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ㅤ by Gentlelox: 3:57pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
#Copied There's this lady i have been going out with for lyk a month now. I usually go places with her and she seems very handy. With advise and support. Also, she was assuming me as a serious boyfriend... Today, i took her to the saloon to make her hair. The hair would take more than four hours so i told them to continue and that i would go to church and meet them later. I left them and came back in two hours time. Lo and behold, one boy was sitting next to her, they were gisting as the lady was making her hair and she even gave the dude her number(apprentice told me later). I was very furious. Because i was known in that saloon as the owner was an old friend. So i called her to the corner and vented my anger. told her to avoid me, i paid for the hair and left. This is not normal as it seems. Do you know i was ashamed and looked stupid seeing the other guy flirting with her ? Yes, flirting and not usual hello hi conversation. Omo, i just didn't see myself leaving her there without paying. She doesn't have a dime on her. But on a second thought, the new guy ought to handle her bills. Afterall it now clear i was pouring my money for her to dig other guys for free. Well, i don't care how she would go home after she finish the hair... Well, the money was much bt it happens, i just don't know how to think about it though. |
Re: ㅤ by SIXTEENTH(m): 4:04pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
How often do you know her deeply? As in her background, family and friends, the social type and off course her conversation when you guys are together. |
Re: ㅤ by VawulentMan: 4:07pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
You get luck say she no go with her money, you for hear reply whey pass you 2 Likes |
Re: ㅤ by jackmrandy: 4:08pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
Gentlelox: You go dey follow woman go saloon? How e be you for that one? You were moving around with her like handy bag. Mind you she did not just met that guy there first time as you are presuming. They have known for long. Dey play 3 Likes |
Re: ㅤ by Reminderz: 4:10pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
jackmrandy: simps will always learn the hard way... 5 Likes |
Re: ㅤ by jackmrandy: 4:14pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
Reminderz: Make he just dey play... Na here we dey, he go come back come tell us how he went to beg the girl back. And how she refused to listen or see him anymore. |
Re: ㅤ by Tobichima: 4:20pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
Those other gender are something else. Op, hope u don fck the girl? |
Re: ㅤ by Exceed15: 9:02pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
You are too nice . Ladies don't appreciate- too nice guys 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ㅤ by DND069: 9:07pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
The words: she was assuming me as a serious boyfriend. You go queue taya. |
Re: ㅤ by hakeemhakeem(m): 2:23am On Nov 01, 2023 |
You should have act as a real guy there by taken control of the conversation immediately you came back with straight kiss , complimenting the hair and comments like baby today match go hot o.Even if you are the side guy the guy mode would change 2 Likes |
Re: ㅤ by Uptheante(m): 4:34am On Nov 01, 2023 |
If I were you, I won't pay for her hair, neither will I give her any transport after seeing the other dude flirting with her & she doesn't seem to discourage him because she obviously likes him. I'll completely ignore them & go my way, let the guy take care of her bills. You can say I'm petty or childish or jealous, I don't care. I'll find other girls to catch fun with 2 Likes |
Re: ㅤ by advanceDNA: 4:46am On Nov 01, 2023 |
Gentlelox: U sound like a nice guy... Over nice seff... So u mean u still pay for hair after banny wey u carry out dey flirt with another man .... Lol.... I know say u go still go back to beg am lick her pvssy seff......so no need to waste my vawulence ..besides u said it's copied 2 Likes |
Re: ㅤ by Silentgroper(m): 8:08am On Nov 01, 2023 |
She was assuming you to be her serious boyfriend... Since you're not a serious bf ... Why do you what she did a problem Are you her bf or not ?? |
Re: ㅤ by Gentlelox: 6:45pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
advanceDNA: To be honest, it a real event. She came over to explain everything to me yesterday and i confirmed everything by calling my friend that was there. Today, i told her to bring her friend along, which she did and i coerced her to get her into my bed, we had a two round sex and her friend exposed her secrets to me. It was as if her friend wanted me to hate her and like her(her friend). Well, she was angry when she saw how i was packaging with her friend. She was jealous. The thing is, we were never dating. We were just catching fun but it humiliating to take a girl out and she starts frolicking with another dude. At the end of it all. She could not bear it and had to quarrel her friend to leave me alone. The stress na legendary. I nor wan fuk any of Dem again sef. Make Dem rest. 1 Like |
Re: ㅤ by drimzsmoke(m): 6:55pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Gentlelox: Give it time, delete her number and move on. She will be back, they always come back!!! |
Re: ㅤ by Nonexisting1: 7:33pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Simps learn the hard way. They are not teachable, only experience teaches them. We'll be here to read the rejoinder to this story and it will have heartbreak written all over it as always.
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Re: ㅤ by Nobody: 7:40pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
You weren't serious with her, she wasn't serious with you. Why the anger? You were pretending,she was plain . Una fit yourself |
Re: ㅤ by Gentlelox: 8:26pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Persephone1:y are u in all my matters following me around on Nairaland ? Carry ur silly attention elsewhere. |
Re: ㅤ by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Gentlelox:Following you around? Do i know you? You open thread, I commented how is that following you around? See wahala o |
Re: ㅤ by Gentlelox: 8:30pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Persephone1:mark my monika and avoid me pls. |
Re: ㅤ by Nobody: 8:32pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Gentlelox:I don't take note of irrelevant things... sorry about that. |
Re: ㅤ by okoroemeka(m): 8:56pm On Nov 01, 2023 |
Uptheante:you sound even more Petty and childish than the op,what if the guy is a family friend,former classmate,old friend,past neghibour,former church member,the ifs is endless,for the op to follow a woman to the salon of all places shows the character of the man and for him to jump to a hasty conclusion shows an insecure man, |
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