I just noticed he’s been inflating the amount he always tell me he needs in school. The thing pay me sha.

E no even send or pity me to know say I get my own responsibilities. Maybe he feel say I no need money for myself since I never marry or get pickin.

Family matter still dey there, that one na story for another day.

I know say a lot of people dey in the same shoe with me wey be breadwinners.

Abeg, how una take dey handle all these.

Please 🙏 continue giving him.. and act as if you don't know.

The rate at which this teenagers bath spiritual soup they don't know the consiquences over money is very alarming and yahoo

If he go join bad company because of hunger or oppression, na problem ooo.


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Curse777:



Please 🙏 continue giving him.. and act as if you don't know.

The rate at which this teenagers bath spiritual soup they don't know the consiquences over money is very alarming

If he go join bad company because of hunger or oppression, na problem ooo.


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You mean him fit dey bath soap for me, i no understand.

WarrenP:

You mean him fit dey bath soap for me, i no understand.

I mean e fit go do Yahoo+ if you no help am again

Just continue helping him for God,

Oga, you better enjoy your life and do the little you can afford. Everybody dey selfish for life one way or the other.

Majority of us did this thing one way or the other.. But that's not the case here........Op,if only you know what those students pass through at this moment in school,you go even pity am.....Cuz it isn't easy any longer....

WarrenP:
I just noticed he’s been inflating the amount he always tell me he needs in school. The thing pay me sha.

E no even send or pity me to know say I get my own responsibilities. Maybe he feel say I no need money for myself since I never marry or get pickin.

Family matter still dey there, that one na story for another day.

I know say a lot of people dey in the same shoe with me wey be breadwinners.

Abeg, how una take dey handle all these.

He will reap this bad attitude he is showing once you make sure he engages himself into any casual work during holidays

Remind him that his text book money comes from there

Then you are left with school fees receipts where you will see the exact money he pays

From your own end, you will know what to give him as feeding per month

Sonnobax15:

Majority of us did this thing one way or the other.. But that's not the case here........Op,if only you know what those students pass through at this moment in school,you go even pity am.....Cuz it isn't easy any longer....

He for just bill with sense na

frozen70:


He will reap this bad seed he is sowing once you make sure he engages himself into any casual work during holidays

Remind him that his text book money comes from there

Then you are left with school fees receipts where you will see thr exact money he pays

From your own end, you will know what to give him as feeding per month

Thanks sis

WarrenP:


Thanks sis

Welcome dear

WarrenP:


Thanks sis

place him on allowance…if he finish am before then…na him Sabi unless you feel like crediting him.

WarrenP:

You mean him fit dey bath soap for me, i no understand.

You are his maga, bros.

WarrenP:
I just noticed he’s been inflating the amount he always tell me he needs in school. The thing pay me sha.

E no even send or pity me to know say I get my own responsibilities. Maybe he feel say I no need money for myself since I never marry or get pickin.

Family matter still dey there, that one na story for another day.

I know say a lot of people dey in the same shoe with me wey be breadwinners.

Abeg, how una take dey handle all these.

Nigerians generally are like that, and that's quite unfortunate.

Just last week, an in-law inflated the price of a car I wanted him to get for a relative from 7.5m to 8.5m

Unfortunately for him, I ran into the same car on jiji with a price tag of 7.5m.

How you wan take dupe me wey dey online always with free office wifi with something you got online It was a dumb move, honestly.

ChybuzzDD:


Nigerians generally are like that, and that's quite unfortunate.

Just last week, an in-law inflated the price of a car I wanted him to get for a relative from 7.5m to 8.5m

Unfortunately for him, I ran into the same car on jiji with a price tag of 7.5m.

How you wan take dupe me wey dey online always with free office wifi with something you got online It was a dumb move, honestly.

You suppose confront am

WarrenP:
I just noticed he’s been inflating the amount he always tell me he needs in school. The thing pay me sha.

E no even send or pity me to know say I get my own responsibilities. Maybe he feel say I no need money for myself since I never marry or get pickin.

Family matter still dey there, that one na story for another day.

I know say a lot of people dey in the same shoe with me wey be breadwinners.

Abeg, how una take dey handle all these.

If he is not yet involved in helping you to do what you do to bring in the money, then it is time to do that so he will know what it takes to make money.

it's wrong, I see some people saying he should just pretend not knowing, but doing that will not help him become a sincere person in the future, because he has been aided to live an insincere life.

I have a relative I am supporting in school who is now in his second year. Guy was just padding the amount and I had to remind him, I am neither his father nor his elder brother, who are both not even bothered about his schooling.

I told him early January this year, that I gave him till the end of of August to get himself skilled in laptop and phone repairs, that from this September I will be assisting him with only 50% of what I have been sending and he should hustle out the rest with his skill.

Curse777:



Please 🙏 continue giving him.. and act as if you don't know.

The rate at which this teenagers bath spiritual soup they don't know the consiquences over money is very alarming and yahoo

If he go join bad company because of hunger or oppression, na problem ooo.


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This na one of dy things wey dy motivate me to always give my jnr bro.wetin boys dy do naw in dy name of Yahoo no be small

frozen70:


He will reap this bad attitude he is showing once you make sure he engages himself into any casual work during holidays

Remind him that his text book money comes from there

Then you are left with school fees receipts where you will see the exact money he pays

From your own end, you will know what to give him as feeding per month

beyond tuition fees, text book and feeding, there are other expenses these students spend on

Accommodation, assignments that might require printing, practical for science courses and other miscellaneous. It's not easy for students now in this country

If i catch you inflating fees, i cut you off. They know me in my family. I am not your ATM.

UnfairLife7:
beyond tuition fees, text book and feeding, there are other expenses these students spend on

Accommodation, assignments that might require printing, practical for science courses and other miscellaneous. It's not easy for students now in this country

From the tone of the OP complains

That guy wasn't truthful

We all went to university and we know when one is acting funny for school stuff and excessive demands

UnfairLife7:
beyond tuition fees, text book and feeding, there are other expenses these students spend on

Accommodation, assignments that might require printing, practical for science courses and other miscellaneous. [/b]It's not easy for students now in this country[b]

Not easy for everyone o

Skyview01:
If i catch you inflating fees, i cut you off. They know me in my family. I am not your ATM.

How it should be. Me I intend to build my life in a way that I can help many many people.

Being the last born of 2, I still want to help my elder one and even parents.

But the moment I smell any entitlement in your demeanor, even if you in my family, I cut you off straight or give you a shock reminder that I owe you Nothing.

I love how humans always behave when they know they can’t manipulate you for jack shit.

The only person that can display entitlement mentality to me is my unborn child. Even my wife will have to work and contribute.

Skyview01:
If i catch you inflating fees, i cut you off. They know me in my family. I am not your ATM.

Im glad i met my kind of person in this topic of discuss

Skyview01:
If i catch you inflating fees, i cut you off. They know me in my family. I am not your ATM.

Im glad i met my kind of person in this topic of discuss.

akaahs:

Im glad i met my kind of person in this topic of discuss.

I can help relatives with my life , the least i expect in return is honesty. Money is hard to make and if you have to pad bills for me, i will not take you serious anymore.

FROGMAN101:


How it should be. Me I intend to build my life in a way that I can help many many people.

Being the last born of 2, I still want to help my elder one and even parents.

But the moment I smell any entitlement in your demeanor, even if you in my family, I cut you off straight or give you a shock reminder that I owe you Nothing.

I love how humans always behave when they know they can’t manipulate you for jack shit.

The only person that can display entitlement mentality to me is my unborn child. Even my wife will have to work and contribute.

Bro the thing really pain me, he increased his school fee from 84 to 140k knowing fully well that I have alot going on in my life.

I was about to send him the money until I confirmed from a friend who works in a cyber cafe.

Skyview01:


I can help relatives with my life , the least i expect in return is honesty. Money is hard to make and if you have to pad bills for me, i will not take you serious anymore.

He couldn’t even call me since I found out he lied to me, he really Bleep up

Now I don’t really care if he loses his admission cos I feel betrayed

WarrenP:


He couldn’t even call me since I found out he lied to me, he really Bleep up

Now I don’t really care if he loses his admission cos I feel betrayed

My brother, please do not let him lose his admissions. That will make him a greater burden to you tommow.
My sister died a year ago. She asked me for money 1.5 years ago for treatments for fibroid. I did send 200k instantly spoke with the surgeon and after she got the money, refused to do the medical procedure we agreed on. She rather spent about 50k on herbal remedies and consumed the rest on God knows what.

I was so mad i refused to pick her call for more than 6 months.

I blocked her out of anger not knowing she was dying.
She was rushed to hospital and gave.
I still have her last message asking to talk with me and i live with that regret of letting my anger go too far because of money.
Maybe if i had forgiven her, she would have opened up to me and i may have been able to keep her alive.
Do not be mad with your siblings for long.
I live with that regret till today.

Quit funding that man's education and send him to be apprentice for a vocational trainee

Skyview01:


I can help relatives with my life , the least i expect in return is honesty. Money is hard to make and if you have to pad bills for me, i will not take you serious anymore.

honesty is the watch word though. I was even thinking probably he felt the person might be feeling somewhat cold to understand that he'd need to feed, buy books, text books, handout, accommodation and other miscellaneous. Hence, the need to inflate the tuition fees to cover for some other expenses.