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Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by kwasoly(m): 8:28pm On May 19, 2023 |
babaYIBO: How old are you? |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Sirchiboy: 8:58pm On May 19, 2023 |
babaYIBO:. How old are you now? |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by intruder15(m): 9:29pm On May 19, 2023 |
babaYIBO: Let it flow. What do I mean? Does she ask you about your finances from a potential billing perspective? I guess not based on what you described of her. Women that naturally bill you will bill you more when they know you earn more. Women that naturally don't bill you won't feel any different if they knew you were earning more. Several things works for several people. Each have it's pros and cons which are heavily dependent on the parties involved. Hence, follow your heart taking into consideration; * Her financial meticulousness * Your financial meticulousness * Her billing tendencies * Your extravagant spending tendencies. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Karlifate: 10:04pm On May 19, 2023 |
ibechris: Once a guy feels he can buy 3-square meals, the next thing he thinks about is marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Freelancerr(m): 10:28pm On May 19, 2023 |
If she didn't ask, don't tell her! |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by professore(m): 10:54pm On May 19, 2023 |
Jennyclay:you are just making someone like you, yet you won't reply. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Blackdisciple(m): 11:04pm On May 19, 2023 |
She knows or not I don't care if I will do anything I will do it and if I will not then she can't force me besides Na me dey wake up early go hustle for the raba no be she. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by godwinstringed1(m): 11:08pm On May 19, 2023 |
Jennyclay: I don't comment on NL, but I've been noticing some of your insensitive takes to pressing matters. She shouldn't settle for less. Look at your reasoning, you too hear yourself. You have zero needs to appeal your low-thinking aura and expectations on what he earns. That's how we harm potential green relationships. Someone doing an international remote job is earning 100k. You probably have zero ideas what a cool digital skill like he describes remunerates per month. Just shut up. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by professore(m): 11:40pm On May 19, 2023 |
Cutehector:see finishing |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Coolgent(m): 11:41pm On May 19, 2023 |
silverkings:Amin Bro. God bless you too |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Xylon: 12:58am On May 20, 2023 |
ERCROSS:E no tire you?? 27 dumbasses!! |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Xylon: 1:03am On May 20, 2023 |
Jennyclay:Who do you like this?? Small play you begin dey attack the guy. You need to heal, seriously!!! |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by xamodans: 4:01am On May 20, 2023 |
I think you shouldn't expose such to her for now.Save and invest, venture into very good business and get financially stable for marriage first, cause marriage is a very different game from singlehood.. Fine, she's not asking because she knows you didn't have, but when she knows you have she will definitely ask cause she needs things to settle, and that isn't wrong brother.. babaYIBO: |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by adeememman(m): 4:40am On May 20, 2023 |
What is a fiancee? If you say wife now, I can still give you 50% go ahead so far you know hers and she's very supportive so you can both plan well for future. Even at that you must create some extra source of income to avoid see finish. There is this adage I will try translate( A man must always have extra for emergencies if you want your woman to respect you). You can disclose but try get some side hustles that can bring some change, save that as security or for plan B in case of unforseen. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by deltateam: 5:25am On May 20, 2023 |
babaYIBO: It's a good thing she didn't ask you so why do you want to create problems for yourself? By the time she starts comparing things you buy for her with your salary you'll say Nigerian girls are greedy. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Mjshexy(f): 5:40am On May 20, 2023 |
When you guys are finally married you can, it's not a bad idea. Not only did my mum know my late dad's Monthly income, we the children also did. It's just a simple world and we don't have to make it harder for ourselves |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by stanisbaratheon: 6:41am On May 20, 2023 |
babaYIBO: Don't let other people's expectations put you in a tight corner. Most people where I work are married and for that reason some of them are subliminally taunting me to go and get married, including my manager. I always laugh. If you get married and run into trouble nobody will help you oh. So just do your thing when you are ready and don't give into that pressure of getting married because you are 30 something. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Godsongang: 7:45am On May 20, 2023 |
it your choice and whatever comes out of it, be ready to face. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by DMCY: 10:03am On May 20, 2023 |
babaYIBO: There’s a reason men are always told not to let women know all their forms of income😂. Hopefully you tell her how much you earn so you can learn the hard way. After all they say experience is the best teacher lol |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Odogwupedro(m): 1:26pm On May 20, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Why are you taking this personally. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by robbase: 1:52pm On May 20, 2023 |
You try that, and you are in for troubles; even your wife shouldn't know. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Thomasankara(m): 5:04pm On May 20, 2023 |
[/color] she's a comedian,i guess she doesn't see herself like a human who's capable of determining her future,maybe she see her future clutched to a man, she's like a pet own by her master[color=#770077] LivingSage: |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Thomasankara(m): 5:06pm On May 20, 2023 |
[/color] that's the power of social media,it validate nonsense and suspends critical and independent reasoning [color=#770077] ERCROSS: |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Jollymich(m): 6:47pm On May 20, 2023 |
You No no dey disappoint |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by placeofallure(f): 7:52pm On May 20, 2023 |
In family affairs, there's no one-size-fits-all anywhere because what works for 'A' may not work for 'B' Hubby and I don't hide anything from each other. I know what he's worth and he knows mine too. I think he's convenient doing that because he knows I'm not a spendthrift you. We only do the necessary things, no frivolities. I like people who are responsible around money. It's a great asset. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by PeterObi4LP: 9:07pm On May 20, 2023 |
silverkings: Nothing is wrong with that. |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by tosinhtml: 10:31am On May 21, 2023 |
ibkayee: . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by Chidolalar: 12:03pm On May 22, 2023 |
stanisbaratheon: My exact thoughts! When u have problem nobody will be ready to assist u but they will be d one to pressurize that person to get married. |
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