khalling2008:
Don't worry we will soon know the power institution between Nigeria's constitution and barbaric tradition.

That's what happened between the wife of Ojukwu and her husband's family Women can not inherit the property of the deceased in barbaric Biafra tradition and the court ruled in support of the wife.

Women dey suffer injustices from Biafra land. Having women or girls in Biafra land is taboo because they can never inherit their father or husband because of barbaric traditions. No wonder their women do turn to prostitutes because of barbaric tradition

which specie of thing is this one, let me surprise you, by Igbo custom properties are shared among the wives (kitchen) not the sons. If an Igbo man dies his properties goes to his wife if she doesn't have a boy child then that's where the problem is, however she can get a child by adoption or find somebody to impregnant her to bear a son for her dead husband. it is a culture found even in the Bible. It is not common when compared to other Nigerian tribes to see two Igbo people living as husband and wife that long without the knowledge of both families, If the man loss the woman in that condition wahala. If you impregnant an Igbo girl and her family is the conservatives type even after paying the bride price it is the prerogative of the father to either give you the child or not, of course you know that in Igbo land you can not marry her while she is pregnant except they just don't want to make noise or they just want their daughter to marry. What a sweet tradition a peculiar people with all the problems of Nigeria whenever I remember that I am Onye Igbo I feel so happy knowing I am built to survive and make impact. I would have asked you to continue knacking Ijoma but if the unfortunate happen my problem will be the quality of the brain of your product which you aren't cant claim so please avoid every Igbo girl or Chukwu Okike Abiama and Amadi oha nna will deal with you and leave Igbo people alone.

ezioyi:


which specie of thing is this one, let me surprise you, by Igbo custom properties are shared among the wives (kitchen) not the sons. If an Igbo man dies his properties goes to his wife if she doesn't have a boy child then that's where the problem is, however she can get a child by adoption or find somebody to impregnant her to bear a son for her dead husband. it is a culture found even in the Bible. It is not common when compared to other Nigerian tribes to see two Igbo people living as husband and wife that long without the knowledge of both families, If the man loss the woman in that condition wahala. If you impregnant an Igbo girl and her family is the conservatives type even after paying the bride price it is the prerogative of the father to either give you the child or not, of course you know that in Igbo land you can not marry her while she is pregnant except they just don't want to make noise or they just want their daughter to marry. What a sweet tradition a peculiar people with all the problems of Nigeria whenever I remember that I am Onye Igbo I feel so happy knowing I am built to survive and make impact. I would have asked you to continue knacking Ijoma but if the unfortunate happen my problem will be the quality of the brain of your product which you aren't cant claim so please avoid every Igbo girl or Chukwu Okike Abiama and Amadi oha nna will deal with you and leave Igbo people alone.

can a woman inherit land from her husband in his village?

Ozommadu:


Stop formulating stories...how can you live with pesin daughter for 23yrs and you're telling me the family no approve of the union? But they approved staying together for 23yrs?

Think am again, if you impregnate pesin whether you dent it or not, without dowry you can't claim the child in igbo culture...you can still claim them though but after you must have paid dowry fully on the woman's head.

Sir let's not argue about this. Are you telling me if by chance your woman is from the east and she gets pregnant out before marrying her and she puts to bed. Then along the line while preparing for marriage, you found out she's cheating. So you will go ahead and marry her just so you don't loose the child. Right?

If something hasn't happened to you, you won't understand.

That traditional law knows those it can hold bound. Just the way our constitution can't clamp some elite.

In order words, na poor man wey the girl family fit oppress go fall for that sh!t.

So, you're telling me no Igbo that's a baby mama out there that the baby daddy hasn't gone ahead to marry another.

Lol

MrDoGood:


Sir let's not argue about this. Are you telling me if by chance your woman is from the east and she gets pregnant out before marrying her and she puts to bed. Then along the line while preparing for marriage, you found out she's cheating. So you will go ahead and marry her just so you don't loose the child. Right?

If something hasn't happened to you, you won't understand.

That traditional law knows those it can hold bound. Just the way our constitution can't clamp some elite.

In order words, na poor man wey the girl family fit oppress go fall for that sh!t.

So, you're telling me no Igbo that's a baby mama out there that the baby daddy hasn't gone ahead to marry another.

Lol

I don't understand your last question sir

Let me ask you too, if your daughter got pregnant for a man who didn't pay any dowry. Will you allow the man take your grandchild from your daughter?? Even though he may be married to someone else??

You see its easy to critisize because she's igbo and she's not your daughter.

In igbo land, the only man that can lay claim to his children is he who has paid a dowry on his kids mother, no matter how rich you are you'll meet ndi nna ochie richer than you.

This particular tradition is very very serious here in Anambra state.

Ozommadu:


I don't understand your last question sir

Let me ask you too, if your daughter got pregnant for a man who didn't pay any dowry. Will you allow the man take your grandchild from your daughter?? Even though he may be married to someone else??

You see its easy to critisize because she's igbo and she's not your daughter.

In igbo land, the only man that can lay claim to his children is he who has paid a dowry on his kids mother, no matter how rich you are you'll meet ndi nna ochie richer than you.

This particular tradition is very very serious here in Anambra state.

My last question is

Are you saying that there is no Igbo single baby mama out there that the man refused paying her bride price?

Mind you, I got married to an Anambra girl.

One of my brother in-law had a child before he got married to another girl. He is taking care of the child and the child goes to spend holiday with him. Now he's out of the country and the child goes to visit his parents. The child bears his surname!!!

He didn't pay nothing on her head neither did he do introduction.

I already asked him all theses things you're saying now.

Mr man, nobody can convert your child while you're alive. Except the man just choose not to identify with that child.


The culture is actually a good thing, but not the way you're seeing it. So, kindly kill that notion saying because he didn't pay bride price, therefore the kids ain't his.

Believe me, it won't be relevant if the father identifies with the child.

MrDoGood:


My last question is

Are you saying that there is no Igbo single baby mama out there that the man refused paying her bride price?

Mind you, I got married to an Anambra girl.

One of my brother in-law had a child before he got married to another girl. He is taking care of the child and the child goes to spend holiday with him. Now he's out of the country and the child goes to visit his parents. The child bears his surname!!!

He didn't pay nothing on her head neither did he do introduction.

I already asked him all theses things you're saying now.

Mr man, nobody can convert your child while you're alive. Except the man just choose not to identify with that child.


The culture is actually a good thing, but not the way you're seeing it. So, kindly kill that notion saying because he didn't pay bride price, therefore the kids ain't his.

Believe me, it won't be relevant if the father identifies with the child.

Now, to your question, yes there're plenty igbo ladies who got pregnant out of wedlock and got denied. Some of the men who impregnated them later come back to marry them.

Some married someone else while leaving the child for their parents, some take the child to their new marriage.

Back to your brother, he's just lucky that the girls family is not well to do, if not you dare not try it.

Now answer my question, if you have a daughter who got pregnant and the guy refused to pay dowry buy want to collect your grandchild. What will you do??

Ozommadu:


Now, to your question, yes there're plenty igbo ladies who got pregnant out of wedlock and got denied. Some of the men who impregnated them later come back to marry them.

Some married someone else while leaving the child for their parents, some take the child to their new marriage.

Back to your brother, he's just lucky that the girls family is not well to do, if not you dare not try it.

Now answer my question, if you have a daughter who got pregnant and the guy refused to pay dowry buy want to collect your grandchild. What will you do??

So you mean various families of the single mothers took the child. Or the new husband she got married to.

Please stop capping

Back to your question, assuming your daughter got pregnant and the guy refused to pay her bride price, you will claim the child. Right?

Congratulations 🎉 until then. Just pray nothing of such happens to your daughter.

I refused to answer your question because I don't no wish such happens to my daughter. So, I don't want to use my daughter for such an example. I'm not in anyway condemning those that got pregnant out of wedlock.

You've confirmed it that the girls family can only activate such clause when the man in question is poor.

Mind you, it's my brother-in-law and he's Igbo. So he knows the tradition, so why wasn't he forced to marry the girl?

So the girl's family doesn't claim the child.

My colleague is an Igbo girl and her father never married her mother and she answers her father's name.

Like I said, it only works when the man is poor.

Abi Igbo men no dey impregnate other tribe and not marry them?

I hate discussing about tribe and religion because most people tends to see theirs as special and others must obey

That's how you're feeling and thinking now.

Mind you, if the man drag you to court, there's nothing you can do. You can't claim a man's child.
Home or abroad.

Except she no know who give am belle, then the baby can answer your surname.

MrDoGood:


So you mean various families of the single mothers took the child. Or the new husband she got married to.

Please stop capping

Back to your question, assuming your daughter got pregnant and the guy refused to pay her bride price, you will claim the child. Right?

Congratulations 🎉 until then. Just pray nothing of such happens to your daughter.

I refused to answer your question because I don't no wish such happens to my daughter. So, I don't want to use my daughter for such an example. I'm not in anyway condemning those that got pregnant out of wedlock.

You've confirmed it that the girls family can only activate such clause when the man in question is poor.

Mind you, it's my brother-in-law and he's Igbo. So he knows the tradition, so why wasn't he forced to marry the girl?

So the girl's family doesn't claim the child.

My colleague is an Igbo girl and her father never married her mother and she answers her father's name.

Like I said, it only works when the man is poor.

Abi Igbo men no dey impregnate other tribe and not marry them?

I hate discussing about tribe and religion because most people tends to see theirs as special and others must obey

That's how you're feeling and thinking now.

Mind you, if the man drag you to court, there's nothing you can do. You can't claim a man's child.
Home or abroad.

Except she no know who give am belle, then the baby can answer your surname.

At the bolded, exactly, that's the fact on ground. We can't reject our nwa diala because the father denied the pregnancy or refused to pay dowry.

You refused to answer my question but went ahead to ask yours, I don't know what you take me for?

Ozommadu:


At the bolded, exactly, that's the fact on ground. We can't reject our nwa diala because the father denied the pregnancy or refused to pay dowry.

You refused to answer my question but went ahead to ask yours, I don't know what you take me for?

I told you I can't make an example with my daughter.

Now you just shot yourself on the leg.

I never said the man denied pregnancy or refused to take responsibility.

I said even if the baby daddy took full responsibility, will you people will still claim the child because he refused to marry the baby mama?

That's what I'm asking. That's the topic sir

MrDoGood:


I told you I can't make an example with my daughter.

Now you just shot yourself on the leg.

I never said the man denied pregnancy or refused to take responsibility.

I said even if the baby daddy took full responsibility, will you people will still claim the child because he refused to marry the baby mama?

That's what I'm asking. That's the topic sir

If you can't make example with yourself it simply means you're biased and dishonest.

You should call it a quit then.

Ozommadu:


If you can't make example with yourself it simply means you're biased and dishonest.

You should call it a quit then.

Congratulations 🎉 man, you won.

Let's kill the argument

ahnie:
Cc:
Jbond you messaged me,pls kindly drop you message here,thank you.

@ahnie, mistake, please ignore.

Ozommadu:


I don't understand your last question sir

Let me ask you too, if your daughter got pregnant for a man who didn't pay any dowry. Will you allow the man take your grandchild from your daughter?? Even though he may be married to someone else??

You see its easy to critisize because she's igbo and she's not your daughter.

In igbo land, the only man that can lay claim to his children is he who has paid a dowry on his kids mother, no matter how rich you are you'll meet ndi nna ochie richer than you.

This particular tradition is very very serious here in Anambra state.

Ondo is not Ibo land
The dispute is in Ondo not Anambra state

That is the summary

Ibo custom ends in Ibo land
You cannot impose it in London , New York or Yorubaland

Gajagojo:

Ondo is not Ibo land
The dispute is in Ondo not Anambra state

That is the summary

Ibo custom ends in Ibo land
You cannot impose it in London , New York or Yorubaland

Na you sabi.

Your adulterous prophet brother is not getting any child.

Ozommadu:


Na you sabi.

Your adulterous prophet brother is not getting any child.

that is your impotent wish

Gajagojo:

that is your impotent wish

Your customary court is not daft, they don't reason like you.

Ozommadu:


Your customary court is not daft, they don't reason like you.

Impotent talk

tunjilana:
Na the man fuckup, hee no gt business with any lower/customary court

He should have approached a high court and his complaint should have bn denial of paternal right. access, custody e.t.c. The family court wont be asking questions about bride price, na him and his lawyeer dabaru case by askig for dissolution of marriage that didnt even exist.

The Nigerian law doesnt join parental right with marriage, they are 2 different things and you dont have to marry anyone before you are given full parental right over a child you bear with them, as long as you are proven to bee the parent(if dispute exist, the court may ordr DNA)

David has to perform marriage rite in order to bury his son.
Gragra no be say my son is smart.
David think he can evade that.
Respect people's custom. This is part of Nigerian constitution. The customary Court upholds peoples tradition and is recognised by the highest court.

Remaining ffk.
That the baby mama is quiet does not mean she don't know what she is doing.
Ffk is an old man with mental health problem. It's just a matter of time. He think he is smart.