Hideaki:


Okada is expensive here . The only reasonable place one can go to is a church and restaurant

I was a loner in school, not much people around me

3. Mental rehabilitation is expensive , it's for only rich folks and I can't afford it


I just want a girl that'll cuddle me that's all

Nothing do you, move to your own place, package well, chat up girls on badoo and tinder.

Hideaki:


Being outside is not my thing unless it's something interesting or I enjoy doing like writing or chess

2. A loner will need someone or at least something

3. Those are not mental health clinics , those ones are clinics for mad people

4. I've made efforts to get friends but I'm quite selective in having friends, not everyone I like being friends with

Plastic doll cost , perhaps you should get me one

Stop answering that fellow.

smartr:


Nothing do you, move to your own place, package well, chat up girls on badoo and tinder.

Tinder and Badoo are filled with street girls


I'm a decent man that wants a decent girl just like myself

Hideaki:



Tinder and Badoo are filled with street girls


I'm a decent man that wants a decent girl just like myself

There are decent girls as lonely as you. You have to search well sha.

Kobojunkie:
Why not go find out for yourself by making an appointment today with a mental health therapist?

I would not recommend anyone's child for someone in your situation.

I bet if it was a female moniker that wrote what I posted, you won't be writing mental rehabilitation

smartr:


There are decent girls as lonely as you. You have to search well sha.

Where do I find them??

Hideaki:
■ I bet if it was a female moniker that wrote what I posted, you won't be writing mental rehabilitation

Because in your mind, mental illness knows gender, right?

Kobojunkie:
Because in your mind, mental illness knows gender, right?

You would have said a different thing if it was a female moniker

Hideaki:
■ You would have said a different thing if it was a female moniker

Again,Because in your mind you are convinced that mental illness knows gender, right?

Hideaki:
I'm always in room all day busy with programming, I have no friends, I'm just a skinny dude, currently 22yr in my finals ( computer engineering)
I spent most of my life as a shut in, but now I don't really want to anymore, virgin and never had a girlfriend, socially and emotionally stunted
what do I do, I don't like to interact with people and I lack motivation to move around.

Just try to go out of your comfort zone, make it a routine to talk to a few random people everyday. You can do this by asking about directions or engaging in other short discussions; your confidence in talking to people will grow overtime by doing this... I know this isn't trouble-free but you just need to impel yourself, talking from experience. To really win this, you need to motivate yourself.

Hideaki:


Okada is expensive here . The only reasonable place one can go to is a church and restaurant

I was a loner in school, not much people around me

3. Mental rehabilitation is expensive , it's for only rich folks and I can't afford it


I just want a girl that'll cuddle me that's all

The by-product of your last statement is not worth.

AyobamiIsaac12:
Just try to go out of your comfort zone, make it a routine to talk to a few random people everyday. You can do this by asking about directions or engaging in other short discussions; your confidence in talking to people will grow overtime by doing this... I know this isn't trouble-free but you just need to impel yourself, talking from experience. To really win this, you need to motivate yourself.

I live in a rural area and don't go to church

I'm a believer of paganism

Mostly people I talk to are old like 60-80

AyobamiIsaac12:
The by-product of your last statement is not worth.

Why??

Hideaki:


Why??

just saw that you believe in paganism. My reasons are deduced from the word of God(Bible) so it really wouldn't matter

I was once like u, but not to do d extreme. I find lapses in your parenting (how your were brought up) self love is key. Your mom didn’t show it according to your statement.

Solution
In life, nobody is coming to help u until you make the necessary moves.
If u don’t have money, u get better by learning skills that pays or applying for a job. Same thing applies to not having friends, u get better by socializing.
Remember nobody is coming to help u

Clue: Look for a random WhatsApp group and text and average gurl u feel u can approach. Text about 7-10. The same with guys…
For guys: It simple just say Hello👋. I live in New York and am looking for someone close to do a particular project (web development) , do you know anyone u can refer?… just do smth nasty

For gurls: They are d simplest being, if only u understand how to play d game. Unfortunately u are not. Then u learn d game. Social interaction is a skill. You learn d skill, just d same way u learnt programming. Send a message like, Hi wassup… I live around LA and am looking for someone with a particular skill (any)… extend d discussion till forever. Chat like 7-10 and see their replies. From there u know how to get along with chatting with a girl.

The truth is for someone like u. U will get burnt at d initial stage of getting along with a gurl. But u still need to learn from friends, that’s why u need pals that know how to play d game.

I won’t be replying your quotes . If with the suggestion that’s been given above, u still can’t find any help. Remember nobody is coming to help u. It will get worst in 5 years time. You need that skill now.

Hideaki:
I'm always in room all day busy with programming, I have no friends, I'm just a skinny dude, currently 22yr in my finals ( computer engineering)
I spent most of my life as a shut in, but now I don't really want to anymore, virgin and never had a girlfriend, socially and emotionally stunted
what do I do, I don't like to interact with people and I lack motivation to move around.

Your life doesn't suck, you are just depressed. Just put in more and more time into that your programming, and you will be successful.. when you are successful, people will look for you, not the other way round

smartr:


Spoken with wisdom. I’m trying to embrace the boredom.

We are always paying a price. If you embrace the boredom, you'll remain unscathed, solid, and full of essence.

But if one think excessive extroverssion is the answer, then it's like paddling a bicycle, after maximal exhaustion, you're still at the same place.

People whom are betrayed knows this place very well. Or those with so many friends who couldn't be their strength when problems occurred in their lives.

Or the celebrities that are paraded on national TV begging for alms, but these are famous folks that hanged out with dignitaries in the peak of the career.

At the end, all is vanity upon vanity. And you should rely on yourself. Boredom is actually not boredom, it's peace.

Kobojunkie:
So you do in fact have places around that you can go then to hang out of people watch. You just do not want to.

2. If you are indeed a loner, then why are you complaining that you don't have friends?

3. Mental therapy is only for the rich yet the vast majority who frequent mental health clinics even in Nigeria are not even rich?

4. You refuse to make any effort to make friends yet you feel a gal should come and cuddle you? Why not buy yourself a plastic doll or something and you can have that all while remaining as you are.

They sell doll girlfriends on Alibaba.com these days. Op can get himself a cuddle bunny!

Skyview01:
■They sell doll girlfriends on Alibaba.com these days. Op can get himself a cuddle bunny!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Don’t feed trolls.

eepeepook:
Don’t feed trolls.

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Hideaki:


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Btw Hideaki I thought u said u were a virgin... hw are u nw a sex offender?

Hideaki:



Solitude is hell

I have been alone and lonely for a long time now my mom tags me a weirdo because I don't leave the house , I don't have friends and no gf even at my gf. I grew up in boarding school and was tagged PK ( possessed kid ) because of I always was alone by myself

I just hope to get some kind of meaningful work so I can move away from my mom to my own place


I've been getting fulfilment from my hobbies lately but it's not enough , Man needs friends both male and female.

Then go and have friends or make friends-if you wants or so desires, why the "public disturbance"; which is making you becoming a public nuisance? Some were crying they have no shoe, not until they saw someone without legs... Do your cravings, stop ravings and stop wavings...