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Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by icon91(m): 6:07pm On May 04, 2023 |
Just do as he said, ask your wife to be to do a fertility test but don't tell her your dad said so, how well do you know your fiancee? How well do you know her background, family etc? As a Medical prof, Dad, Elder, Husband, Uncle...your dad's life experiences can't be same with yours, he has seen & experienced things you're yet to see & experience, besides do you think he's doing this for himself From experience, I'd suggest you just do as he says, no much questions asked, no be everything father dy tell him son Just do it, no stress/prolong am Goodluck! |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Enemyofpeace: 6:07pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind:chei! Americana don vex |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by lebron7(m): 6:08pm On May 04, 2023 |
ednut1:Lmao So is it worth the stress in the end? |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by lordtriplee(m): 6:08pm On May 04, 2023 |
It is a no brainer. Do a fertility test before you get married so you can know what is ahead. Make pastor for no open office for una head |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by victorazy(m): 6:08pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: Why you come sample his dress here. Your papa too love you my guy. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by simfrost90210: 6:08pm On May 04, 2023 |
AngelicBeing: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sharp Shooter..... I like your way, babe..👍 |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Sunisonflex39(m): 6:08pm On May 04, 2023 |
ednut1: Please I can do the investigator work.. Make Sapa no kill me abeg..I am serious |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by eroticecstasy: 6:08pm On May 04, 2023 |
lebron7: Don't mind him! |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by prophetfire: 6:09pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind:. Your dad is telling you the truth. Even if the girl has problems with her fertility, you have to know before hand. In marriage everything is laid bare. No hidden things or nondisclosure. Even in churches now, they mandate couples to do fertility test before wedding to enable you know before hand what you are getting into. When you know it, you can now make your decision. So as not to say tomorrow that you didn't know. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by descarado: 6:09pm On May 04, 2023 |
eroticecstasy:50% of fertility problems are caused by the man. Get your facts right. As she is doing, he too is running his own fertility checks. Guy is in late 30, most likely to start having bigger fertility problem in present day Nigeria where an average man of 25 is already having erectile dysfunction. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by fof1: 6:09pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: As it Pleases you...since you can not tell her.. Allow ur Dad to handle it in a very Matured Wag during her maiden visit to them,Pls. That is even the most appropriate time...and to show her his Seriousness or acceptance of her as his Daughter in law. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by africantony: 6:09pm On May 04, 2023 |
Just tell her the both of you need to visit the hospital for a check up, tell her you normally do that , since you are an American citizen it won't sound somehow |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by AyomideOG01: 6:09pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: You met a godly Nigerian girl on Facebook and you are dating her from United States abi... make una dey play 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by AngelicBeing: 6:09pm On May 04, 2023 |
simfrost90210:Hian, are you referring to me or the person l quoted, huh |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Lekmanz87(m): 6:10pm On May 04, 2023 |
[quote author=JeffreyJunior post=122896304]You guys have been dating online, have only known each other for 10 months and she has already agreed to marry you. Lord have mercy.😮 You really need to slow down, dude. No wonder your dad feels uncomfortable. I'm sure you are currently lying to him about knowing your woman so well and all that sh1t just like I lied to my folks too.😄 Been there, done that and I have a feeling you're headed the same path that I did. Thanks to heavens, things fell apart and it was like the shells in my eyes fell off. You may not be as lucky as I was and once you're all in, your clock of destruction starts ticking. Exactly my thought…you haven’t met her before Spend few times together to see her behavior and you just decided to marry her,no be so na…slow down bro 😎 I totally support your dad’s decision |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by slam7000(m): 6:10pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: You are a boy in a man’s body. Your replies to various inputs here reflects the kind of person that you are. This is strictly a family affair and a decision you should take as a man but you are not doing that because you haven’t grown. If this was my sister, I’ll advise her to stay away from you. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Foodqueen(f): 6:10pm On May 04, 2023 |
Your babe go don see the thread o. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Sizwezi: 6:11pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: Tell your pops to calm down. He is in no place to tell her to do that. All he has to do is be patient for you to tell her. As for you, all you need do is find the best possible way to tell your fiancée and convince her to do it. If it’s even possible for you to do another test in the same hospital with her, so she knows it’s a two way thing, then it’s better. If she refuses to do it , find out her reason, if you find it reasonable, then it’s your turn to convince your pops. But if it’s not making sense, move on with your life and find another girl. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by eroticecstasy: 6:11pm On May 04, 2023 |
descarado: Next time read with understanding sir |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Arrahman39: 6:11pm On May 04, 2023 |
Pls social media is not the best place to seek for advised on sensitive matter like this... Some of the comentors are not even married yet nor did they are have a child, but using logic to give advised on the matter... Listen if you really wants to settle down and enjoyed your marriage pls remove emotional thinking and face the reality by doing what is right... Fertility test is one of the test you should do before proposing or are you telling me your father is more enlightened than you? You should be greatful to your dad for the advised... Pls man go and do the test .... If you don't know how to present it for her, you guys should all carryout the test ... |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by ednut1(m): 6:12pm On May 04, 2023 |
lebron7:its 50: 50 , with the babes there its 90:10. At least you don born like 2 kids with someone with family values wey fit raise them. Unlike the ones there wey get 5 kids with 4 men 😅😅. There are many easy babes in Nigeria too. If abroad guy with papers toast 10 9ja babes. At least 8 go gree marriage with cheap ring and only registry and no honeymoon 😀. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by TUANKU(m): 6:13pm On May 04, 2023 |
That one no be your papa problem na abi e get wetin we no know? |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by simfrost90210: 6:13pm On May 04, 2023 |
AngelicBeing: Wahala no dey finish ... hanty I'm referring to the quotee not the quoter |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by IMASTEX: 6:14pm On May 04, 2023 |
Exodus15v11:The bolded is obviously the case. Don't be surprised he hasn't also considered genotype factor. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Mitchy49(m): 6:15pm On May 04, 2023 |
Rokiat: The kind of people on Nairaland these days, na only God fit help Dem o. So uncultured |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by riverbird: 6:15pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: I support your dad on this 100% considering what Nigerian girls have turned to, yes it may be true that your fiencee is from a godly home but guy you are in far away America while she's in this hell hole so I take it that you might know just a little about her except what she presents to you, and one more thing.....if you have family in Nigeria I did suggest they also do some background checks too. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Sunisonflex39(m): 6:15pm On May 04, 2023 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=122901445] How about you pay an investigator to find about yourself? Majority of you diasporans will use your hand to come for homebased partners, then peace of mind would depart them. Save yourself the stress and marry there. The guy is 38 and SINGLE, but na the girl you wan pay to investigate. So the OP hasn't visited another woman's house since he was born? Diasporans always claiming spotless by virtue of foreign citizenship. Na all these girls wey fit die to marry abroad guy una fit do this one for. Bunch of narcissists! [/ Longest time..were have you been |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Watcharena: 6:15pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind:nothing is difficult there we are in an ultra modern world all those are normal marriage protocols the one should do on normal day ,don't leave anything in dought, there is no harm in telling her you need a fertility test , it is normal, all those things that we tend to ignore in order not to annoy our partners before marriage are the things that will come and hunt us during the marriage. Any thing that is import or you care about you can ask and clarify , it is better to have issues before marriage t after marriage , beside you dad is a doctor he is not just speaking as a dad but as a professional with a lot of experience , he knows what he has handled as a doctor , |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by MrSly(m): 6:18pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind:Na you dragged him to the Internet. You disrespected him first. Meanwhile are you going to be spoonfed by your dad at every critical decision? Why would you wait for your dad to tell you the right thing at all time and even at that you are still here talking jargons. I sure your dad will be disappointed by the time he comes across your tread. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by tesuto1(m): 6:19pm On May 04, 2023 |
This is simple na. As soon as you get to Nigeria go with her to a lab and run all necessary tests,do yours too so she wouldn't be suspicious of anything. |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by lebron7(m): 6:19pm On May 04, 2023 |
ednut1:Lmao This logic makes a lot more sense |
Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Sunisonflex39(m): 6:19pm On May 04, 2023 |
pocohantas: You always make sense...you are loved |
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