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Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by pargelenis(m): 6:20am On Jul 26, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:Don’t waste your time with the frustrated vagabonds on this site, many of them are a reflection of the shïthole called Nigeria 2 Likes |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by tete7000(m): 6:35am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Bokoharams and their sponsors alive and reading her success will be painted to heart. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by 4evayours: 6:44am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Congratulations to you dear, smart girl. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Tonnierichy(m): 6:48am On Jul 26, 2023 |
ahnie:You've probably been attracting the worst of men. Maybe you need to work on yourself. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Samizen(m): 7:19am On Jul 26, 2023 |
hammerFC: Lol... |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by frankyychiji(f): 7:24am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Amotolongbo:Hahaha |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Offpoint1: 7:43am On Jul 26, 2023 |
ahnie:😂 🤣 It's better you marry a broke Nigerian than a white rich folks. You're just is sxx toy. Bills are equally shared, your money is your money and his money is his money. They're not like Nigerian men that carries the financial weight of the family. you guys are sharing bills equally. If you failed to meet up your bills, na divorce straight. 1 Like |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by lailo: 8:08am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Amotolongbo:One don fall on u before? |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by ahnie: 8:22am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I must have really triggered them,logged in to meet tons of mentions. Moderator of this section is there a way I could pass checking of my mentions to you, because some of the mentions seff,I nor dey kuku read dem. 1 Like |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by wildikeman(m): 8:32am On Jul 26, 2023 |
ahnie:And no terrorists from the so called religion of peace that wanted to kill her..you forgot to add that |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by nnamdi640: 8:42am On Jul 26, 2023 |
hammerFC:There is different between this one and Boko Haram, she will leave a happy life with bright future for her children unlike Boko Haram, the children will just end up as terrorists just like their father |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by izubext007: 9:05am On Jul 26, 2023 |
i know the person they fighting will not be happy with this good news |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by iLoveYouToo(m): 9:13am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: Even if she was getting married to a Nigerian it’ll still elicit same reactions. Look on the brighter side of life. She could’ve been in some dungeon making babies for some malefactor. Her life is better madam |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by iLoveYouToo(m): 9:14am On Jul 26, 2023 |
ahnie: I thought you knew what you were saying. 🤦♀️ 1 Like |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by iLoveYouToo(m): 9:15am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: I thought that one knew what she was saying, I get your pov |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by tabaralph: 9:30am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: You are correct, most of the white men just want to experience lashing black ladies and become irritated by as time goes on, black have nothing in common with white ,sentiment apart |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Felicity001(m): 9:46am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Amotolongbo: What race of white do you live among because whites have different races. Pakistani are white Chinese are white Indians are white The list goes on |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Amotolongbo(f): 9:50am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Felicity001:If you’d ever got out of your village, you would know those you mentioned are called whites only in your village 1 Like |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Miafi42r: 10:52am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Cfff
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Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by bukatyne(f): 12:01pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
1Sharon: 1000% Black men really have the lowest standards when it comes to looks and maintaining them. 1 Like |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by bukatyne(f): 12:04pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
adecz: Great to read. Congratulations that you not only escaped but went on to achieve your dreams and goals. Hopefully, the missing girls still alive would get to experience same. Would have to point out that the girl herself had already demonstrated courage and strong will to succeed by escaping a moving truck. 1 Like |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by bukatyne(f): 12:07pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The North is a different ball game and there is no aversion to remarriage in Islam unlike Christianity so divorcees are married up quickly. What you have is more of rotating spouses like we have in Nollywood and Hollywood. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by ogbologbo1000(m): 1:09pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Even though the man looks her fathers age, am still happy for her. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Kobojunkie: 1:11pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
bukatyne:Are you insinuating that marriage abandonment is some sort of solution to the "Christian" remarriage problem in Southern Nigeria fhen? 2. Abandonment no be an the inhumane attempt at divorce we know, na spousal rotation? Is your Government aware of this since it criminalized spousal/marriage abandonment beginning sometime last year? |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Kobojunkie: 1:29pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
deltateam:See Wetin your fellow Nigerian man talk Offpoint1:This conversation you want to have, you need to have with your fellow men who submit to be used in marriage. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by bukatyne(f): 2:51pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Not interested in an argument; was correcting an opinion the reality on ground. Divorce in Islam and Christianity are two different concepts. Islam sees marriage as a contract with stipulated laws guiding it. You do A, the consequence is B (divorce) after which you can remarry after XYZ time. In Christianity, marriage is seen as a covenant hence the terms for divorce much more stringent and remarriage not really entertained. Some school of thought are still debating the permissiveness of remarriage after divorce due to adultery or abandonment. The Bible however spells clearly permission to remarry after death as death ends the marriage covenant. Marriage abandonment as obtained in the South West (speaking of where I know of) and subsequent remarriage or concubine lifestyle has no basis or backing in Christianity. Neither did I assert that. I only said the North is a different problem because they generally live according to Sharia (Islamic) law hence heavily influenced by the tenets of Islam. 2. You are jumbling everything up; Northerners do not do spousal abandonment; they divorce according to their Sharia law/ interpretation of it and remarry accordingly. Hence spousal rotation aka divorce A, wait for the halal period to remarry and marry B who was previously the spouse of C. Southerners do spousal abandonment and remarry or keep concubines (male & female). Women having kids for different concubines or men having different kids from different women is not strange in Yoruba land. That is infact one of the common insult points of Igbos against Yoruba lifestyle which is the truth. Sometimes, bride price is returned which signals the end (divorce) of a marriage. I really do not hold the West as the standard so not concerned about how they resolve their local disputes. Nigerians have a different process of ending a marriage; as a matter of fact, Nigerians have never been known to embrace the legal way of sorting a problem. It is recently that ex-couples go to court for custody; it is olden days, the women pack their kids, their properties and move on. If the woman is moving directly into another man's house, she dumps the kids for the old husband and move on. According to the West, packing your kids when moving out especially when the husband is not there is kidnapping; take that same case to a Nigerian Police Station and they would applaud the wife for being a good woman because they know only she can really take good care of her kids. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Kobojunkie: 3:55pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
bukatyne:This response of yours holds no real meaning when put against my first comment.... Kobojunkie:... nor to my most recent response to you. Kobojunkie:The issue here is how official divorce rates in western countries mirrors the divorce rate in Northern Nigeria as well well marriage abandonment(unofficial divorce which is not tracke rates in southern Nigeria. Wetin concern me with your religious ideas regarding remarriage and divorce for this one? |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by scopeman24(m): 4:35pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Amotolongbo:you don taste am before |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by Zedoo(m): 6:35pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ahnie: Lmao. If you’re aging fast because you married rubbish in your economic desperation you DESERVE IT!! Nobody sent you to rush into where you rushed into dey find security akpako dun knack you. |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by adecz: 7:13pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
bukatyne: I agree with you. The risk she took was worthwhile👍 |
Re: Chibok Schoolgirl Joy Bishara Engaged In America by ahnie: 8:38pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Zedoo:Sorry to asked....are you sure you're okay? Just asking? You may never even get a reply from me. |
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