It's very rampart these days to be casual about relationship, taking it with levity just for the fun, and pleasure before branching to the next available person. Over time, I believe people should get honest and intentional about behaving responsible in a relationship. And that implies being focused on your partner and the future of the relationship.

Unfortunately, I realize it's very hard to meet a partner who has such outlook of honesty and responsibility when entering into relationship these days. Everyone is looking for short time fun, and gratification.

So do we have people who genuinely want to to date with the intention of being honest and, faithfully for the future? If so where are they? How do you meet them. And at what point would you take honesty and faithfullness serious in a relationship?

PeterObi4Presid:
It's very rampart these days to take relationship with levity just only to hang around and enjoy the fun and ride before branching to the next available pleasure. Over time, I believe people should get honest and intentional about behaving responsible in a relationship. And that implies being focused on your partner and the future of the relationship

Unfortunately, I realise it's very hard to meet a partner who has such outlook of honesty and responsibility when entering into relationship these days. Everyone is looking for short time fun, and gratification.

So do we have people who genuinely want to to date with the intention of being honest and, faithfully for the future? If so where are they? How do you meet them. And at what point would you take honesty and faithfullness serious in a relationship?

Having a partner that meets your expectations in relationship is luck. I don't know the indicators to look out for,I just know principled people are still out there

tommy589:


Having a partner that meets your expectations in relationship is luck. I don't know the indicators to look out for,I just know principled people are still out there

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How to meet them will be great honestly

Honest people still exist.

Parenting is failing on new generations. The Bible said, as the world ages, 7 women would grasp a man to marry them just to answer the word "married" and wouldn't care if the man does whatever. The matter of cheating will increase as life continues. Discipline has been eradicated from schools and parents are less concerned about child training, so, parenting fails. If you're a cheater it just shows the work of your background (of which your parents occupy 60%) on your mentality.

PeterObi4Presid:
It's very rampart these days to take relationship with levity just only to hang around and enjoy the fun and ride before branching to the next available pleasure. Over time, I believe people should get honest and intentional about behaving responsible in a relationship. And that implies being focused on your partner and the future of the relationship

Unfortunately, I realise it's very hard to meet a partner who has such outlook of honesty and responsibility when entering into relationship these days. Everyone is looking for short time fun, and gratification.

So do we have people who genuinely want to to date with the intention of being honest and, faithfully for the future? If so where are they? How do you meet them. And at what point would you take honesty and faithfullness serious in a relationship?

Yap
People still do
It's called having an exclusive relationship

I did that shit with a lady not too long ago.
But
While she was counting 6 months of fidelity, I was counting 5 months. Oops!

Sniper101:
Yap
People still do
It's called having an exclusive relationship

I did that shit with a lady not too long ago.
But
While she was counting 6 months of fidelity, I was counting 5 months. Oops!

So what happened to the relationship at the end? And why did it fail?

Yeah.....I'm currently into one at this moment....But,the end is all that really matters..

PeterObi4Presid:

So what happened to the relationship at the end? And why did it fail?

Word? that shit ain't easy.

Nigerian men are natural cheaters, dey can never be loyal in a relationship....


I have nothing to do with Nigerian men

[quote author=Sheistoopretty post=123938128]Nigerian men are natural cheaters, dey can never be loyal in a relationship....


I have nothing to do with Nigerian men [/quote

Hmmm. But someone like me have had a very deep shift in mindset about relationship. For months now i have avoided indiscriminate sex.....maybe u dont have to generalize. And i hope u are also very faithful during dating