A friend just complained to me that he hadly have sexual feelings for his wife. Couples already have 4 children in a 9 years old marriage.

He is sexually active, but he just lacks the excitement when it comes to meeting the wife for intimacy. It's been three months now without it and wife either, does not help matters as she does not initiate or disturb the husband for intimacy.

Could this be a sickness or what?

Is the husband broke? Is he facing a tough time? Or is he disappointed in any of his expectations''
Because when ever i am broke sex is useless and boring to me and the same thing applicable to many responsible men.
Four kids'' and some men are just after polygamy'' sha who no go no go know''

You don masturbate all your testosterone finish

Is the op or his friend seeking our advice to encourage him to start fornication or what, did you ask us before you marry her? You said the woman is not even interested again and the husband is not interested, what do you want from us, the majority here are not even married and you are seeking marital advice from single people, haven't you seen the type of reasoning and the maturity of the majority of nairalanders? You want ADVICE? Ok, go and marry another wife naa, no be wetin you want make we tell you? Make sure say you make it four, that way you will not come to ask us for advice if any of them becomes irritating to you, again,
nonsense.

Why should friends be discussing these kind of things together. I feel like it’s too personal..

9years 4kids ha, that means she gives birth every other year since they got married. How will he find her sexually appealing? How? When the pussy hardly rest. Given birth naturally expands the v.j and couple with the tears given during the delivery. Even though the v.j will contract back, it can never be as before.

And mostly likely the wife doesn't take of herself because of the continuous delivery. No time for her body to get back in shape.

They are not matured yet

Babe1994:
Why should friends be discussing these kind of things together. I feel like it’s too personal..

Maybe you have started to see your wife in a certain way not in conformity with your thought on preference and your feelings are drifting away. The way we think of something have an influence over the way our feelings is reshaped and reformed over it. You can improve your feelings for her by initiating thought of your wife as sexy, beautiful and how she is just the way you prefer it. Do this often and as many times you can everyday

Babe1994:
Why should friends be discussing these kind of things together. I feel like it’s too personal..

Verily

Abujaexpress:
A friend just complained to me that he hadly have sexual feelings for his wife. Couples already have 4 children in a 9 years old marriage.

He is sexually active, but he just lacks the excitement when it comes to meeting the wife for intimacy. It's been three months now without it and wife either, does not help matters as she does not initiate or disturb the husband for intimacy.

Could this be a sickness or what?

Dem dey on break
But make them no stay apart for long
If not devil go take advantage
Example one partner may start cheating the other

they should try working out together,if they can,some time fitness routines does magic.

Chai..


Both have different sexual orientation.

The woman is hardened and enjoys it differently.

What's your financial status.

During economy hardship like this,sexual urge goes off through the roof.

As far as u are in Nigeria it looks normal honestly.

Abujaexpress:
A friend just complained to me that he hadly have sexual feelings for his wife. Couples already have 4 children in a 9 years old marriage.

He is sexually active, but he just lacks the excitement when it comes to meeting the wife for intimacy. It's been three months now without it and wife either, does not help matters as she does not initiate or disturb the husband for intimacy.

Could this be a sickness or what?

They both need to talk to a Sex teraphist if they can afford it...

YouandiAllofus:
Maybe you have started to see your wife in a certain way not in conformity with your thought on preference and your feelings are drifting away. The way we think of something have an influence over the way our feelings is reshaped and reformed over it. You can improve your feelings for her by initiating thought of your wife as sexy, beautiful and how she is just the way you prefer it. Do this often and as many times you can everyday

Okay. I think this advice is very logical

Foodqueen:
What's your financial status.

Doing pretty okay. Above the poverty mark

Fugazy2023:
You don masturbate all your testosterone finish

that's not even possible.

They are either tired of each other or see finish don enter am.

Sometimes stress from too much work and hustling to make ends meet can put a strain on their sexual life. They need to spice things up a bit but for a couple that old, it might feel a little daunting trying something new or something they are not used to making them look akward but it's worth trying.

For instance, the woman can get some sexy nightie and sensual body mist to spray at night after bathing. She should get rid of any aboniki balm and Ori smell from the house and around her.
Brush and use some quality mouth wash. Then chew on some centerfresh gum and tomtom combo. Change the sheets to soft pure white sheets then lie down and wait for the man. I'm telling you, if the man no fall, he's a log of wood.

Another thing I advise in situations like this especially if it's a see finish situation is that one of the couple should go on a vacation. That way they'll miss each other and the spark is restored.

Hope this helps.

Op your friend have been eating eba and ewedu for many years

Tell him to change course

He should taste another meal probably rice and chicken


Bumble has the most spiciest one

No family planning.. rubbish family....
9yrs 4 kids...
That means the wife put to bed every 2yrs and 2months....
Even the wife family sef go tire for her ..
The man is very useless to open his smelling mouth to utter such rubbish...
You op have the guts to say the man is "Sexually active"...
Nonsense...
So assuming say the man sees someone that will match his taste, na so him go continue to bang dey reproduce like rabbit...
Some women can tolerate nonsense at home o...
Tufia!!!!!!!!

Abujaexpress:
A friend just complained to me that he hadly have sexual feelings for his wife. Couples already have 4 children in a 9 years old marriage.

He is sexually active, but he just lacks the excitement when it comes to meeting the wife for intimacy. It's been three months now without it and wife either, does not help matters as she does not initiate or disturb the husband for intimacy.

Could this be a sickness or what?

Ask your mothers mother... Afise ko...iseemi ni orin ope...won o fi semi BABA ati OLORUN MI ni keebi lere...OHUN ti WON se funmi...loje/lojekoje igbagbogbo sa lope... Ati orin ati ijo, lemi yo figbe JESU ati OLORUN ga o...Halleluyah...

Op, you married a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men that's why.

When a chewing gum is eaten , it loses it sweetness. The person who eats it after the first eater will sure lose interest in the gum.

Your wife has lost her sweetness to other men.

Find a virgin and marry. Her sweetness will be forever new to your peniis.

No be lie

jeromestarks:
Op, you married a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men that's why.

When a chewing gum is eaten , it loses it sweetness. The person who eats it after the first eater will sure lose interest in the gum.

Your wife has lost her sweetness to other men.

Find a virgin and marry. Her sweetness will be forever new to your peniis.

Babe1994:
Why should friends be discussing these kind of things together. I feel like it’s too personal..

Because the friend is him.

You're gei Saar



If we check your phone now we go see links of gei porn