I don’t pray for such to happen, but if it does, I will not let it affect the union. I will first ask him why he refused to tell me. He has to tell me a reason. When he does, we will discuss the welfare of the child and how I, as his wife, will take care of the baby as well.

I'll end the marriage or relationship or whatever I have with that my partner

Drjones109:
I don’t pray for such to happen, but if it does, I will not let it affect the union. I will first ask him why he refused to tell me. He has to tell me a reason. When he does, we will discuss the welfare of the child and how I, as his wife, will take care of the baby as well.

before you decide that it will not affect your union, you must first listen to that person's excuse....and technically, if the has babya living mother, you shouldnt be taking care of someone else's child.

the most important issue is to ask your spouse WHY they thought it was better to lie to you.