Advice needed please, I am Ibo, while my husband is Yoruba. I have been married for almost 2 years now. While dating my hubby, we were always quarreling and fighting, but we resolved our fights in the end.

Sometimes, the fights turned bloody. I decided to move on with my life and meet someone better, but my boyfriend came back crying, begging, asking his father and cousins to beg me.

I went back to him, and from then on, we had a smooth relationship, no fights, and no discord. Along the line, I got pregnant, so my boyfriend and I had to get married even though we were not quite ready as we were both job hunting. A few months into the marriage, the fight started again.

I won’t go into details of what caused the fights, but the fights always end in bruises, black eyes, and so on. My husband doesn’t hit me for no reason only when we argue.

Please should we part ways as we seem to be incompatible, or should we forge ahead? .

Dear Sender, The issue here is that you ignored the reasons that both of you were always disagreeing on issues yet you went ahead and married him. It's not wrong to disagree but any disagreement that would result in bruises and beating isn't disagreement but trouble.

It takes two to tangle, it takes two to Quarrel, and one to murmur.
I don't advise anybody to stay in a violent relationship. Because you need to be alive to talk about Marriage.

It takes Godly understanding, courage, patience, Compromise, sacrifice, and a good Christian to Marry another tribe in Nigeria.

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Mtcheewww

Yes, you should continue. It's for better for worse. The worse that can happen is he beats you to death and you won't be the first or the last. I encourage every vaginarian in toxic marriages to stay and receive her abuse without complaint. The husband no go dey punch walls, he needs body.

Wahala wahala wahala

How about you stop provoking him?

Nonexisting1:
Yes, you should continue. It's for better for worse. The worse that can happen is he beats you to death and you won't be the first or the last. I encourage every vaginarian in toxic marriages to stay and receive her abuse without complaint. The husband no go dey punch walls, he needs body.

Hallelujah

Days ago I watched a very disturbing video on WhatsApp posted by a very good friend where the man was beating his wife ...dragging her braids on the floor,kicking,hitting and spanking her,she was hapless.


Truth be told....I shudder no woman should ever go thru such degrading treatment.

Some men are beast and the beastly men are those always wearing ironed well pressed plain trousers.

omoh............i never marry ooh,bt the truth be say"i no fit advice any lady to turn herslf to porching bag for any man to dey beat any how.


madam,abeg run for ur life b4 wetin happen to dat woman who sing ekueme,go happen to u..


marriage no be do or die affair.

It's not abnormal to fight sometimes due to disagreement but going physical on a woman, ur wife for that matter is wrong. Even up to the point it became bloody. I fit trash talk u oo when u push the wrong button but to hit woman nah... Never have and never will. I rather leave u alone than go down that road. If u don't leave the marriage alive maybe it would in a body bag or damaged and disfigured.

You're yet to be married, he's giving you pre wedding beating. So what kinda miracle are expecting after marriage. Pls enjoy your beating in peace.

You better run for your life. Or u stay there and die. The choice is yours