Angelfrost:


Bro, there is no confusion...

While UK may not officially ascribe Dr to Optometrists, that doesn't mean other nations don't.

Please, get the thrust of my submission here... We need to quit quibbling over what healthcare professionals or other professionals choose to address themselves as... Rather, focus on each profession.

Do you really think an average Physician in Europe or America is really concerned about who bears or doesn't bear the same Dr title as he does?!! Nah... That's the very least of their headaches.

What these people have been doing on this thread is insensitive and stupid... This is neither the place nor time for childish ego contests.

Let's focus on our professions and how to make them impact lives better, rather than being overprotective of mere titles.

blamingthedevil:


https://dailytrust.com/optometrists-rise-in-defence-of-murdered-colleague-ask-igp-to-speed-up-prosecution/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1691440617

Angelfrost:


Don't mind these people...

It's only among low self-esteem and petty Nigerians you see such nonsense.

Even Veterinarians are fully addressed as Drs abroad... Try it here in this third world nation, and see our esteemed and all-knowing physicians embark on indefinite strikes.

Focusmind:
I wonder how couples allows issues to get to stage of going physical on each other. Always have your best wedding pictures hung in your living rooms and bedroom. It brings memories of happy times when you gaze at the picture of both of you smiling at each other on that very day. It helps to ward off distrust and hatred. That's what I come to realize, at least in my own marriage.

Being an Optometrist doctor, the woman may be higher than him in social standing. This is one of the worst nightmares of some men - common with men from my part of the country with inferiority complexes, if his education is limited. Something that men should be proud of, and see as a blessing that they have a professional woman as wife. But, no! To some, it is a threat to their unfounded fears and egos. Looking at the man's picture, you could tell his kind of person. I am not exonerating the wife but being cool and resilient under serious provocation by your wife is not a sign of weakness but a greater sign of maturity.

My wife usually comes back to apologize whenever she gets me upset and I "failed" to react negatively. She would apologize deeply, pamper me well and tried to regig the union. But anytime I reacted harshly, she distances herself. We should all endeavour to understand our spouses, especially how to press their " mumu button" to get what we want and have a stable union.

Nigeria, as it is now, is difficult and, every body is angry; some transferring the anger to their supposedly loved ones at home.

zoedew:

Most of the time it is the man who needs to walk away from the quarrel. A mature man will do just that! A woman will follow a quarrel through if you let her but don’t! The result can be disastrous. It could ruin your life, home, children and destiny!

Culer:
In a bid to sound 'redpillled', you just made your self look so stupid. Guy you're more than 30 yrs old and you're still this foolish?
Common sense no just dey your head.

FireUpNow:

So fighting or beating her is for the non simp right? Now that the husband has killed the woman he is not a simple anymore to you. Violence is not the answer

Alliswell248:


"Bad boy".
It is against the scripture to camp with side chick.


What about those of us without side chicks?

APOPTOSIS:
I deeply sympathetise with her family over this avoidable carnage & death . People should be taught to know when to run way with their lives intact.
Leaving your marriage is not a recipe for disaster.
No one on this planet has ever been reported to have died as a result of being SINGLE.
Avoid any form of Toxic Relationship, not even the one coming from your spouse or sibling.

By the way, she is not a Medical Doctor...
She's an Optometrist
An optometrist is completely different from an ophthalmologist who happens to be the Medical Doctor.
Optometrist acquired an O.D.
Ophthalmologist acquired MD, M.B.,B.S, or M.B.,B.Ch
Nigerians should learn the right terminologies & observe the distinguishing features especially when paramedics & allied medical staff come close to try deceiving them.

Same goes to Nigerian Optometrists who always want to be addressed as surgeons. Please stop distorting an already distorted nation only to continue blaming Buhari/Tinubu.

Again, people should be proud of their courses of study. After all, no single Medical Doctor has made it to the Aso Villa as President or the table of world's Billionaires meanwhile, others have.

ojtech8291:
Confirmed story. This is my area. The Man is a Monster. He has been beating his wife until he finally kills her this time around. The Wife refused to vacate the Marriage because her Family and Friends did not support the Marriage from the beginning. She died because of what people would say. Is it not reasonable to choose shame for death? No matter what happens your Family will still receive you. Too bad! According to my Pastor, it is better to be alive and not married than to be killed in marriage.

ojtech8291:
Confirmed story. This is my area. The Man is a Monster. He has been beating his wife until he finally kills her this time around. The Wife refused to vacate the Marriage because her Family and Friends did not support the Marriage from the beginning. She died because of what people would say. Is it not reasonable to choose shame for death? No matter what happens your Family will still receive you. Too bad! According to my Pastor, it is better to be alive and not married than to be killed in marriage.

luminouz:


Lol, so you see how your emotions make you jump to conclusions? How or when did I say beating her or fighting her or even violence is the answer?

There are a thousand ways to make a woman behave without touching her.

FireUpNow:

I am sure you support domestic violatence

luminouz:


Your case is closed, simp...

Don't quote me again

ojtech8291:
Confirmed story. This is my area. The Man is a Monster. He has been beating his wife until he finally kills her this time around. The Wife refused to vacate the Marriage because her Family and Friends did not support the Marriage from the beginning. She died because of what people would say. Is it not reasonable to choose shame for death? No matter what happens your Family will still receive you. Too bad! According to my Pastor, it is better to be alive and not married than to be killed in marriage.

FireUpNow:
I wish you the same. A bigger simp you are!

Beverlyjean:


Again , wisdom determines the futures outcome... the one that gets killed is the most affected...so y expect the man to walk away , or is the woman not mature as well... if it gets heated , the woman should walk away cos she is the one thatvwill mostly get maimed or killed if it gets wild... getting arrested for murder is still better than death cos an arrest gives u a second chance ...death is the end , no second chance...so its best u don't end up dying ... so the woman should walk away from a violent confrontation when it's getting heated up

freddie009:
We have good guys but they see them as less dominant, weak men. They want hard men, that would put them on their toes, guys that go to clubs, love to have fun, especially those in their early to late twenties.

Confused gender, they want good guy with a bad boy vibes since that doesn't exist they end up going for bad boys.

SalamRushdie:
Just look at her and the man , a total mis match , that man is a womanizer

FireUpNow:

I am sure you support domestic violatence

FireUpNow:
I wish you the same. A bigger simp you are!

IconicR:
He has been supporting domestic violence since time immemorial. You don't know whom you are quoting. Go to their redpill thread and see his comments

emapeteum:

Stop this abnormality. Other nations in those countries you mention are doing excellently well. Nigerian doctors are not better than other healthcare professionals. The write-up never mentions that she was a medical doctor but a doctor. Is a misnomer for healthcare professionals to think Dr is purely a physician title. Dr is an academic title borrowed by a university in the UK to honor young physicians in the 17 or 18th century . The University of Paris got a permit from the Pope to use the title for the highest academic qualification, Ph.D. Get your fact right before you think you outsmart others.