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My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 12:58pm On Aug 31, 2023
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by silvoclaira: 1:04pm On Aug 31, 2023
Iyaebe o!
cheesy Lies. Its you!
Its your mum and you. Your mum is a smarter one. She just saved her company from your poison.
(we go chase you OP from Nairaland)

HURRAY! Let's join the company staffs to celebrate the rubbing of sh!t on the OP's face. Thats why you are always here in Nairaland, jobless typing BS
BTW your mum likes you, but she has to save the company from your troubles wink

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 31, 2023
silvoclaira:
Aint it your mum?
I said my friend's mom

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by TemplarLandry: 1:05pm On Aug 31, 2023
Gossip.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:06pm On Aug 31, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Gossip.
Answer the questions? Will you pass such judgement on your own child before your staff
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Klington: 1:08pm On Aug 31, 2023
shocked
The woman is a disciplinarian.

A no nonsense woman that won't allow her children belittle her staff just because they're her children.

That's a very good decision.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:08pm On Aug 31, 2023
The company the mum has been running well for years..so she's the one to put things right by showing i too know towards trusted staffs.. she should look for a job elsewhere or her mom should set her up with a business.All these spoilt kids. Thank God say she no dey sell nudes.. girls are now very useless these days, just few are okay.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by silvoclaira: 1:09pm On Aug 31, 2023
Hahaha
IconicR:
I said my friend's mom
its you that your mum chased home for constituting nuisance in her place of work. Remain seun to chase you from NairaLand

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Emily22(m): 1:09pm On Aug 31, 2023
Let your friend post it, amebo

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Beremx(f): 1:09pm On Aug 31, 2023
grin
IconicR:
I said my friend's mom
I can bet with my left breast that you're the one involved and not your friend. You don carry your wahala for nairaland go display for your mama company. Stick to nairaland and leave mama company alone
Good for you grin grin

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by obinna58(m): 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
Her mom is a true business woman who relies on facts instead of emotions, I’m sure that’s why she has been progressive.

The silly pampered daughter should change her manners cos if everyone doesn’t like you then you’re the problem

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Davicl: 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
Your mom know you better than nairaland

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Ekpekus(m): 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?
Hmmm...
Why didn't she report to the mother, who is the CEO?
Fighting in the workplace should not be tolerated irrespective of who is at fault.
What is her role in the company? Intern you said, was dishing out instructions part of her job description?
The mother knows the daughter better than you do as a friend.
Finally, you have heard your friend's side of the story, please hear the side of the mother and staff too.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Googledotcom: 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
I was not there when the brouhaha happened, so I have nothing to say

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by alizma: 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
Good
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Donmorph1991(m): 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
Your friend want to ruin her mothers heritage with her nonchalant characters

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Emmerlee(m): 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.


The above already tells me a lot about her angry

Why will everyone be against one person? An intern for that matter oh.. are you sure this friend of yours is not one arrogant, spoilt brat with an inflated sense of entitlement because it's her mother's company? Why should they take instructions from her even? What does she know? Because she's madam's daughter? undecided

This is a non-issue abeg. She will learn life when it's time.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by SILVERLINES: 1:10pm On Aug 31, 2023
grin

- She is her mom's daughter
- Her mom knows her too well
- She's arrogant
- Constituting nuisance in her work place
- Her mom took the best decision and shouldn't allow her arrogant daughter to jeopardize her efforts and cause ills among her staffs who are more relevant and experienced than her wayward daughter.
- Her mom shouldn't allow her step her foot into her company again

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Godswillu(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
Assuming the company is not her mum own. I don't think she will behave the way she is behaving (according to you try to make things better without consulting her mum first)
The mom knows her daughter very well that is why she did what she did.
And I challenge her, if she goes to another company she cannot try what she is doing in her mum company there.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by christejames(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
The mum is right! cool

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nahunger(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
grin
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by visiondee(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
The mother did the right thing. Some children sometimes have this feeling of entitlement because something or a place belongs to their parent, believing in as much their parent is a boss, automatically they also become such. The mother knows the sweat and pains she had endured before reaching that height and has understand the value you get working from those at the least level to the top to keep the organisation running. Hence she's trying to instil that in her. Besides she's trying to bring her up so when she gets to the said height, she can handle people properly.


Εƒ.B: You can't know your friend more than her mum, either she acts disciplined or not, the mother will have larger share of it not you. So leave her for her mom.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by adeshola1(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
K
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by jumper524(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
The daughter is most likely blocking their daily bread route.
And of course there's something off about her that could make the entire staff gang against her.
Normal normal, she no suppose do intern for her mama place sha..

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Yugoslavia247(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
Yes it is right.

Your mom knows that you be that kind person wey no dey hear word.

You wan dey show say you be boss because na your mama get company.

If you want to run the company then know your place.

Take orders.
You are not even an heir.

You r brother is very calm and very good to staffs that is why your mom trust his decisions.

But you are rash and always feel that you deserve to be worshipped.

Your mom is no fool.

She must have asked the staff she trust and they all testify.

No wonder you dey nairaland 247

Na mummy thank you you dey chop.

If them leave you you think you fit run the company.

U never start you don dey fight.

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nadingo: 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2023
How can staff take instructions from an intern?

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Nobody: 1:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
Helper1000:
The company the mum has been running well for years..so she's the one to put things right by showing i too know towards trusted staffs.. she should look for a job elsewhere or her mom should set her up with a business.
She already has a good job, just waiting for resumption
She's doing intern there but those staff will never take instructions from her which is the major cause of the fights
Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by deluckiest(m): 1:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
Story for the gods!

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Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by Administration1: 1:12pm On Aug 31, 2023
Ode, because of wetin sef.

Omo, my dad's servants are not mine. Even some of his escorts, the way we flex sef, you'll not know they are personnels sef until e happen.

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