Salta:
Una no dey disappoint, Thank God I no fall for tricks all the while.

Snitch24:
Why do we have to keep falling I to this same trap
Women have a very very high survival instinct
Powerful enough to control emotions
She's definitely coming to apologize with Bleep
I see no reason why you should want a relationship with such a person
She go still Bleep am again
And it might not even be online him

Salta:
I met this girl barely 3 months and she has been pressuring me to start a relationship with her but I didn't want to commit yet because I want us to be friends so that I can get to know her better. Lately I noticed strange behaviours from her especially this week and she sensed I'm getting to know she is already going out with somebody even though she claimed to like me and will not give me breathing space. I visited her today unannounced and discover a man was in her house and I believe the man was there since yesterday night because she couldn't talk freely and didn't pick my call later in the night.
meanwhile she didn't allow me in ; nobody can tell me that nothing happened between them. I left her place not showing any bad emotions or hanger and the truth is that I have slept in her place like twice too and we had sex.
She will be visiting tomorrow; I don't even know what say or tell her because for me no relationship in view again even though she looked innocent. Please I need advice on way forward

CLATHRIN:


Bros, if you really love yourself, don't mess with your psychology. Let go of that which will ruin you. Let God into your life and live with a purpose. It's obvious how weak you are, don't you see that you are playing the devils' pony here? You can barely let go of this girl, isn't that a weakness to you? Why invite a masquerade into your home? The telltale signs are there already yet you can't seem to let go. Infections, the risk of becoming an emotional wreck, alienation from God, spiritual death and a possible derailment of your career. Take heed brother.

Salta:

Thank you for this, I am actually planning to settle down and of all the ladies around I felt she will be different but my spirit kept telling me to hold on and not give in yet and boom this happened

Snitch24:


Women don't cheat for fun
It's always intensional
Brace up
Make sure you have a very good sex with her
Tell her immediately after that you're longer interested

GboyegaD:
Trying to understand your anger. You are not in a relationship with her and you guys already sleeping with each other. What are you angry about?

Salta:
I met this girl barely 3 months and she has been pressuring me to start a relationship with her but I didn't want to commit yet because I want us to be friends so that I can get to know her better. Lately I noticed strange behaviours from her especially this week and she sensed I'm getting to know she is already going out with somebody even though she claimed to like me and will not give me breathing space. I visited her today unannounced and discover a man was in her house and I believe the man was there since yesterday night because she couldn't talk freely and didn't pick my call later in the night.
meanwhile she didn't allow me in ; nobody can tell me that nothing happened between them. I left her place not showing any bad emotions or hanger and the truth is that I have slept in her place like twice too and we had sex.
She will be visiting tomorrow; I don't even know what say or tell her because for me no relationship in view again even though she looked innocent. Please I need advice on way forward

Ahmed0336:
Bro, dust your shoe and begin a new hunt for future wiffy.