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A Letter To The Single Ladies. by blazepascal(m): 11:33am On Jul 10, 2023
Many young ladies would have gotten married but the quality of men that they are looking for can only be found in married men and sugar daddies....

The reason why so many ladies at 33+ are still very much single is because they have sets standards for marriage that a young man who truly and genuinely love them and is willing to marry them can not match..

They wants an already made man, which is not bad but the thing is that they don't know that a man's life barely begins at 20s to 35.

Before a guy could try to figure out his life mostly when he is born into a very poor family and then want to settle down he must have been getting to his 35-40s.

And when men, gets to their late 30s to early or late 40s, the ladies they begin to admire or would want to wife would be within the age range of 20-27 and by that time the single lady who is waiting for an already made man must have been aging 33+ and have exceeded 20-27.

The the young guys on the other hand, who lucks of financial fortune has smiled on them early, would not want to settle down early but will want to flex, cruise and enjoy life. Anything marriage to them is like a prison.

Think about this.

Setting standards is good but don't set an unrealistic standards.

Many standards that single ladies sets today can only be matched by married men or sugar daddies and this is because those guys have figure life out to an appreciable level.

Many ladies are afraid of marrying a guy who is yet to figure life out,

When a hardworking, diligent young gent. man who is still working tirelessly to figure his life out tries to wife them due to his love, all they do is reject him, just because he doesn't fit in to their financial curriculum/scheme.

Young ladies be wise, use wisdom don't be afraid to build a life with a visionary man even though his current life doesn't match what you have envisioned for yourself now.

Don't just think Now, think future.

A man is judged by his future, not his past or present.

If you love him and he loves you and he is having little comfortable life but wants to marry you, don't hesitate to marry him.

Don't leave him for any frivolous reasons except you see someone who is more profoundly better than him that you love and you also believes strongly that he loves you.

A boy of 20 and a girl of 20 are not age mate.

Keep that in mind.

#BLAZE

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Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by Zonefree(m): 11:46am On Jul 10, 2023
The reason why so many ladies at 33+ are still very much single is because they have sets standards for marriage that a young man who truly and genuinely love them and is willing to marry them can not match

Cc;

Magnoliaa
Jennyclay
Ukaface
Siofra

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Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by talented321: 11:49am On Jul 10, 2023
My joy of being man has no boundary.
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by slawomir: 11:54am On Jul 10, 2023
Damnnn niggar


Enough bottles of alcohol for you
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by Adachizzy(f): 12:01pm On Jul 10, 2023
Very sensible!
A boy of 20 and a girl of 20 ain't mates.
Girls bubble mostly at their 20s while for guys, their lives begin at a later age.

The reverse becomes the case, where a woman of 50 and a man of 50, the man looks younger.

In as much as ladies should not get into destructive relationships or marriage in the name of settling down early, we should not also set unrealistic standards.
If there's a need to set such standards, make sure you too, as a girl, is a hot cake, in everything If not, take clay and mold him, but this too is risky because some girls will finish their clay on just the penis.

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Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by sweetman2022: 12:07pm On Jul 10, 2023
Your points are well detailed and I liked it. However, I don't think ladies consciously set those standards. I believe a thing of instincts and behavioural traits generally in every lady makes them act in such a way.
The way you explained about a rich guy wanting to flex before getting married is same reasons young girls want to enjoy life because she has many options at that age. So at the early age of most females they dont care about consequences of last resort. They get to know as time goes by and start adjusting but by then it's too late for some and luck also shines on others. Though there are few exceptions that focus on education and careers. Just that they need to know how to balance it with marriage except they choose to remain single.

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Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by Johnholt909: 12:08pm On Jul 10, 2023
Adachizzy:
Very sensible!
A boy of 20 and a girl of 20 ain't mates.
Girls bubble mostly at their 20s while for guys, their lives begin at a later age.

The reverse becomes the case, where a woman of 50 and a man of 50, the man looks younger.

In as much as ladies should not get into destructive relationships or marriage in the name of settling down early, we should not also set unrealistic standards.
If there's a need to set such standards, make sure you too, as a girl, is a hot cake, in everything If not, take clay and mold him, but this too is risky because some girls will finish their clay on just the penis.
Nigerian women don't really like to build. They prefer already made and that is why a lot of them are in total shambles. undecided
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by sweetman2022: 12:10pm On Jul 10, 2023
Adachizzy:
Very sensible!
A boy of 20 and a girl of 20 ain't mates.
Girls bubble mostly at their 20s while for guys, their lives begin at a later age.

The reverse becomes the case, where a woman of 50 and a man of 50, the man looks younger.

In as much as ladies should not get into destructive relationships or marriage in the name of settling down early, we should not also set unrealistic standards.
If there's a need to set such standards, make sure you too, as a girl, is a hot cake, in everything If not, take clay and mold him, but this too is risky because some girls will finish their clay on just the penis.
angry ; grin grin oh my goodness...what kind of vawulence is this on your bold statement
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by PerfectStranger(m): 12:31pm On Jul 10, 2023
Adachizzy:
Very sensible!
A boy of 20 and a girl of 20 ain't mates.
Girls bubble mostly at their 20s while for guys, their lives begin at a later age.

The reverse becomes the case, where a woman of 50 and a man of 50, the man looks younger.

In as much as ladies should not get into destructive relationships or marriage in the name of settling down early, we should not also set unrealistic standards.
If there's a need to set such standards, make sure you too, as a girl, is a hot cake, in everything If not, take clay and mold him, but this too is risky because some girls will finish their clay on just the penis.
Good point. I wish they'll listen and heed to this.
They set unreasonable standards yet won't let our peni.s have some rest.
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by izonborn098(m): 12:43pm On Jul 10, 2023
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Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by pennytration(m): 4:37pm On Jul 10, 2023
You get time to dey advise women like they'll listen. you must have a lot of free time on your hands.
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by Streetmovement(m): 4:45pm On Jul 10, 2023
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Well said comrade cool
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by ThinkSmarter: 7:11pm On Jul 10, 2023
Evolutionary instincts controls mates selection for marriage.
Women naturally dates up.
And their first choices are: rich, educated, good looking, intelligent, powerful, influential, famous men

That's their nature, it is not their fault.

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Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by Purvan(m): 7:14pm On Jul 10, 2023
Geeky women don't give af these nonsense
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by ukaface(f): 9:50pm On Jul 10, 2023
Zonefree:

Cc;

Magnoliaa
Jennyclay
Ukaface
Siofra
You know me
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by ukaface(f): 9:51pm On Jul 10, 2023
Zonefree:

Cc;

Magnoliaa
Jennyclay
Ukaface
Siofra
Am I 33+??
Re: A Letter To The Single Ladies. by Nobody: 3:24am On Jul 11, 2023
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