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Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by aloyemeka1: 8:58pm On Oct 02, 2011
Why do we nag our significant others/spouses?. Don't you think relationships will work better if there is no nagging?.  If you don't nag, how do you get around it when you are severely frustrated by a spouse/significant other?.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Oct 02, 2011
Another weird thread by Uncle Emeka cheesy undecided
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by MrsChima1(f): 9:06pm On Oct 02, 2011
We need to find the root of why such person is nagging or have nagged. Some people do not have effective communication skills so some will resort into childish games or acts.

It could be the only way your spouse can communicate with you and that's sad. If your spouse have to constantly say the same thing over and over or treat your like a child then of course the relationship will not last longer.

Why would an adult remain in a relationship with a grown child? undecided
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Jenifa1: 9:07pm On Oct 02, 2011
walk away.

nagging is usually used by people who lack any form of power in the relationship.
for example a parent don't have to nag their kid to do dishes. all u have to do is take out the whip or threaten not to feed him dinner  grin
a child on the other hand will nag the parent to buy stuff for him, allow him to sleep over at a friend's house etc. because he has no other way of making the parent listen/obey expect to annoy the parent with nagging.
the nagger is like a pest or mosquito murmuring in your ear and you will do anything to make it go away.

so, nagging works for the powerless.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Jenifa1: 9:08pm On Oct 02, 2011
REALITY101:

Another weird thread by Uncle Emeka cheesy undecided

lol. she is a she. a she-male
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Goldieluks: 9:13pm On Oct 02, 2011
She=male?? omfw!!!^^

@OP,people nag because they need to get the truth out,by force sometimes. everyone does that.
undecided
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by freecocoa(f): 9:15pm On Oct 02, 2011
Tough question,but I guess its human nature to nag seeming that everybody can nag anybody so I don't think nagging can be avoided, but it becomes a problem when it becomes a habit to nag over unnecessary things.Tough question,but I guess its human nature to nag seeming that everybody can nag anybody so I don't think nagging can be avoided, but it becomes a problem when it becomes a habit to nag over unnecessary things.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Oct 02, 2011
Jenifa_:

lol. she is a she. a she-male

lol not from me. .  Tell more about it.


Goldieluks:

She=male?? omfw!!!^^

@OP,people nag because they need to get the truth out,by force sometimes. everyone does that.
undecided

Are u for real? getting info from a dude by nagging? Lawd
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Goldieluks: 9:16pm On Oct 02, 2011
REALITY101:

lol not from me. .  Tell more about it.


Are u for real? getting info from a dude by nagging? Lawd


I don't mean the continuous nagging boo,just as you've been nagging me for lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Oct 02, 2011
Then give it to me and nagging ends. . If that's nagging in your dictionary.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by MrsChima1(f): 9:21pm On Oct 02, 2011
Jenifa_:

walk away.

nagging is usually used by people who lack any form of power in the relationship.
for example a parent don't have to nag their kid to do dishes. all u have to do is take out the whip or threaten not to feed him dinner  grin
a child on the other hand will nag the parent to buy stuff for him, allow him to sleep over at a friend's house etc. because he has no other way of making the parent listen/obey expect to annoy the parent with nagging.
the nagger is like a pest or mosquito murmuring in your ear and you will do anything to make it go away.

so, nagging works for the powerless.


I agree with you on the parental nagging because I have seen some parents goodness and let me say this there are punk parents in every creed but I have seen white parents begs their children to obey them and accept disrespect from them in fear of being told they are the worst parents in the world.  

You and I know MOST black mothers/fathers would have handle the situation in a different manner.  I am not saying exactly what because we do have some emotional chatters on NL.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Jenifa1: 9:22pm On Oct 02, 2011
like I said, nagging works for the powerless.  grin

REALITY101:


Are u for real? getting info from a dude by nagging? Lawd


Goldieluks:

just as you've been nagging me for lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Goldieluks: 9:23pm On Oct 02, 2011
REALITY101:

Then give it to me and nagging ends. . If that's nagging in your dictionary.  


There's no way.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Goldieluks: 9:24pm On Oct 02, 2011
Jenifa_:

like I said, nagging works for the powerless.  grin




what works for the powerful? enlighten me please,am not taking sides here,just needs more info.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Jenifa1: 9:28pm On Oct 02, 2011
Mrs, Chima:

I agree with you on the parental nagging because I have seen some parents goodness and let me say this there are punk parents in every creed but I have seen white parents begs their children to obey them and accept disrespect from them in fear of being told they are the worst parents in the world.  

You and I know MOST black mothers/fathers would have handle the situation in a different manner.  I am not saying exactly what because we do have some emotional chatters on NL.  



I get what u mean but it's not necessarily a good thing on the part of black mothers/fathers.
especially in the school system. most teachers are white and therefore have a hard time connecting with black kids who are used to disciplinary parents and therefore have no respect for white teachers who tend to use nagging.
ie most black kids will not listen to teachers unless they get strong discipline (whopping). white kids on the other hand, respond well to nagging and begging. lol so the school system works better for them where corporal punishment is banned. but works against the black kids who will tend to have behavioral issues.

in other words, it  works against the blacks kids because we do live in a predominantly white society.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Jenifa1: 9:31pm On Oct 02, 2011
Goldieluks:


what works for the powerful? enlighten me please,am not taking sides here,just needs more info.

see my previous post on parents and kids. obviously the parent has more power than the kid.

in male/female relationship the guy or girl can have more power depending on the issue or problem. the guy will nag when he doesn't have the power to get his way. and the girl will nag when she doesn't have the power to get her way.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by r231(m): 10:05pm On Oct 02, 2011
undecided
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by tellwisdom: 10:09pm On Oct 02, 2011
Op, u mean NACK?? yes i NACK because punny is for NACK undecided undecided
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by aloyemeka1: 10:47pm On Oct 02, 2011
tellwisdom:

Op, u mean NACK?? yes i NACK because punny is for NACK undecided undecided

You nack your fellow men?. Geez!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 02, 2011
Nagging is one of the specialites of a nigerian woman grin grin grin grin.They nag over silly things grin.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Cuddlemii: 11:50pm On Oct 02, 2011
The human mind is aggressive in nature. We have at least 5 mins madness in a day or something, just heard about that notion on Friday so not sure undecided undecided.

Nagging is an exhibition of frustration, anger & temper. It can be curbed by communication. When you don't communicate, you tend to bottle up pain, anguish, annoyance & hurt so when you are pushed to the wall you go mad because you have stored aggressions that could have been resolved if you had addressed it from provocation number 1 from day 1.

The best solution is to walk away or picture your partner as barney or looney tunes. When you act in the heat of anger you end up saying things that you can't take back or you end up regretting or sending wrong signals & impression, you might miss a blessing coming your way. Your opponent even if wrong would be vindicated because you are the one acting mad while he/she is not stressing/gasping for breath.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Cuddlemii: 11:52pm On Oct 02, 2011
lefulefu:

Nagging is one of the specialites of a nigerian woman grin grin grin grin.They nag over silly things grin.

And you and your triplet brothers have been doing what exactly for a month now? You have been ragging right? Please enough with bringing nigerian women down. u need to visit the shrink for your brain size caused by a lady. another word abt ladies, its gonna be a girls fight.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by aloyemeka1: 12:35am On Oct 03, 2011
Cuddlemii:

And you and your triplet brothers have been doing what exactly for a month now? You have been ragging right? Please enough with bring nigerian women down. u need to visit the shrink for your brain size caused by a lady. .

Roflmao  grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Cuddlemii:

another word abt ladies, its gonna be a girls fight

Or another dose of raw nagging. grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by tellwisdom: 12:47am On Oct 03, 2011

You nack your fellow men?. Geez!!! embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed

Are you sleeping?? sad sad men get punny? angry
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Nobody: 12:59am On Oct 03, 2011
Cuddlemii:

Nagging is an exhibition of frustration, anger & temper. It can be curbed by communication. When you don't communicate, you tend to bottle up pain, anguish, annoyance & hurt so when you are pushed to the wall you go mad because you have stored aggressions that could have been resolved if you had addressed it from provocation number 1 from day 1.


. . . . .Or in more sophisticated terms, it's a state of quantum cluelessness, unpremeditated and unprecedented attitudinal dis-orientation and a pathetic state of dismal sardonic compartmentalized emotional discombobulation! cool
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Nobody: 1:01am On Oct 03, 2011
Cuddlemii:

And you and your triplet brothers have been doing what exactly for a month now? You have been ragging right? Please enough with bringing nigerian women down. u need to visit the shrink for your brain size caused by a lady. another word abt ladies, its gonna be a girls fight.
How many times u don see a bobo harrasing a woman because of money or letting her not rest because she no buy am blackberry or hairtye, or because e no give am money to take go barbe im hair?.A bobo will never do that because that one na one area wey a woman specialise in wich be nagging.A woman go nag because the bobo no give am  money and she nag if the bobo come late from work.she go also nag if the bobo forget to buy new phone for her during her birthday and if the bobo buy  her the one wey im money reach am and she no like am she go nag the bobo to death saying na sophisticated phone or blackberry she want grin.And by the way i and my crew werent nagging because we were just having a little discussion around our beer table grin.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Cuddlemii: 1:03am On Oct 03, 2011
sexkillz:

. . . . .Or in more sophisticated terms, it's a state of quantum cluelessness, unpremeditated and unprecedented attitudinal dis-orientation and a pathetic state of dismal sardonic compartmentalized emotional discombobulation!  cool

That would attract nagging. I said it lay man's language tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue quantum of solace ko, solaris of quanta ni.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Cuddlemii: 1:08am On Oct 03, 2011
lefulefu:

How many times u don see a bobo harrasing a woman because of money or letting her not rest because she no buy am blackberry or hairtye, or because e no give am money to take go barbe im hair?.A bobo will never do that because that one na one area wey a woman specialise in wich be nagging.A woman go nag because the bobo no give am  money and she nag if the bobo come late from work.she go also nag if the bobo forget to buy new phone for her during her birthday and if the bobo buy  her the one wey im money reach am and she no like am she go nag the bobo to death saying na sophisticated phone or blackberry she want grin.And by the way i and my crew werent nagging because we were just having a little discussion around our beer table grin.

What a pity. Ohun ti aye so yin da. The lady dt dismantled ur medulla oblongata will know peace. u don dey kolo.
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by aloyemeka1: 1:09am On Oct 03, 2011
Cuddlemii:

What a pity. Ohun ti aye so yin da. The lady dt dismantled your medulla oblongata will know peace. u don dey kolo.

Roflmao cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Cuddlemii: 1:15am On Oct 03, 2011
aloy/emeka:

Roflmao cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

I fear u oh. I thot u were omo nna. How come u understand that hmm. Well that is how I thot u were a lady only to find out u r a guy (sorry reverse is the case grin grin grin grin)
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by tellwisdom: 3:01am On Oct 03, 2011
. . . . .Or in more sophisticated terms, it's a state of quantum cluelessness, unpremeditated and unprecedented attitudinal dis-orientation and a pathetic state of dismal sardonic compartmentalized emotional discombobulation! cool

Oboy, i think sey u dey on treatment sad sad
Re: Are Relationships Better Without Nagging? by Nobody: 5:37am On Oct 03, 2011
^^ Must you quote me? undecided

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