VTJN:
Maybe you should consider IVF and have your baby once.

I think it's a good idea but that will depend on him. I don't want to force him. What if he can't afford it? Just saying.

henrimoto:
@klass99, This is EriMma1! ...any other one.. is a kiaatanfit ..."Abeg, find your mercy go front..." 😆😆

Why una dey conclude say something sexual happen when she dey go visit her Germani bobo ? ...😀😀 EriMma1 didn't say such in her write up na.

EriMma1, .."Believe me" .... I believe you!

...I pray this one goes well for you after all this AS talk.

Stop. You sound like an amebo to me. Whats with all these monikers you keep mentioning in my post? Just stop abeg

Klass99:


Hello! Excuse you! Where in my post did I insinuate or conclude she had sexual relations with her date? 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

For your information my reference to their private business was simply about their relationship, they meeting each other's families, their genotype, the discussion or argument about an AS baby, abortion in the event of early detection of sickle cell, etc.

Do all of these things not qualify as the private business of a dating couple? Did the forum need to know it? Please learn to read with understanding because it is you who concluded that by private business I meant sex which I did not.

Who is this one again?

Nairaland judgiana, please stay off my private matters and how I treat it. My man is not complaining and he cares less what you
people with your Nigerian mentality think about bringing my affairs to an anonymous forum. Besides I had his approval before making our matter "public" because if things go well, it's going to be public eventually. We are not into a "hide and seek" affair or ashamed of what we both have and share with each other.

Klass99:


Lol 🤣, yeah right. I seriously doubt this, you are claiming so now because I called you out on your lack of discretion. How many times have you brought your relationship issues to NL? How did things play out or end in those relationships?

It is always a new and different story with you. Next month you'll talk about a new love interest, by October it will be your pastors trying to hook you up with a brother in church, in December we'll hear of a new saga.........it is a never ending cycle of drama with you.

Your threads don't bother or upset me, feel free to knock yourself out, but don't get worked up when you bring your private affairs to a public domain and people comment on it. And please learn discretion, there's nothing cute about a man or woman who lacks discretion.

Huh Another delusional being.

What all that you said up there about?

I'm sorry I can't help your delusions.

Tschüss!

This one knows the right thing to do which is to leave the relationship as AS and AS should never marry under any natural circumstances.

But I can bet my last card that the only thing gluing this one there is the "GERMAN BASED" part. And the very fact the guy may have some cash.

She is well aware that AS and AS are very wrong combinations that will give birth to SS, AA and AS children. Which has far reaching consequences. But she is willing to damn the consequences so as to use the man as a launch pad to Germany and then start posting pictures to Pepper them in Nigeria.

If this were an ordinary mechanic in Nigeria who is an AS, will this one think twice before dumping him? Thats if she even dates him at all.

There as so many AA blood group around you. But because they are poor or are not Europe based, you will never look there way. Because na money matter.

Madam face front joor!

There is 100% chance you don't truly love the guy. You only love his location. Finish.

WesternPanzer:
This one knows the right thing to do which is to leave the relationship as AS and AS should never marry under any natural circumstances.

But I can bet my last card that the only thing gluing this one there is the "GERMAN BASED" part. And the very fact the guy may have some cash.

She is well aware that AS and AS are very wrong combinations that will give birth to SS, AA and AS children. Which has far reaching consequences. But she is willing to damn the consequences so as to use the man as a launch pad to Germany and then start posting pictures to Pepper them in Nigeria.

If this were an ordinary mechanic in Nigeria who is an AS, will this one think twice before dumping him? Thats if she even dates him at all.

There as so many AA blood group around you. But because they are poor or are not Europe based, you will never look there way. Because na money matter.

Madam face front joor!

There is 100% chance you don't truly love the guy. You only love his location. Finish.

Hahahahahaaaa... So they have used abroad pics to pepper you so tay it has formed a wrong impression in your head of ladies getting married to jand guys? Eeeiiyaaa.. Pele but that is not the case here. By the way, who go leave croaker fish go dey queue for eja panla.. HAHA.. no nau. Not now that Nigeria is dealing with the rich, average and poor like no man business.

Talk true, if I'm your sister, will you advise me to marry a naija based guy at this time?
Even if this one no work, I'll still hunt down another jandee. No think am o. Nothing concern me with any naija based guy for this present economy. Ta!

I am done with my opinion. Do with your life whatever suits you Maam. Thats if all these stories is not even Lamba to get attention.

And just so you know, I have travelled to over 50 countries hustling.

So am wondering who wants to pepper me with pics.

Have a wonderful day. Good bye.

Zonefree:

The reason he didn't disclose his genotype while in Germany is cos he doesn't want his investments all these while to be in vain.

As Odogwu land, E come chop belleful, clean mouth, come use genotype to discharge our distinguished 'future is femail'.


Move on my dear, it is what it is.


Odogwu 1
The future 0

Bro, you get sense die!

EriMma1:


I think it's a good idea but that will depend on him. I don't want to force him. What if he can't afford it? Just saying.

He is based abroad.

If he wants to marry an AS wife,then he has to afford it.

Afterall, he told you not to worry.

EriMma1:


Stop. You sound like an amebo to me. Whats with all these monikers you keep mentioning in my post? Just stop abeg

No na.. I dey only try to support your matter genuinely this time. no do me shakara joor.

Klass99:


Hello and excuse you!!! Where in my post did I insinuate or conclude she had sexual relations with her date? 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

For your information my reference to their private business was simply about their relationship, they meeting each other's families, their genotype, the discussion or argument about an SS baby and the likelihood of abortion in the event that sickle cell is detected, etc.

Do all of these things not qualify as the private business of a dating couple? Did the forum need to know about it? Please learn to read with understanding because it is you who concluded that by private business I meant sex between them, which I did not.

klass, be calming down joor. Someone can not play with you again in this "Jagaban Era"..

henrimoto:
No na.. I dey only try to support your matter genuinely this time. no do me shakara joor.

Who are you?

[quote author=OgbeniOja1 post=124423189]Abroad, it is easier

Klass99:


I am very calm now and we are cool. I needed to para for you small because I don't like being misunderstood and I don't know how you came to that conclusion in your post. It's either my communication skills are bad or your comprehension ability is, but I am sure it was the latter and not the former. We are cool

.... That my post you re-acted was on a lighter mood, the "Una" I used on the second paragraph was referring to two earlier comments before yours and it was still on a lighter mood.

Thats why I said be "calming down" 😆😆😆

Aye yi o le bi a se ro... Abeg, let's enjoy the good side of life online jare, no be to come dey para for each other "You read well , You no read well" 😀😀😀

Have a nice weekend joor. ❤️

Interesting thread.

EriMma1:


Who is this one again?

Nairaland judgiana, please stay off my private matters and how I treat it. My man is not complaining and he cares less what you
people with your Nigerian mentality think about bringing my affairs to an anonymous forum. Besides I had his approval before making our matter "public" because if things go well, it's going to be public eventually. We are not into a "hide and seek" affair or ashamed of what we both have and share with each other.

He came to just chop.... you and go back


Berra move on

Meteng:
Bro, you get sense die!

Exactly what I typed .. didn't know someone else had typed it ..... He might not be AS sef....

duduade:
He came to just chop.... you and go back


Berra move on

He didn't chop anything. What makes you think a man will fly all the way just to come and sleep with a girl? Make una dey reason He came to see my people.

duduade:


Exactly what I typed .. didn't know someone else had typed it ..... He might not be AS sef....

See as una dey deceive una self.

EriMma1:


See as una dey deceive una self.

There are so many threads on genotypes here and people being encouraged if both partners are willing to take the risk...


But in your own case you are worried because you have been spooned.... and chooppppped.....


Come back by December if you both are still talking

EriMma1:


He didn't chop anything. What makes you think a man will fly all the way just to come and sleep with a girl? Make una dey reason He came to see my people.

And if he came to see your people nko


What's special about this

duduade:


And if he came to see your people nko


What's special about this

Go and hug transformer.

If your story is true, then there is a chance that he's lying about the genotype.

EriMma1:


I couldn't even cook the meal for him again. I just dropped the bag with the stuff in it

I'm just weak

Can I get the bag with the stuff?
I am seriously tired of agbado.

bosman50:

Can I get the bag with the stuff?
I am seriously tired of agbado.

Na still agbado dey the bag

Zonefree:

Na still agbado dey the bag

Agbadogo dey your bag

Zonefree:

Na still agbado dey the bag

Agbado go dey your bag

We have gravitated to incompatible genotype and marriage palaver: tied to a German-based dude. Even in agbado-induced "renewed hope," we are insanely making progress.