i love both

My wife is more IMPORTANT than my children COS if you know make her happy @ times she fit go born wor wor piking for YOu
and @ the end of the day when you av spent so much on the kids they go and leave two of you alone( AS IT WAS IN THE BEGINING)

They are in our lives for different purposes, Wife cannot take the place of children and children cannot take the place of wife.

Haha! Which kain question be dis one? Abegi i nor read 'am.
I don commot for here!

Both should be very important but if worse comes to worst I may pick my children cos like someone already said,husband can\may leave you for someone else but the children will always be yours.

Ijogz K:

None!!! They are both Liabilities  

u were such at a certain stage man

My Wife first, followed by my kids

This question can be answered this way. The husband is the driver, the wife the conductor and children, the passengers. The passengers would enter the bus and drop i.e. the children would come and later leave to go and start their own family. The conductor gathers the money, he helps you out. He makes sure no passengers cheats even if he puts some of the money in his pocket, it is still better than the passengers not paying.

Bottomline, don't despise your wife because of your childen, without her they won't be there afterall and in the conductor's case, your wife would be with you even when the children are gone. You guys would face it together. If you make her look like a fool because of your children, they would go one day, start their home and focus on their family NA THAT TIME YOUR WIFE GO SHOW YOU PEPPER. They do not forget and they have the powers to show you pepper believe me.

M M M:

am single

you have remained in this STATUS , WONT U HAVE A RETHINK NOW THAT YOU ARE CLOCKING 40 SOON?

both, no sentiment. even if you love ur wife more dan ur children or vice versa, do not show it,

Muttex:

both, no sentiment. even if you love your wife more dan your children or vice versa, do not show it,

I quite doubt that. Conversely, it is expected that if you love you wife more than anybody, show it but if you love your children than your wife, never show it.

Both are important to me

I won't lie oooo, my children are more important, am sorry to say, i Love my hubby but my children (son) is my number one. I used to think my hubby is my one and only, until i met another (my pickin),

[B]Yes[/B]

ronkebp:

I won't lie oooo, my children are more important, am sorry to say, i Love my hubby but my children (son) is my number one. I used to think my hubby is my one and only, until i met another (my pickin),

Normal for women.

Wife is important because, without wife the man can not reproduce ( he can not give birth to child) itself only.
But the most important one is children because wife can divorce her husband but child/children can not divorce his her father.

Mtcheeeew!
@OP, Wat sort of a question is ds?
Already, u are breaking a home cos ds will 4m a kind of segregation in d heads of som pple n will henceforth fight 4 a reason nt worth it.
So d wife shld be child bearing tool or d children a distraction?
Moderator shld pls be more selective in front page topics.

For me is 50/50.

child + wife are a mans priceless possession,

wife and children!

None, just me,myself and I,

Children all the way.If u remove your wife from marriage,if not for kids the entire institution falls flat.Childless couples are really trying

Children are more important, your wife can leave you but your children will be there for you in times of need , I once met a man in a wheel chair who was paralysed from an accident guess what his wife left him it was only his daughters that were taking care of him

The reality is that one's wife would be as important as one's children.

U can only feel more love for ur children than ur wife if the wife is fuc-king up big tym or more love for ur wife than ur children if they are grown and don't care about u. They don't visit u and u see them only once in a while. In this case, u would appreciate and love ur wife more for the fact that she has been ur companion day in day out. Even if the children don't care and not always there, ur wife will be there.

So, it depends and thats the way it is.

Did you guys drink kitikpa? Because I can't believe you're all answering this question with your senses intact.

This question cannot be answered by single folk as you cannot truly relate with the question on ground.

That being said, I shall refrain from answering this discombobulating (lol sexkills) question