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rightopdeep:
Thanks

Okay... I await your response when you are done selling...

frozen70:
Let me use myself as a case study here

In the year 1996, my mum was terribly sick and we took her to hospital after some days she was not responding again, just mopping at us in the hospital and couldn't talk

I closed from work and I came there met my dad watching my my mum helplessly

I asked him what happen he said her condition is not responding and is getting worst

I said Dad, let's take her to Eko hospital he said that hospital is expensive I said let's get there first

When we got to Eko hospital for she was admitted there, those days anything Eko hospital can not treat then forget it

So we were asked to deposit 30k, so my dad became worried about the amount I said Dad what is it again and it was around 10pm

He said they requested for 30k I said let me sign an undertaking

He said where will the money come from, I said I have 31k in my account that by tomorrow I will go and close the account

So I went to the consultant that hour and told him to commence work on my mom that tomorrow morning I will bring the money

The whole Doctors on duty that night was shocked at me, a small girl like me I was just 22yrs then, so they ask me where can I get that amount in the morning, I said I have 31k in my account that I will close the account in the morning

So they came down to my mum, took her blood and urine, the urine was passed through a catithar and the color was black

So through out that night I said to myself
Is better I close this account and save my mother, so that if any thing happens I will know that I did my best with all I have

So as early as 6am I left Eko hospital to bank and closed my account then with Universal Trust Bank

Brought the whole money from that account and paid to the hospital

Meanwhile my mum was in semi comma and was just looking no sleep, no food, just looking at the ceiling

She couldnt stool for 1wk and when they started working on her she started responding gradually and she made a sign that she wants to poo

We got to her room toilet she couldn't poo

I collected hand gloves, insert my finger into her anus and was breaking out the hard poo till the stone poo came out gradually and we got to the soft one which was the last poo

Immediately after that she started asking for food and started responding well

You see I did all these sacrifices to save her life to live for us all
After that she stayed 30yrs and died last two years

I didn't regret the sacrifice I made and I never lacked a penny in my life till date

Whatever good we do comes with a greater reward especially on our parents

I also thank God for Eko hospital, thought we were given a bill of 300k after her stay for one month and was discharged, we were given opportunity to pay a certain amount every month till we cleared the whole bill

How old was your mum then?

sekundosekundo:
My verdict..... DON'T SELL THE HOUSE.

Do not listen to this guy.

sekundosekundo:
How old was your mum then?

Stop asking the age of the mum, it has nothing to do with anything!

@OP

Sell whatever you can to save your mum. She would do the same for you. You can always acquire properties, but life is only one and its your mother we are talking about. Sell the house and if the proceed is not enough, you can ask for help here or open a go fund me to make up the balance.

I wish you all the best.

Free2Fly:
Which better option are you providing then??

none i guess!

frozen70:
Let me use myself as a case study here

In the year 1996, my mum was terribly sick and we took her to hospital after some days she was not responding again, just mopping at us in the hospital and couldn't talk

I closed from work and I came there met my dad watching my my mum helplessly

I asked him what happen he said her condition is not responding and is getting worst

I said Dad, let's take her to Eko hospital he said that hospital is expensive I said let's get there first

When we got to Eko hospital for she was admitted there, those days anything Eko hospital can not treat then forget it

So we were asked to deposit 30k, so my dad became worried about the amount I said Dad what is it again and it was around 10pm

He said they requested for 30k I said let me sign an undertaking

He said where will the money come from, I said I have 31k in my account that by tomorrow I will go and close the account

So I went to the consultant that hour and told him to commence work on my mom that tomorrow morning I will bring the money

The whole Doctors on duty that night was shocked at me, a small girl like me I was just 22yrs then, so they ask me where can I get that amount in the morning, I said I have 31k in my account that I will close the account in the morning

So they came down to my mum, took her blood and urine, the urine was passed through a catithar and the color was black

So through out that night I said to myself
Is better I close this account and save my mother, so that if any thing happens I will know that I did my best with all I have

So as early as 6am I left Eko hospital to bank and closed my account then with Universal Trust Bank

Brought the whole money from that account and paid to the hospital

Meanwhile my mum was in semi comma and was just looking no sleep, no food, just looking at the ceiling

She couldnt stool for 1wk and when they started working on her she started responding gradually and she made a sign that she wants to poo

We got to her room toilet she couldn't poo

I collected hand gloves, insert my finger into her anus and was breaking out the hard poo till the stone poo came out gradually and we got to the soft one which was the last poo

Immediately after that she started asking for food and started responding well

You see I did all these sacrifices to save her life to live for us all
After that she stayed 30yrs and died last two years

I didn't regret the sacrifice I made and I never lacked a penny in my life till date

Whatever good we do comes with a greater reward especially on our parents

I also thank God for Eko hospital, thought we were given a bill of 300k after her stay for one month and was discharged, we were given opportunity to pay a certain amount every month till we cleared the whole bill

Thank you for saving your mom's life. She must have been proud having a strong daughter like you.

frozen70:
Let me use myself as a case study here

In the year 1996, my mum was terribly sick and we took her to hospital after some days she was not responding again, just mopping at us in the hospital and couldn't talk

I closed from work and I came there met my dad watching my my mum helplessly

I asked him what happen he said her condition is not responding and is getting worst

I said Dad, let's take her to Eko hospital he said that hospital is expensive I said let's get there first

When we got to Eko hospital for she was admitted there, those days anything Eko hospital can not treat then forget it

So we were asked to deposit 30k, so my dad became worried about the amount I said Dad what is it again and it was around 10pm

He said they requested for 30k I said let me sign an undertaking

He said where will the money come from, I said I have 31k in my account that by tomorrow I will go and close the account

So I went to the consultant that hour and told him to commence work on my mom that tomorrow morning I will bring the money

The whole Doctors on duty that night was shocked at me, a small girl like me I was just 22yrs then, so they ask me where can I get that amount in the morning, I said I have 31k in my account that I will close the account in the morning

So they came down to my mum, took her blood and urine, the urine was passed through a catithar and the color was black

So through out that night I said to myself
Is better I close this account and save my mother, so that if any thing happens I will know that I did my best with all I have

So as early as 6am I left Eko hospital to bank and closed my account then with Universal Trust Bank

Brought the whole money from that account and paid to the hospital

Meanwhile my mum was in semi comma and was just looking no sleep, no food, just looking at the ceiling

She couldnt stool for 1wk and when they started working on her she started responding gradually and she made a sign that she wants to poo

We got to her room toilet she couldn't poo

I collected hand gloves, insert my finger into her anus and was breaking out the hard poo till the stone poo came out gradually and we got to the soft one which was the last poo

Immediately after that she started asking for food and started responding well

You see I did all these sacrifices to save her life to live for us all
After that she stayed 30yrs and died last two years

I didn't regret the sacrifice I made and I never lacked a penny in my life till date

Whatever good we do comes with a greater reward especially on our parents

I also thank God for Eko hospital, thought we were given a bill of 300k after her stay for one month and was discharged, we were given opportunity to pay a certain amount every month till we cleared the whole bill

Oh ! My God ,You did all these for your Mother ..You Inspire me ,This is Very Touchy

Sometimes I look at this World ,It's all Vanities, I still know some of my Old Friends that doesn't even have a Land no matter how small not to talk having a Building .

Some still stays in a Rented Apartment till date .I remember one that was Sent Parking out of his Rented Apartment asked me to help him Move his Things ,I helped ,He finally moved back to the Village .

This Same Mother Did a lots for me when I was living in a face to face House ,My School Etc ..Your Story Encouraged me ,I was Just confused on what to do but right now ,My heart Becomes strong To sell it.

I have made up mind ,I can't Live in two Houses .

Whatever Would be must be .

At least I must Satisfy My Conscience.

SHE HAS BEEN ON SOME FIRST AID, ANTI PAINS,ANTI INFLAMMATORY DRUGS .DONE SOME MEDICAL TEST .

SO I'M PRAYING ,HOPING FOR A BUYER .

THOUGH SOME HAVE SHOWN INTEREST BUT YET TO PAY .

I EVEN PUT UP THE ADVERTS ON HERE .

The Link
https://www.nairaland.com/7806453/house-sale-owner-4-mlocation


TOLD SOME REAL ESTATE AGENTS OFFLINE AS WELL



THANK YOU SO MUCH

frozen70:
Let me use myself as a case study here

In the year 1996, my mum was terribly sick and we took her to hospital after some days she was not responding again, just mopping at us in the hospital and couldn't talk

I closed from work and I came there met my dad watching my my mum helplessly

I asked him what happen he said her condition is not responding and is getting worst

I said Dad, let's take her to Eko hospital he said that hospital is expensive I said let's get there first

When we got to Eko hospital for she was admitted there, those days anything Eko hospital can not treat then forget it

So we were asked to deposit 30k, so my dad became worried about the amount I said Dad what is it again and it was around 10pm

He said they requested for 30k I said let me sign an undertaking

He said where will the money come from, I said I have 31k in my account that by tomorrow I will go and close the account

So I went to the consultant that hour and told him to commence work on my mom that tomorrow morning I will bring the money

The whole Doctors on duty that night was shocked at me, a small girl like me I was just 22yrs then, so they ask me where can I get that amount in the morning, I said I have 31k in my account that I will close the account in the morning

So they came down to my mum, took her blood and urine, the urine was passed through a catithar and the color was black

So through out that night I said to myself
Is better I close this account and save my mother, so that if any thing happens I will know that I did my best with all I have

So as early as 6am I left Eko hospital to bank and closed my account then with Universal Trust Bank

Brought the whole money from that account and paid to the hospital

Meanwhile my mum was in semi comma and was just looking no sleep, no food, just looking at the ceiling

She couldnt stool for 1wk and when they started working on her she started responding gradually and she made a sign that she wants to poo

We got to her room toilet she couldn't poo

I collected hand gloves, insert my finger into her anus and was breaking out the hard poo till the stone poo came out gradually and we got to the soft one which was the last poo

Immediately after that she started asking for food and started responding well

You see I did all these sacrifices to save her life to live for us all
After that she stayed 30yrs and died last two years

I didn't regret the sacrifice I made and I never lacked a penny in my life till date

Whatever good we do comes with a greater reward especially on our parents

I also thank God for Eko hospital, thought we were given a bill of 300k after her stay for one month and was discharged, we were given opportunity to pay a certain amount every month till we cleared the whole bill

Haaaa.. You do well oooo.

30 years extra

rightopdeep:
Thanks ...

I just Got Sooo Confused and I need Some Talks of Encouragement,Sometimes In situation like this Sharing Helps.

Since you have two.. It is right for you to sell one

Skyview01:
Stop asking the age of the mum, it has nothing to do with anything!

I can't sell my house to treat a 65 year old mother who will eventually die in no distance time.

Skyview01:
Do not listen to this guy.

If he sell that house, he'll live to regret it.

sekundosekundo:
I can't sell my house to treat a 65 year old mother who will eventually die in no distance time.

Have you lost your mom or is she still alive?

My mother is late and she would sell even herself to keep me alive.

sekundosekundo:
If he sell that house, he'll live to regret it.

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@sekundosekundo,Let me put it straight to you sir. I won't ever Live to Regrets it , Even if She is Older than 65 , Experience Narrated up there By this Member Frozen70 Indeed Puts More Energy and Optimism in me .

I have Vacant Land as well which I'm hopeful to still build another second one Later if Almighty God Wish .

I came up on here for Advise ,I have Gotten Different ones and I Appreciate Everyone Including the Member that Insulted me ,I thank you as well.

Thank You all.

We Learn Everyday ...It's My Most Trying Times Anyway .

Everyone Going through Trying times May The Creator See All through.

frozen70:
Let me use myself as a case study here

In the year 1996, my mum was terribly sick and we took her to hospital after some days she was not responding again, just mopping at us in the hospital and couldn't talk

I closed from work and I came there met my dad watching my my mum helplessly

I asked him what happen he said her condition is not responding and is getting worst

I said Dad, let's take her to Eko hospital he said that hospital is expensive I said let's get there first

When we got to Eko hospital for she was admitted there, those days anything Eko hospital can not treat then forget it

So we were asked to deposit 30k, so my dad became worried about the amount I said Dad what is it again and it was around 10pm

He said they requested for 30k I said let me sign an undertaking

He said where will the money come from, I said I have 31k in my account that by tomorrow I will go and close the account

So I went to the consultant that hour and told him to commence work on my mom that tomorrow morning I will bring the money

The whole Doctors on duty that night was shocked at me, a small girl like me I was just 22yrs then, so they ask me where can I get that amount in the morning, I said I have 31k in my account that I will close the account in the morning

So they came down to my mum, took her blood and urine, the urine was passed through a catithar and the color was black

So through out that night I said to myself
Is better I close this account and save my mother, so that if any thing happens I will know that I did my best with all I have

So as early as 6am I left Eko hospital to bank and closed my account then with Universal Trust Bank

Brought the whole money from that account and paid to the hospital

Meanwhile my mum was in semi comma and was just looking no sleep, no food, just looking at the ceiling

She couldnt stool for 1wk and when they started working on her she started responding gradually and she made a sign that she wants to poo

We got to her room toilet she couldn't poo

I collected hand gloves, insert my finger into her anus and was breaking out the hard poo till the stone poo came out gradually and we got to the soft one which was the last poo

Immediately after that she started asking for food and started responding well

You see I did all these sacrifices to save her life to live for us all
After that she stayed 30yrs and died last two years

I didn't regret the sacrifice I made and I never lacked a penny in my life till date

Whatever good we do comes with a greater reward especially on our parents

I also thank God for Eko hospital, thought we were given a bill of 300k after her stay for one month and was discharged, we were given opportunity to pay a certain amount every month till we cleared the whole bill

I have to read this emotional piece twice .
Your sacrifice paid off.

May our sacrifices pay off.

rightopdeep:
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@sekundosekundo,Let me put it straight to you sir. I won't ever Live to Regrets it , Even if She is Older than 65 , Experience Narrated up there By this Member Frozen70 Indeed Puts More Energy and Optimism in me .

I have Vacant Land as well which I'm hopeful to still build another second one Later if Almighty God Wish .

I came up on here for Advise ,I have Gotten Different ones and I Appreciate Everyone Including the Member that Insulted me ,I thank you as well.

Thank You all.

We Learn Everyday ...It's My Most Trying Times Anyway .

Everyone Going through Trying times May The Creator See All through.

Amen 🙏

DenreleDave:
Haaaa.. You do well oooo.

30 years extra

Yes honestly and she lived with me and carried my children for me and my children never knew what it means to be on day care all through

I didn't even have a house help as she does everything for me

Especially looking after those children in their infant age and preschool age

Till they entered boarding house ans now in the university

If I don't spend that money then to save her life
I will still spend it on her burial if she had died then

But it all ended with praise to God 🙏

rightopdeep:
Oh ! My God ,You did all these for your Mother ..You Inspire me ,This is Very Touchy

Sometimes I look at this World ,It's all Vanities, I still know some of my Old Friends that doesn't even have a Land no matter how small not to talk having a Building .

Some still stays in a Rented Apartment till date .I remember one that was Sent Parking out of his Rented Apartment asked me to help him Move his Things ,I helped ,He finally moved back to the Village .

This Same Mother Did a lots for me when I was living in a face to face House ,My School Etc ..Your Story Encouraged me ,I was Just confused on what to do but right now ,My heart Becomes strong To sell it.

I have made up mind ,I can't Live in two Houses .

Whatever Would be must be .

At least I must Satisfy My Conscience.

SHE HAS BEEN ON SOME FIRST AID, ANTI PAINS,ANTI INFLAMMATORY DRUGS .DONE SOME MEDICAL TEST .

SO I'M PRAYING ,HOPING FOR A BUYER .

THOUGH SOME HAVE SHOWN INTEREST BUT YET TO PAY .

I EVEN PUT UP THE ADVERTS ON HERE .

The Link
https://www.nairaland.com/7806453/house-sale-owner-4-mlocation


TOLD SOME REAL ESTATE AGENTS OFFLINE AS WELL



THANK YOU SO MUCH

God will make it simple for you

Once you have made up your mind you will do it

Good luck to you

frozen70:
Yes honestly and she lived with me and carried my children for me and my children never knew what it means to be on day care all through

I didn't even have a house help as she does everything for me

Especially looking after those children in their infant age and preschool age

Till they entered boarding house ans now in the university

If I don't spend that money then to save her life
I will still spend it on her burial of she died then

But it all ended with praise

Frozen... I use to think you are a young lady oooo

Haaaaaa, your children are in the university...

Haaaaa frozen....... Abeg if u Don offend u b4, no vex ooo.... My sincere apologies ooo

Skyview01:
Thank you for saving your mom's life. She must have been proud having a strong daughter like you.

Honestly she was, with my dad
My dad keep telling me that he wished I was a man
😂 😂 😂

DenreleDave:
Frozen... I use to think you are a young lady oooo

Haaaaaa, your children are in the university...

Haaaaa frozen....... Abeg if u Don offend u b4, no vex ooo.... My sincere apologies ooo

My dear, i understand 🤣🤣

If you read my lines here on nairaland
I say things the way it is expected to be

Though I hardly get insulted

But my aim is to let people know that

If you can deceive people
You can't deceive yourself

The moment you tell yourself the truth and do the right thing you will be stable in life

Nothing will bring you down

sekundosekundo:
I can't sell my house to treat a 65 year old mother who will eventually die in no distance time.

Maybe you were not shown love growing up, not the case with everyone. The process is more important than the outcome, If you are hardworking enough to build a house, you can build more houses by duplicating the same process. I am a hard man and believe me when I tell you I have had to make very tough decisions in life.

Right now, I would sell all my houses, to have my mother back just for one month.

rightopdeep:
Thanks

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