them. Moreover, she respects me so much.

You leave good character dey follow rude. Your matter be like rat weh see free fish come leave am to go collect bone for cat mouth.

If you are the type who likes to be dominated by a woman and likes to chop hot slap from time to time, then go for the rude one.
She will help you become the bitch you seem to crave to be.

VictorMessi1:
I am in love with her intelligence. Guy her brilliance is visible to all senses of reasoning and I find her irresistible.
This girl has been head girl since her pre-school to her high school. She's currently the class rep in her department(polytechnic).
We share the same traits: intelligence, leadership, stubbornness, resilience and the rest of them. Moreover, she respects me so much.

bro as much as you guys have much in common, you cant dismiss her flaws because of that... thats a wrong move. nothing you posted up there can make up for her in the future telling you to "shut the fukc up" and/or disrespect you in some other ways. a person who is rude to you has no respect for who you are and/or what you guys have.

it says a lot about someone's character if they cant be nice to you and decide to instead treat you in a foul manner. you better run!

2buffagain:
If you are the type who likes to be dominated by a woman and likes to chop hot slap from time to time, then go for the rude one.
She will help you become the bitch you seem to crave to be.

Even her mama know say them never born her to try dominating me not to talk of slapping me. She can't try that. Girl wey no dey chop any time I bone am.

VictorMessi1:
I love intelli bygence but I also love good character. I am in a big state of dilemma as I don't know who to choose between thee two ladies I am currently dating.
I first met with the girl with good character; humble, respectful, cheerful, welcoming and all that are considered morally right.
The second girl is intelligent but rude. She is badly in love with me so she doesn't behave stubbornly towards me.
The truth is that I am deeper in love with the intelligent girl than the one with good character.

What's your take on this?

VictorMessi1:
I love intelligence but I also love good character. I am in a big state of dilemma as I don't know who to choose between thee two ladies I am currently dating.
I first met with the girl with good character; humble, respectful, cheerful, welcoming and all that are considered morally right.
The second girl is intelligent but rude. She is badly in love with me so she doesn't behave stubbornly towards me.
The truth is that I am deeper in love with the intelligent girl than the one with good character.

What's your take on this?

Bro can u fukkk intelligent or can u fukkk good character sir?... U don't like puccccccci?(no offenscce)

Both traits are highly valued, but then ask yourself, does it mean the one of good characters is not intelligent at all, Can I do something to level up her intelligence? Or can I do something for the one of intelligent to have her character tamed? The choice is yours, remember you are not perfect too.

until she will intelligently disrespect your parents

VictorMessi1:
Even her mama know say them never born her to try dominating me not to talk of slapping me. She can't try that. Girl wey no dey chop any time I bone am.

Sounds like you at least have a back bone. That is good.
That kind of girl will eat up any male wey no be man.

Regardless of her feelings for you now, those feelings will normalize.
The way you see her acting to other people, just know that one day, you will be "those people".
The mistake a lot of people make is: "My babe is rude to everyone, but is nice to me. I must be special". Not knowing that your ego is just thirsty and is about to lead you into certain regret after honeymoon is over.

And this may not be the case for you, but for many guys, they conflate that a girl will act the same way to him when she is broke (and is dependent on him) as when she starts making her own money and does not need to be as dependent. Then you will know that there are 2 men in that house.

That said, We all have things that excite us. Some guys like feisty and rude women.
Maybe that's you. Maybe you lowkey like the prospect of her turning you into her bitch in the future. I don't kink-shame. To each his own.

Its called sapio sexual , in english bro, and ill advice you going for the one with the good character, so that you wont have a generation of brainy-rude kids, peace of mind is everything bro, esp. In our country. Have a nice day.

Who the Bleep would choose a so called intelligent rude woman over a woman of character? One that will bring peace and bliss to your home? You must be out of your mind bro………follow your heart and see where that leads you. Some people prefer to learn from their mistakes I suppose.