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Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 4:01pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
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Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by frozen70(f): 4:15pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Makakween: Yours is just a pity story Have you reached out to your family for them to know that you are in a tight corner or you are keeping your situation away from them Let's start from there pls 1 Like |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by ahnie: 4:42pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
You never ready to hustle and help yourself.if you re ready,you go go fyne person whine borrow money. Go outside into the street and look for hustles your mate are doing,then delve into it. Food business is lucrative,mama you don necessarily needs to owned a shop,look for empty space,pay a token and cook your food ontop table for night and sell. Keep your pride or shame aside,shame nor dey help anybody,stay focus on your hustling and everywhere go stew. It irks me when I see married women becoming liabilities on their husbands.when you as a wife has something doing that brings money and takes you out from the house,your husband sef go fear to talk to you. Before you accuse me of trying to break your heavenly marriage,nne I m married too,but as a veteran in the game,when a woman starts making money ,it stops see finish and over familiarity in marriage. And pls try focus on your kids,do not joke with them at all,I do not joke with mine one bit.my husband doesn't necessarily has to give me money before I eat . Because I don use my blessed hands construct my own table. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Mindlog: 4:57pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
How long have you been married to him? Is the mother of his daughter actively in the child's life? Was she living with her father before you got married to him? As for being economically engaged, ahnie has shown you the path to follow. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Foodqueen(f): 5:02pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
U don't need any financial help now, cos if u are given, u will still use everything for the house just to please your husband. Weren't you aware of the relationship he had with his daughter before you married him 3 Likes |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by anthonyuncle(m): 5:45pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Makakween: na here the problem start 1 Like |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 11:02am On Apr 24, 2023 |
ahnie:You are absolutely right thank you ma. 1 Like |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 11:06am On Apr 24, 2023 |
Foodqueen:No I won't,at this junction I can't keep going back to square one and running around again,I have really stopped doing it except when it's my personal things so right now I need something so that I won't come back for more... please if you want to help me don't hesitate to. No I wasn't aware of the relationship then cos she was never with him then. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by ahnie: 11:11am On Apr 24, 2023 |
Lemmi share you some small tip. My dear,you see that food business pls kindly look into it. Look for a small junction that's a flash point,stay there in the evening,be consistent always and I bet you within 6 months make I know why your level nor go change considerably. The lady I buy food from most nights,makes as a elfmore than 150k per night,her 3 kids and husband has even joined her because of the influx of customers,the least of her food goes for 1500 naira. But pls endeavor to have good altitude towards your customers,be nice,be humble,and above all respect your self as a married woman. Pls think about it. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 24, 2023 |
Mindlog:No she wasn't living with him, the worst part is the mother isn't involved in the child life, but she communicates with my husband, funny enough I always try to reach out to her to atleast talk to her daughter but she never acknowledges this...So I had to maintain myself. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 11:16am On Apr 24, 2023 |
frozen70:If my family was willing to help me before I would never have gotten married or nobody would have even rendered me this way. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Mindlog: 11:21am On Apr 24, 2023 |
Makakween: Who was the child staying with before she came to live with both of you? |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by frozen70(f): 11:31am On Apr 24, 2023 |
Makakween: I think there more to what is happening to you Helping you is not a rocket science, when I know that you are not an orphan Your family doesn't want to help Your spouse doesn't want to help It's strange that I am still trying to understand exactly why you |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 12:57pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
frozen70:My dad family were just making promises upon promises after his demise, nothing came forth leaving us to fend for ourselves,I never got the privilege of learning a trade cos of momsy health while my momsy side only wanted us to work for them telling us we would never be greater than their kids and enslaving us theirs was worse. I have siblings but they are still struggling as well,and the others are my junior...My dad's cash was collected by his family leaving us with nothing to hold onto, it's just God oh. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 12:58pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Mindlog:Her aunt. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Mindlog: 1:21pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Makakween: From her mother to her aunt, then to her father who is now living with his wife.....that kid has been tossed around and her behavioural disorder being enabled! The young child is struggling with her own issues, you are struggling with yours and your husband is also struggling with his own......so the dysfunctionality in the family is not odd. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by frozen70(f): 1:46pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Makakween:What a pathetic situation No wonder they hurriedly made an arrangy marriage |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by MumEmdy(f): 2:10pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
ahnie: Good advice. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by ahnie: 2:20pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
MumEmdy:That's the raw truth I told her,most married women here,their husbands doesn't give them faden,we use our brains to fig out a way to help ourselves,for the sakes of our kids. And above all,it's good for a woman to have something doing,it eases stress from the man, because he also is dealing with his issues. There re lots of hustles to indulge in,that brings in money daily.shr just has to potopoto her eyes in other to achieve financial independence or na her kids go suffer. |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by MumEmdy(f): 3:41pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
ahnie: That's just it, you've said it all!! |
Re: Is Silence Going To Be The Only Solution. by Nobody: 6:41pm On Apr 24, 2023 |
Mindlog:Hmmm 🤔 |
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