Pius4luv2023:
, I have to compose a message to her that she should be patient that everything is going to be ok it just a matter of time that she should endure a little bit thou I don't always give her money whenever she ask , she is very understand, after sending her a text message this morning she reply me that she isn't happy that she has no husband no happiness no money that she is fed up about her life that she is going to prison, here is her text message she sent to me this morning and I'm not ready to get marry for now thou I'm a divorcee, I already have 2 kids with my ex

opera1:
Talk to her and ask her why she's going to prison coz suicide and going to prison are not the same thing.

Houseontherock1:


What crime did she commit that may take her to prison next week? I think she's more scared of going to prison than not having a husband. She probably thinks she wouldn't have been in this mess if she had money or a husband. All the same, suicide is not the answer. Don't marry her by force, that may be bad for you as well, but try as much as you can to help her get out of the situation that may take her to prison.

Pius4luv2023:


Maybe she is trying to commit a crime that's why she is saying that I've call her to calm her down that she didn't need all what she is saying that everything will be ok

okoIYAyin:

Steady259:


Dear comrade, under no circumstances should you be cajoled to marry this lady, trust me situations like this leads to a lot of regret and "had I know".

From what I understand by your post, you need to get up, man up, and double your hustle so as to accommodate future responsibilities...


As for her, you dint shed lights on why she thinks she is going to prison, but just assure her that despites all negativites surrounding her life at the moment, she still has reasons to thank God, so let her ignore the idea of suicide


In summary, help yourself before trying to help another.

Olokobintin:
I hope no be you she go kill go prison? You better watch your moves with her bro.

Omakraid:
Tell her to move on if you cant afford to feed a family yet.. Things are getting expensive and you should not let emotional blackmail get you into what you are not ready for.

She said no money, she also said if you had settled down with her all these won't be happening.. Will selling with her bring money? Open your eyes and your heart oo.

Davidave:
Time to break up. Dont waste her time if you are not on the same page as her.

Pius4luv2023:
■ she is very understand, after sending her a text message this morning she reply me that she isn't happy that she has no husband no happiness no money that she is fed up about her life that she is going to prison, here is her text message she sent to me this morning and I'm not ready to get marry for now thou I'm a divorcee, I already have 2 kids with my ex , i hope she isnt teasing me, I will need a mature advice from you guys should I marry her or should I be patient till when every thing will be ok with me ?

Ishilove:
Does she intend to commit a crime? Why is she "soon going to prison"?

Anyways, she is speaking from a place of deep frustration. Tough times don't last. Only tough people do.

Pius4luv2023:



I don't know her mind precisely but I'm scared to be around her and I have block her number

Ishilove:

She has deeper issues you can't handle. However, blocking her is not the solution. Simply tell her you don't want the relationship anymore so she can have closure. Blocking her the way you have will only make you seem callous and will worsen whatever situation she is facing

Pius4luv2023:
Please I want to stay anonymous I just open a new account, I have a girlfriend, we have been dating for the past 2 years now but I'm not yet ready to get marry to her yet because I'm not yet Ok, I'm Still trying to survive, I'm doing a menial job to survive for now, to cut the long story short I received a text message from her this morning that she is going to commit suicide, I was scared when I saw her message this morning, i have to call her immediately becus I was afraid, I have to compose a message to her that she should be patient that everything is going to be ok it just a matter of time that she should endure a little bit thou I don't always give her money whenever she ask , she is very understand, after sending her a text message this morning she reply me that she isn't happy that she has no husband no happiness no money that she is fed up about her life that she is going to prison, here is her text message she sent to me this morning and I'm not ready to get marry for now thou I'm a divorcee, I already have 2 kids with my ex , i hope she isnt teasing me, I will need a mature advice from you guys should I marry her or should I be patient till when every thing will be ok with me ?