Marriages today are hitting the rocks ceaselessly with no end in sight. In spite of the negative turn of events we see in homes today, some marriages are still flourishing as a result of these three factors I'm about to highlight.
Mind you, having a partner who is good in bed cannot keep a marriage from crashing. Sex does not sustain marriage when the chips are down. As a man , no matter how huge your penis is or how good you are in bed, a goal oriented, ambitious woman will work away from you when she realizes you can't meet her futuristic expectations. That's why a lot young ladies leave their long time relationship to marry a new found love.
Similarly, the beautiful or sexy appearance of a woman cannot prevent a man from walking away from his marriage. In fact, we 've heard of men who abandoned their very beautiful wives and go after a lady who can not hold a candle to their wives in terms of beauty, this is because, curves, breasts and butts have very little or no role to play when storms of life come hard on you. Below, are the three main things that keep the union going when things are falling apart:
1. MONEY: It's said that the presence of money does not guarantee a successful marriage, its availability will, however,douse a lot of tension that may arise from spousal disagreement. Majority of women are in their marriages today not because they are comfortable with their husband's excesses, but because of the constant flow of money coming from their hubbies they let sleeping dogs lie. Also, some men are putting up with their wives due to the fact that the wife is a huge pillar of financial support to the them and the family. So, they fill that doing away with such women will amount to huge economic loss.Note, however, that men under this category are mostly unresourceful. Try your possible best to be financially stable when going into this union called marriage, especially as a man.You will need this stability to weather the storm.
2. CHILDREN: Children play a big role in keeping couples together during difficult times.The fear of what become of the children when couple go their separate ways has sustained a lot marriages for years. Most women have very strong compassion and connection towards their children. They wouldn't want another woman to raise their children while they alive hence, they stay in their marriages. Similarly, some men decided to forgive their adulterous wives and welcome them back into their home not because they still love the wife. But simply because of the strong affection they have for their children. Not all children can successfully go through the emotional trauma associated with divorce.So, these highly responsible and compassionate men tend to sacrifice their ego for the happiness and emotional stability of their wards. Ensure you bear children in your marriage.Their presence will make a lot of difference in times of marital crisis.
3. SEXUAL PURITY OF THE WIFE: This is the most important thing that keeps a man to his wife. A man will tolerate anything thrown at him in a marriage if he's certain that he is the only one who has slept with the wife all her life. Many men are in their childless marriage today because of this very fact. They see the childlessness in the their union as a cross they must carry owing to the sexual purity of the wife. There was a couple who had their first childbirth when the wife was 53years of age.When the man was asked how he managed to cope all these years without a child in spite of his wealth and relentless pressure from his family to marry another woman; his response was that, he is the only person who had had carnal knowledge of his wife. So, it's only proper for him not betray the woman who has been faithful to him all his life. If the woman had been disvirgined by another man before he got married to her, the story would probably have been different. A man can endure an insulting and nagging woman if he is sure if being only the man in her life. Sexual purity is the most valuable thing a woman can offer in a marriage. As woman, stay sexually pure and your husband will have no reason to want to ditch you when things are awry. I hope you you learnt something. Happy Sunday.

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