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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:30pm On Jun 08, 2023
Ebenezer2021:
you've always been senseless.
Not surprised

Thank you.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Prettygirl200(f): 5:40pm On Jun 08, 2023
Rayban25:


People like prettygirl200 omo nobody loves her at all..
I dunno need any mother fuckers love here, no be una mamma or papa dey feed me, bunch of lunatics!!
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Eagba(m): 5:41pm On Jun 08, 2023
SeaTrade:
My mom still checking up on me almost daily like I'm still a child,and we always talk at length.
She knows my every affairs and move ,and we make critical decisions in my life and business together(she's very business savvy anyways).
Bailed me out numerous times when bankruptcy and indebtedness want finish my life some few years ago.
Always gives me courage and second assurance to do something I'm not comfortable with(morale giver).
Rescued me from serious trouble many times and is willing to sacrifice all she worked for in her life to see me grow and stabilise.
The love no be here jarey,I thank the universe for giving me a mother like her,and clearly she's the reason I'm where I am today.
Love you Ngozi.
Hope you are not among those always insulting Nigerian girls

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Divay22(f): 5:42pm On Jun 08, 2023
I can't measure her love for me o....
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by shantti(m): 5:44pm On Jun 08, 2023
Where are those bitter lot that are saying that 80% of Nigerian men are dead beat dads. U won't see them here

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by shantti(m): 5:45pm On Jun 08, 2023
If i start writing abt the love my family have shown me, I won't finish this year.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Ex0rrcist: 5:54pm On Jun 08, 2023
kemese:


I had an fatal accident many years back and i was admitted to FMC. My parents never kept me lonely. They switch time. My dad would leave his work to come stay with me same with mama.
They both slept on the floor (a small space) beside me every night till I was due.
Same thing happened to me in 2012, I was in the church for a whole month with my whole family living in one room provided by the church. I was sick then, I missed a whole term, my mom was always by my side despite been a very busy woman. I love my parent so much, I hope they live longer to witness great things.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Timoleon(m): 6:00pm On Jun 08, 2023
Near fatal maybe.
kemese:


I had an fatal accident many years back and i was admitted to FMC. My parents never kept me lonely. They switch time. My dad would leave his work to come stay with me same with mama.
They both slept on the floor (a small space) beside me every night till I was due.
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Timoleon(m): 6:03pm On Jun 08, 2023
Why was your mum sharing tears?
ify2016:
When I was diagnosed for appendicitis and admitted for operation.

My Dad and mum took their annual leave just to be with me in the hospital despite the fact that am the 3rd son. This happened when it's only 2 weeks to my NYSC camp.

My mum shared tears when I finally woke after being lifeless for 24hrs due to injection I received before the commencement of the operation. They thought I won't come back again. It's touching when Mum was telling me.
May God Almighty keep them alive for me. Amen.


May God bless all the parents dead and alive around the world.
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Acidosis(m): 6:16pm On Jun 08, 2023
folake4u:


For life!!!!😋😊

grin grin grin

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Gubioma: 6:23pm On Jun 08, 2023
Ismael97:
I've never been loved because I don't know what love means at all. I was a posthumous child. Lost my dad when my mum was pregnant. Shortly after birth, I lost my mum. I have no siblings. I lived with relatives who maltreated me so much that I thought they even had issues with my late parents cos I have never seen such dehumanizing treatment before except only in movies. Up till now, I hate people due to the psychological impact of the maltreatment I got from the people I lived with. I like been alone most times because I trust nobody, I can't confide in people because I feel nobody got my back. I was so determined to at least get education for myself and today I am glad I did. However I am still struggling
Insha Allah we shall make it broh
The same thing happen to me.I lost my mom when I'm only four years.maltreatment from my step mother,her children and also my dad.
But now I'm doing good happily married with beautiful children.

Dan Borno kanuri Boy.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by charleybam(m): 6:27pm On Jun 08, 2023
Omo, i have never been loved at home, infact i dey see shege daily
Mumsy is so materialistic and always uses every opportunity to insult me for being broke after she led me on the wrong path, my sister once told me that i don't know anything and she never apologized instead she bought me boxers and never said common "I'm sorry"

Life has really been a rollercoaster ever since my dad died but i am so faithful.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by davien(m): 6:39pm On Jun 08, 2023
I was sick and my dad drove all the way to see me in school. Even when I told him I'll get better.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Cloudflare: 6:39pm On Jun 08, 2023
Rosaline5000:
I have no home, my mum and Dad are both dead and early this year I made a bad investment and I lost everything.
Right now I am broken and so freaking broke, I am just living with the hope that everything will get better but even that hope I am slowing losing it.
I am just frustrated

What kind of investment was it?
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Ismael97(m): 6:57pm On Jun 08, 2023
Gubioma:
Insha Allah we shall make it broh
The same thing happen to me.I lost my mom when I'm only four years.maltreatment from my step mother,her children and also my dad.
But now I'm doing good happily married with beautiful children.

Dan Borno kanuri Boy.

Hmmm. Thank God for your life bro. I tap into that Grace.
Pls send me ur number
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Rosaline5000: 7:11pm On Jun 08, 2023
Cloudflare:


What kind of investment was it?

A very bad one
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Prechimakanaki: 7:22pm On Jun 08, 2023
When i checked my result back then in the polytechnic in one of the semesters and discovered i had 4 carry overs in just a semester alone after having upper credits in my ND1 section,ND2 first semester i went to check i see i had 4 carry overs i dont know how it happened,so i had extra year.
I called my dad and told him about it that dad I checked my result and i saw i had 4 carryovers that same dad I usually tell my nd1 1st and second semester result to and he was always happy and praise me for making him proud,well after telling him he told me not to worry that i should focus on the next semester and I shouldn’t worry about the extension that i have that he will pay for everything and I should not worry at all. To cut the long story short o wrote the extension the upper year and pass them all and graduated with a lower credit.but i thank God today that i went for my hnd and came out in flying color and i have even finished serving.thanks to my lovely dad

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jun 08, 2023
Rosaline5000:
I have no home, my mum and Dad are both dead and early this year I made a bad investment and I lost everything.
Right now I am broken and so freaking broke, I am just living with the hope that everything will get better but even that hope I am slowing losing it.
I am just frustrated

Come I'll adopt you
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by MisterBanny(m): 7:43pm On Jun 08, 2023
ebuka10box:
bro sorry bout that ,u sound like a good person though. I'm not a rich guy or wealthy In any way but what can I do to show u we love u ... U tell me

God bless you as you help. Stories like this tear me apart.
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Cloudflare: 7:43pm On Jun 08, 2023
Q
Rosaline5000:


A very bad one

The investment no let you explain?
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Zonefree(m): 8:00pm On Jun 08, 2023
Algold:
I normally send some December money to my parents before December, last December I had it bit tough so I could not do it. Early this year I sent some money to my parents separately. They knew It was not normal, that I have to do it to make them happy. Do you know what, they sent times three of what I sent to them and send a text of love 💞💞💞. I cried that night till my wife joined me to cry
Haa shocked
You dey whine

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by otipoju(m): 8:17pm On Jun 08, 2023
Ismael97:
I've never been loved because I don't know what love means at all. I was a posthumous child. Lost my dad when my mum was pregnant. Shortly after birth, I lost my mum. I have no siblings. I lived with relatives who maltreated me so much that I thought they even had issues with my late parents cos I have never seen such dehumanizing treatment before except only in movies. Up till now, I hate people due to the psychological impact of the maltreatment I got from the people I lived with. I like been alone most times because I trust nobody, I can't confide in people because I feel nobody got my back. I was so determined to at least get education for myself and today I am glad I did. However I am still struggling

The hardest thing but the best thing to do 8s to forgive them. The pain will still be there but feelings of resentment will go away. And your heart can gradually start opening to beautiful people that you have fenced out.
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by NACE13: 8:45pm On Jun 08, 2023
Dumba088:
After my NYSC I escorted my Dad with my credentials to his friend office who is a big man in Nigeria immigration service. With the fact that they were very close friends, my Dad kneel down in my presence and beg this man to give me appointment when the opportunity arises. I was very ashamed of myself when I saw my Dad on his knees, at the end the man failed him

I will never forget this for the rest of my life, by God Grace I will make sure I stand by my Dad always and forever

Sorry but I have to ask. Did it happen recently or within 2015-date? I'm asking because I was also told that Big men are given only one slot unlike before where they were given up to 5 slots and also it is quite hard to get BSc slots unless if that Officer is very well-connected to politicians or political influencers.
But then again, I guess the man sold the slot to the highest bidder.
Once again, I'm sorry things didn't work out but it's not yet over.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by mizzyoma(f): 8:45pm On Jun 08, 2023
I've never been loved because I don't know what love means at all. I was a posthumous child. Lost my dad when my mum was pregnant. Shortly after birth, I lost my mum. I have no siblings. I lived with relatives who maltreated me so much that I thought they even had issues with my late parents cos I have never seen such dehumanizing treatment before except only in movies. Up till now, I hate people due to the psychological impact of the maltreatment I got from the people I lived with. I like been alone most times because I trust nobody, I can't confide in people because I feel nobody got my back. I was so determined to at least get education for myself and today I am glad I did.
You will be fine, release your mind and relate with people, God gat you
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by kelspinall(m): 8:47pm On Jun 08, 2023
my dad is priceless,what he did is soo remarkable that my children will tell it to their children too...dad is the greatest friend, brother i ever had,i thank God for him even tho he's late he's still the greatest...
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Trendybit123: 9:13pm On Jun 08, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

He get one certain time way I broke...for good five months nothing enter my account

Mehnn a full grown up niggar begin return back to my parents apartment especially every evening go dey eat steadily

And the funny thing be say they were ready to feed me even for the rest of my life
And that was when I realised that females have this empathy, sympathy and pity special hormones for thier brother

I was once like you. There was a particular period that things got really rough for me, I was married and had my first son. I went back and forth to my parents house, my mama go put food for me, gimme stew to take home and some rice and still gimme money so my wife could make some food for my son to take to school. Tears dey drop for my eyes.. God if not for anything, do me well make i fit repay my mom.. abeg🙏🙏🙏

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Dumba088(m): 9:26pm On Jun 08, 2023
NACE13:


Sorry but I have to ask. Did it happen recently or within 2015-date? I'm asking because I was also told that Big men are given only one slot unlike before where they were given up to 5 slots and also it is quite hard to get BSc slots unless if that Officer is very well-connected to politicians or political influencers.
But then again, I guess the man sold the slot to the highest bidder.
Once again, I'm sorry things didn't work out but it's not yet over.

It's was 2017 replacement.
Nevermind, thanks for your concern. actually it's a normal thing to me. Life goes on
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by MrBanner(m): 9:55pm On Jun 08, 2023
ebuka10box:
bro sorry bout that ,u sound like a good person though. I'm not a rich guy or wealthy In any way but what can I do to show u we love u ... U tell me

That guy is a serial scammer. He's only fine tuning you in order to bill you. Don't say you weren't warned.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Styluss: 9:56pm On Jun 08, 2023
When I wasted 120k PD money as far back as 2012 in FUTA. I paid another 65K tuition in another University and accommodation and transport, from a salary of my dad.
ThompsonJoo:
What was that thing your parent did to you that made you know that they loved you


Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by MrBanner(m): 9:57pm On Jun 08, 2023
Gubioma:
Insha Allah we shall make it broh
The same thing happen to me.I lost my mom when I'm only four years.maltreatment from my step mother,her children and also my dad.
But now I'm doing good happily married with beautiful children.

Dan Borno kanuri Boy.

That guy is a serial scammer. Beware of him . Don't say you weren't warned.

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Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by Ismael97(m): 10:04pm On Jun 08, 2023
otipoju:


The hardest thing but the best thing to do 8s to forgive them. The pain will still be there but feelings of resentment will go away. And your heart can gradually start opening to beautiful people that you have fenced out.

Thanks a lot pls
Re: When Did You Know You Were Loved At Home? by remsonik(f): 11:00pm On Jun 08, 2023
Hmm well when my dad died I feel no love from home anymore but pressure from my mom and siblings not believing in me having dreams, goals and taking the right steps for her life. They feel I can't achieve if I start small and will want me to take plans that are too heavy for me and the funds I can't bear starting big.

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