My husband of ten years suddenly want BehindBased s3x with me.

I thought he was joking at first but the pressure is becoming unbearable,

should I give in to his pressure,

I don't want him to seek for it outside,

I also don't want to do it.

Please help me, how do I make him see reason with me without pushing him out to the hand of another woman.



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Easy advice!  Tell the woman to play the Exchange game with her husband.  You want backdoor then I want you to go outside butt nekkid and tell every guy that he is hot. 

Problem solved! 

The objective of the Exchange game is to get the spouse or partner to realize don't ask for something that is uncomfortable to your spouse or partner that you are not willing to do in exchange.

@ Anti~sex,You heard or you know?

Simply tell him you are not okay with such,if he is a reasonable fellow,he should understand your fears,I know I won't try it with any man.

it will nt kill u madam! Do it for ur husband! Hav u forgotten ur vow? Its for beta and for worse! damnnnn

Boyloaf:

it will nt kill u madam! Do it for your husband! Hav u forgotten your vow? Its for beta and for worse! damnnnn

Since it is for better or worse then the husband shouldn't have any problem doing what she wants as well. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Mrs, Chima:

Easy advice!  Tell the woman to play the Exchange game with her husband.  You want backdoor then I want you to go outside butt nekkid and tell every guy that he is hot. 

Problem solved! 

The objective of the Exchange game is to get the spouse or partner to realize don't ask for something that is uncomfortable to your spouse or partner that you are not willing to do in exchange.

What happens then if he agree to do this

r231:

What happens then if he agree to do this

Then she will pucker her arse up and assume the position. Fair is fair.