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Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya: 1:47pm On May 07, 2023 |
NoToPile: Everyone has a bias. Do you have answers ? |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by lanocfoods: 1:55pm On May 07, 2023 |
ahnie:Very very nonsense, nothing to add 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Aladdin1(m): 2:54pm On May 07, 2023 |
Dimaya:You have a valid point which is also factual.but its not always the norm.just leave a womans age and try to find out the number of abortions she have done in the past. a lady who is 45 can still give birth easily provided she have not damaged her womb through abortions. it does not matter if shes 20yrs.the number of abortion that many girls have done would shock even the devil. 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Zigzagman: 3:03pm On May 07, 2023 |
Dimaya: This is what my bros is suffering. He married one 34 year old girl like that wey dey do phd and for almost 4 years, no child. Last year, when he got tired for the waiting, na so e quick give one corper belle. Their traditional marriage is next week. The old wife is complaining but the whole family is behind the new girl. if you tell them, if dem no hear... na their palaver be that.... |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Zigzagman: 3:09pm On May 07, 2023 |
Mindlog: bros, forget all dis ur engrish. better suffer neva nack you. I know wetin my family suffer for d hand of one sista like dat wey no fit born pikin for my bros come dey insult us say she no dey our level. all because say she dey lecture for poly. any man wey want pikin no suppose marry all dis evening newspaper wey full town. If u no wetin women dey use their body do, u no go marry anyone wey don old.... |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by ObiaboAdoka(m): 3:32pm On May 07, 2023 |
[quote author=dawnomike post=122970984]I wonder oooo... In a country like Nigeria where the average age to graduate from university is 23[/ Hope d age u mentioned above is for private universities not public one. |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by olabrinks(f): 3:52pm On May 07, 2023 |
Dimaya:I’m not even talking about myself, I’m talking about in general. No matter the counsel, at 23 a woman doesn’t have the emotional maturity and stability to handle a home. It comes later in your late 20s. Like I said it’s only the grace of God that help some women and in the long run it always builds up resentment and bitterness. Nobody should rush into marriage for the sole reason of having kids on time. Children are not accessories or toys, it takes a lot to raise mentally stable and responsible children. A woman at 23/22 still wants to live her life, she just an advanced teenager. 6 Likes |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by olabrinks(f): 4:13pm On May 07, 2023 |
Zigzagman:even if she gives birth to 5 children your family will still insult her for something. People will always find a way to insult you, that is life. The people that are raising children will not tell you the stress and heartache it takes to raise those kids.. let everybody carry their cross. A 30 year old woman is not barren, life can happen to anyone. You find a woman that will ride with you till the end of time, she has fertility issues, what do you ? Children that will still grow up and leave you when you’re old. Some of you need to wake up. 5 Likes |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Princessdainty(m): 11:16am On May 08, 2023 |
Africans and breeding like rabbit. Imagine the quality that makes a wife, ability to breed. Not your brain. You wonder why you're the world Poverty Capital dormain! 3 Likes |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya: 6:57pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
Princessdainty: When women make money, they typically don't share it with their husbands. If a woman can't bear children, then why would a man bind himself till death unto her, especially if he wants kids? I'm asking questions o |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Nazgul: 9:18pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
Persephone1:You read a post on Nairaland. Are you surprised? 🙄 |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Jman06(m): 10:19pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
Op, I have stated the same view times without number on this forum but people always respond emotionally to the matter. Women's fertility declines with age and that is the fact! The worst is that some unscrupulous wives would connive with equally unscrupulous doctors and find a way to put the blame on the man. They'll accuse the man of having low sperm count while hiding the real problem from him. They do that in a bid to prevent the man from dumping his wife or marrying another. I have seen many of such cases especially when the man is not literate. |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Jman06(m): 10:28pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
olabrinks:This is not true! My mom got married at 15. By 30 she was already done with childbearing and if you see her today with my eldest sister, you'll think they're sisters. Nature endowed women with everything they need to bear children and raise a family early enough. Mental maturity is relative. The fact that you're not matured even at 30 doesn't mean there aren't 18yo girls who're matured enough to raise a family. |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya: 12:49pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
Jman06: Please tell them. Let them know not everyone is buying into the madness of the west. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Zigzagman: 4:55pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
which kain stupid persin dey talk say e neva too late. no be why plenty girls dey get problem with belle today |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya: 8:25pm On Jul 07, 2023 |
Jman06: Our ancestors knew what they were doing when they insisted women get married in their late teens. Now we have immature twenty years olds who wait until they're eggs are spent before they get married 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Zigzagman: 1:46pm On Jul 08, 2023 |
olabrinks: dis one na bad advice. 23 year old girl na advanced teenager. madam, stop misleading these girls. |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by orjibra1: 11:18am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Werey don't be 'some' dawnomike: |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya: 9:03pm On Jul 13, 2023 |
orjibra1: |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by ideamonster: 1:36pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
culf: OP is not putting pressure on anybody. He is just telling you reality. The number of aunties in my church who got married in their mid-thirties and are now having difficulty bearing children is mind-boggling. I know at least 20. I am not exaggerating- twenty! I wonder whether it is the food or water that we are drinking or something else that is causing it. However, if you want to marry almost 40, go ahead. just dont discourage the young ones with advice not to |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Worriedwife: 3:13pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Jman06: Your dad is a paedophile. Sleeping and impregnating a 15 yrz old girl. Apart from looking like sisters with her daughter, what else has your mum achieved? 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya: 4:05pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Worriedwife: You'd be surprised his mom has learnt a lot. She has learnt to manage a home, raise responsible children. dont shame women for making responsible choices. Up till 1960, most people died before age of 40. It wasn't unusual to be a grandfather at the age of 35-40. |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Worriedwife: 6:58pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Dimaya: People didn't die at 40. They lived longer. No difference between his father and those randy alhajis in northern nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Jman06(m): 9:35pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Worriedwife:That was what obtained during their time. Most girls married at that age. She has been able to train ALL her children upto university level and I don't mean just anyhow kind of training o rather she trained professionals comprising of two doctors, three engineers and my humble self a Pharmacist. And as a matter of fact, she's still very healthy and enjoying the fruits of her labour right now. Same cannot be said of your own mother who probably married in her 30s. |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Worriedwife: 10:04pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Jman06: At least my dad didn't leave my mother to train ALL her kids alone after impregnating her at 15. |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by Dimaya: 7:01am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Worriedwife: This is rude |
Re: Husbands: Is It Risky To Marry A Woman Above Age 25 If You Want Kids? by ideamonster: 12:59pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Dimaya: true talk |
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