Barbaric tradition. Must every woman get married before having kids. The children belongs to the man who sired them! What if he did legal court marriage registry will they claim the kids from him? Nonsense what if after paying the bride price and the woman is barren, wh bears the loss?

Theunbothered:


You get money?

All these local champions gathered here are feeling too big.

I've warned you

Ozommadu:


I've warned you

You are not important my guy

khalling2008:


Chai, It pains you that your religion also goes against your barbaric tradition.
How many Igbo women prostitute in the universe because the barbaric tradition would not allow them to get husband.

You just confirm you're a r3tard!

Does the bible support having children outside wedlock?

B#stard child trying to justify why his mom's bride price wasn't paid!

khalling2008:
Don't worry we will soon know the power institution between Nigeria's constitution and barbaric tradition.

That's what happened between the wife of Ojukwu and her husband's family Women can not inherit the property of the deceased in barbaric Biafra tradition and the court ruled in support of the wife.

Women dey suffer injustices from Biafra land. Having women or girls in Biafra land is taboo because they can never inherit their father or husband because of barbaric traditions. No wonder their women do turn to prostitutes because of barbaric tradition

All the garbage you wrote here is expected from someone born by a woman who littered children from different men

I see a b#stard defending why his mom's Dowry wasn't paid!


Tribe of irresponsible clowns 🤡


You want child but you won't pay Dowry!

Na thunder go faya Una!


Irresponsible clowns

Make Una go collect the children make we see!

GanagiBitrus:
Without Bride Price or Court Wedding, there was never a marriage in the first place. So the man can't legally lay claims to any kids.

The kids will only decide their allegiance when they come of age.

You sounded like one of the educated illiterates we have on nairaland.
The only problem the prophet may have is that the kids except for one of them are now above 18 years and decide for themselves where to live and which name to bear (as in change of names)

Bulldozer90:
This is how people waste their years in life.
You don't want to marry but you want to have children.

I said it in the first story on this case that what gives the court right was if there former union was legalized under the marriage act

But lo and behold there union had no legal backing
And the Man didn't pay bride price to secure it traditionally

In the end he has no case anywhere

When people do things
Follow the custom

If he had paid the bride price
Nobody can deny him his children anywhere

GanagiBitrus:
Without Bride Price or Court Wedding, there was never a marriage in the first place. So the man can't legally lay claims to any kids.

The kids will only decide their allegiance when they come of age.

You really got the drift 👍

Neckpresser101:


All the garbage you wrote here is expected from someone born by a woman who littered children from different men

I see a b#stard defending why his mom's Dowry wasn't paid!


Tribe of irresponsible clowns 🤡


You want a child but you won't pay Dowry!

Na thunder go faya Una!


Irresponsible clowns

Make Una go collect the children make we see!

According to Israel, Jesus was a bastard, no wonder the Israelis killed him. Now a bastard rampant in the Alaigbo region.
Jesus was a bastard according to Israelis, yes or no?

Neckpresser101:


You just confirm you're a r3tard!

Does the bible support having children outside wedlock?

B#stard child trying to justify why his mom's bride price wasn't paid!

Yes, Bible supported a bastard child, yell me what was the reason Israeli killed your god, Jesus, because he was a bastard. Do you want evidence in the Bible to show you?

SWATMan:


There's nothing barbaric about the tradition. You are free to allow others to cohabit with your daughter(s) and, have children with them without paying the native dowry. Every tribe in Africa collects dowry as a legal intrument concretising every traditional marriage ceremony before a woman can be said to be truly married. I don't know where You're from and would like to know which part of the country you are from to enable members have access to your women free without paying the dowry. Your tribalism wouldn't make you see reason. BTW, why did the so called prophet who lives in Yorubaland, avoided marrying his tribeswoman rather than going for an Igbowoman? It's a shame that cuckoo's like you are the ones shouting on this forum, and a bigger shame that a Yorubaman could not pay the dowry of a woman he cohabited with for 23years, and instead of calling out this anomaly, you are here defending this irregularity. Shame on you.

Oga, stop spewing rubbish, your tradition was barbaric and supported a bastard child in a region or community.
Tell me what was the reason Isrealis killed Jesus, because he was a bastard child according to Isrealis. Yes or No?

Afonja007:
do you want to force 23 and 16 years old boy to belong to tribe they don't want to belong to?can't you see they just want to be igbo?when their their wayward father was busy going from one owambe to another with sikiratu he forgot to pay dowry now you want to claim the children,let' banji sister first allow AOP dotun to claim his children from her

She knows her husband was a wayward, why she opened her leg to Bleep her by her husband, and she borned almost 3 children for him. She know no say the man na wayward,?
No wonder your region was full of bastard children. Let me ask you a question, is your father your biological father or did your mother bring someone else child into your father's house?

khalling2008:

It pains you. the Jews called your god, Jesus, a baatard?
Yes or no?

Don't worry,... Jesus will handle that from heaven.

CHRISTIANS DON'T FIGHT FOR JESUS. God will always handle that itself.

Christians are reasonable... They don't fight or kill for Christ. instead they will keep preaching and practising love and tolerance to you every time. As directed by Jesus Christ.

khalling2008:
Don't worry we will soon know the power institution between Nigeria's constitution and barbaric tradition.

That's what happened between the wife of Ojukwu and her husband's family Women can not inherit the property of the deceased in barbaric Biafra tradition and the court ruled in support of the wife.

Women dey suffer injustices from Biafra land. Having women or girls in Biafra land is taboo because they can never inherit their father or husband because of barbaric traditions. No wonder their women do turn to prostitutes because of barbaric tradition

say what you know,a married woman I'm igboland will inherit her husband's property,nobody will drag it with her but if you are married you cannot inherit your father's property that is your brothers inheritance,,also In igboland the first step into fatherhood is paying the bride price of your wife,it signifies that the two of you are husband and wife,if you don't do that then the two of you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend and any children belongs to the woman's family no contest

tunjilana:
Na the man fuckup, hee no gt business with any lower/customary court

He should have approached a high court and his complaint should have bn denial of paternal right. access, custody e.t.c. The family court wont be asking questions about bride price, na him and his lawyeer dabaru case by askig for dissolution of marriage that didnt even exist.

The Nigerian law doesnt join parental right with marriage, they are 2 different things and you dont have to marry anyone before you are given full parental right over a child you bear with them, as long as you are proven to bee the parent(if dispute exist, the court may ordr DNA)

You dey turn law upside down, there's a customary court for issues like this, they will look into customs and traditions in dealing with matters like this, the magistrate judge was being overly emotional in calling Igbo customs barbaric because they won't hand over kids born out of wedlock to their father.

Even the Adeleke family were informed that their late grandchild (God rest his beautiful soul) will not be buried as an Adeleke unless Davido pays his mother Chioma's bride price which was done.
Yorubas have their culture and tradition that protects the dignity of the woman and her family and Igbos respect that.

Also, in a case where the parents are not married and the man wants the child in Igbo land there are certain dues he will pay to the father of the girl and the 'Umunna' for them to relinquish their rights over the children which this Prophet has also not done.

Now, that the woman has officially married another man, her father has the right to grant custody of those children born out of wedlock to the new husband after hw performs certain traditional rights.

This is custom, no sentiments should be attached

Prince Abua-Obi go and father your own children live another man children this igbo barbaric culture if another woman from another tribe has children for igbo man without paying the bride prize the children will bear their names forever then there is no culture attached to it stupid man that his pennies is not working wanting to claim another man's children after training them for 23 years

khalling2008:

Oga Alaigbo barbaric tradition, leave story, the court will do justice to barbaric tradition from Potopoto barbaric region. This is 2023, the barbaric tradition will never tolerated in Nigeria's constitution.

U mean say una Yoruba land no get tradition,ba? Why d Ooni Papa no go set eye on his son ever again? Why d Ooni wife no go ever remarry when he divorces her or them? Why must you prostrate to greet your elder? See ya head like court.
No come here dey form woke. Una tradition na im worse pass.

khalling2008:

She knows her husband was a wayward, why she opened her leg to Bleep her by her husband, and she borned almost 3 children for him. She know no say the man na wayward,?
No wonder your region was full of bastard children. Let me ask you a question, is your father your biological father or did your mother bring someone else child into your father's house?

igbo land full of bastards?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣na for lagos I see say one alhaja fit born for 8 alhajis we don't have it in igbo land ,this your statement funny ooh is like somalia accusing Kenyan people of suicide bombing 🤣🤣🤣

There's is a reason why the words ' Omo Ale' is a household trademark name in most yorubanoid homes.

Ozommadu:


Igbo tradition is supreme and there's nothing a barking dog can do.

Our women are not baby making machines for no dirty pigs.

Those children customarily belongs to the girls parents...

They are not baby making machine., yet she open her leg to have 4 children knowingfully well the man has not paid her dowry or whatever you call it...if she doesn't have the plan to run away with the children., she would have left the marriage earlier if the dowry is so important.

I think it is best if you guys start impregnating your daughters if you so much desire children.

Ask yourself., can you accept such if it happened to you or any of your family member...?

Guyman01:

You dey turn law upside down, there's a customary court for issues like this, they will look into customs and traditions in dealing with matters like this, the magistrate judge was being overly emotional in calling Igbo customs barbaric because they won't hand over kids born out of wedlock to their father.

Even the Adeleke family were informed that their late grandchild (God rest his beautiful soul) will not be buried as an Adeleke unless Davido pays his mother Chioma's bride price which was done.
Yorubas have their culture and tradition that protects the dignity of the woman and her family and Igbos respect that.

Also, in a case where the parents are not married and the man wants the child in Igbo land there are certain dues he will pay to the father of the girl and the 'Umunna' for them to relinquish their rights over the children which this Prophet has also not done.

Now, that the woman has officially married another man, her father has the right to grant custody of those children born out of wedlock to the new husband after hw performs certain traditional rights.

This is custom, no sentiments should be attached

Na you dey turn law upside down .... issues of parental right i.e. ownership of a child, can be properly handled by the family court wihich is part of every state high court in Nigeria, courts have hierarchy and a high court is more superior to a customary court or magistrate court.

The judge was not bn emotional, his pronouncements are in line with the dictates of the court he presides over which is a magistrate court.

And even if a customary court is approached, nothing says that only the custom of one partner should apply over their kids, the man too has his own customs which state that he is a father over every child he fathers, once proven , regardless of his status with the mother

In a logical world, customary courts should only handle cases wher both partners are adherents of the custom in which they want to use to settle the matter, it is similar to muslim taking a christian to a sharia court to decide issus whn they have one. Th idal thing for a rational individual in cases like this is to approach a higher court where a law which mutually binds them applis, which is th law of Nigeria and in thee Nigerian Law, no parent should b denied their right to any child thy hav once proven, as long as they dont pose any danger to the child. The marital status of the parents, regardless

tunjilana:



Na you dey turn law upside down .... issues of parental right i.e. ownership of a child, can be properly handled by the family court wihich is part of every state high court in Nigeria, courts have hierarchy and a high court is more superior to a customary court or magistrate court.

The judge was not bn emotional, his pronouncements are in line with the dictates of the court he presides over which is a magistrate court.

And even if a customary court is approached, nothing says that only the custom of one partner should apply over their kids, the man too has his own customs which state that he is a father over every child he fathers, once proven , regardless of his status with the mother

In a logical world, customary courts should only handle cases wher both partners are adherents of the custom in which they want to use to settle the matter, it is similar to muslim taking a christian to a sharia court to decide issus whn they have one. Th idal thing for a rational individual in cases like this is to approach a higher court where a law which mutually binds them applis, which is th law of Nigeria and in thee Nigerian Law, no parent should b denied their right to any child thy hav once proven, as long as they dont pose any danger to the child. The marital status of the parents, regardless

Do you know that there's a Customary Court of Appeal that handles cases from high court and after them the matter will go to Supreme Court which could take several years to conclude?
The easiest way out is still settlement out og court between the families of the man and the woman through ADR

khalling2008:
Don't worry we will soon know the power institution between Nigeria's constitution and barbaric tradition.

That's what happened between the wife of Ojukwu and her husband's family Women can not inherit the property of the deceased in barbaric Biafra tradition and the court ruled in support of the wife.

Women dey suffer injustices from Biafra land. Having women or girls in Biafra land is taboo because they can never inherit their father or husband because of barbaric traditions. No wonder their women do turn to prostitutes because of barbaric tradition

Honestly I didn’t understand their women’s desperation in chasing other tribes until I understood their standing and mistreatment by their own tribe. For all the “education” and exposure if you want a lavish life with multiple women marry Ibo women as long as money dey you can do anything

Where are the bloody feminists that so much hate the idea of bride price?? I thought they would have bombarded this post with supports for the man by now. Probably they are still wallowing in their destructive confusion

OyeofIkoTuN:


Stop sit at home..

Hahahahahaha..wailers

What side are you on ?

Ozommadu:


But you wan turn pesin daughter to your baby making machines without even paying a dowry?

Restrict that rubbish to your region and culture

Lol

You just opened mouth waaaaaaaaaaa.

Did you do your research why they can't get married?

If you impregnate a lady and deny responsibility, you have no right to claim the kids.

So if your intentions was to marry her and along the line she cheat or maybe her family no gree approve una union. What will you do ? Leave your child for them based on say tradition talk so?

When you've been doing the needful for your kid.

Think about it

MrDoGood:


Lol

You just opened mouth waaaaaaaaaaa.

Did you do your research why they can't get married?

If you impregnate a lady and deny responsibility, you have no right to claim the kids.

So if your intentions was to marry her and along the line she cheat or maybe her family no gree approve una union. What will you do ? Leave your child for them based on say tradition talk so?

When you've been doing the needful for your kid.

Think about it

Stop formulating stories...how can you live with pesin daughter for 23yrs and you're telling me the family no approve of the union? But they approved staying together for 23yrs?

Think am again, if you impregnate pesin whether you dent it or not, without dowry you can't claim the child in igbo culture...you can still claim them though but after you must have paid dowry fully on the woman's head.

rezky:


They are not baby making machine., yet she open her leg to have 4 children knowingfully well the man has not paid her dowry or whatever you call it...if she doesn't have the plan to run away with the children., she would have left the marriage earlier if the dowry is so important.

I think it is best if you guys start impregnating your daughters if you so much desire children.

Ask yourself., can you accept such if it happened to you or any of your family member...?

So you mean in your culture you can impregnate any woman and claim her child whenever you like??

We don't condone such thing here...you didn't pay dowry on any woman and you want to claim what??

Our woman are not cheap and our nwa diala(the children) are ours.

CJStarz:

U mean say una Yoruba land no get tradition,ba? Why d Ooni Papa no go set eye on his son ever again? Why d Ooni wife no go ever remarry when he divorces her or them? Why must you prostrate to greet your elder? See ya head like court.
No come here dey form woke. Una tradition na im worse pass.

I can see you don't have sense at all. Your tradition is a barbaric to the women in your region.

okoroemeka:
say what you know,a married woman I'm igboland will inherit her husband's property,nobody will drag it with her but if you are married you cannot inherit your father's property that is your brothers inheritance,,also In igboland the first step into fatherhood is paying the bride price of your wife,it signifies that the two of you are husband and wife,if you don't do that then the two of you are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend and any children belongs to the woman's family no contest

Leave long story. It is a taboo in Igbo land for women to inherit. Don't change the narrative.

Why U dodge the kweshion nah ? Isn't it barbarism against women that an Ooni's ex-wife is banned from remarrying while d Ooni go dey flex dey go?
Answer the question or get off my mention.
Woke hardcore traditionalist like you.

khalling2008:

I can see you don't have sense at all. Your tradition is a barbaric to the women in your region.

When it comes to divorce, I always advocate that any of the party who has the capacity to look after the children should be given custody. Children need adequate care and attention.

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