My new gf is very unusual compared to any other girl I’ve dated.
She initiates sex way more often, almost every day, but is super specific.
She tells me exactly what she wants me to do, generally first kissing and touching just how she wants, then eating her out in a very specific way, then penetrate her exactly how she desires. Everything is centered on her pleasure.
I brought this up and she tells me she can only enjoy sex when she has full control. If I ask her to do something for me, like a bj, she says that is demeaning.
Has anyone been in a similar position? Any tips on how to snap her out of this?