ridwintin89:
what people don know about domestic violence is that majority of the problem are caused by women,but whenever fight broke out,men would be held responsible.It takes foolishness to live happily with women.They will abuse you, manipulate you,lie against you,cheat on you but still want you to take good care of them.
Is that not madness.Womem are scum

Angelfrost:
I have seen a man beat up his 6-month pregnant wife till she became unconscious and lost her baby.

Thereafter, the parents and pastor came for reconciliation and convinced her to remain in the marriage, that "God had intervened against the devil"!

Many of you parents, church leaders, friends and peers will all suffer ànd burn in hell for encouraging women to remain in abusive marriages. Bastards!!!

Kobojunkie:
And that is why she deserved to be abused in marriage and killed too?

Magnoliaa:
Oh my God.


Just look at the men up there forming what I don't know.

As usual, a dead woman is always the perfect believable victim to y'all.

If this woman wasn't dead and she had bid her time later in the future to show him shege for all he's been doing to her now, the man will come out to cry wolf and all of them will take up charges behind him, demonising and cursing her out.

Because somehow in their brain, they cannot link domestic violence to a partner's revenge. Or that if a woman refuses to leave and/or pay back, she'll end up dead sooner or later.

Women die in their hundreds everyday from DV but one fool on Twitter was arguing about hypothetical cases of women lying against their husbands.


Shey this one has come to the end of her journey now? Torh. We'll talk and move on alright.

Princewell2012:

We are not used to reporting in Nigeria may be Africa. But in US, even your little kid can report his dad for beating him and the police will respond aproprately.

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Update From . COM

A Nigerian Mum of four has died after allegedly being subjected to domestic violence for years, Reports.

A Facebook User, Amarachi Iwuala, who shared the sad story, As Sighted By , alleged that the husband of the deceased over the years subjected her to domestic abuse. She said the husband one time, allegedly beat the wife until she became unconscious.

Amarachi said when advised to leave her marriage, the deceased who was nursing a seven-month-old baby, said she would walk away when her children were grown as they were still little. She said the mother of the deceased even asked her to walk away from the marriage, but she also refused.



Posting On Facebook, Amarachi Wrote;



‘’Another woman gone.

She was married to a man who was viôlent towards her. Not just viôlent, he would lock doors and windows, raise music volume, and then start béating her, so that help won't come for her.

One day he béat her till she was unconscious, the whole compound joined in rushing her to the hospital. After treatment, she came back to the same house.

People advised her to leave, she said her children were still little, she wanted them to grow a bit before she leaves. She wanted them to grow yet she was giving birth to more. She had four children, the last one is just 7 months old.

Two weeks ago, an old woman living in their compound called this lady's mother, asking her to come take her daughter if they still want her alive. The mother replied that the lady said she's not leaving.

This is why it's good to have some weyrey as a mother. Even if she doesn't want to leave, use vawulence and bring her out by force. O dighi apu àra.

Back to the story. Two days ago, that is Thursday 2nd November 2023, they woke up in the morning to hear the man béating the woman as usual.

After the béating, normal life continued. They said that night, the lady went about her normal chores, she stayed up till 11pm wasting and hanging cloths. Neighbors saw her.

They all woke up yesterday morning only to hear that the lady is déad. How?

The husband is saying he slept in the sitting room while she slept in the bedroom, that he only entered the room in the morning and found her dead.

Neighbors said her bed was soaked with water though, and there's still no explanation for that.

The husband is saying she should be buried immediately as he doesn't have money to pay mortuary bills.

The sad part, her father heard the news and had a heart attack, she was his only daughter. He was rushed to hospital, but news has it that he didn't make it.

Her 7month old baby cried the whole day and refused to eat every food that was offered her, she was looking for breast milk. She cried till she started running temperature.

See how many lives have been affected by her choices.

Four children rendered motherless. Only God knows what their fate will be, they'll probably be shared amongst relatives who may/may not treat them well.

I know all these because we have a mutual friend who was at their place yesterday to get first hand info. She was crying bitterly on phone while speaking to me, I told her to stop crying, the lady chose this.

The husband cannot even be held responsible. Police came, asked him questions and left.

We keep writing daily for women to learn, but some are determined to waste their lives.

Someone in an abûsive marriage will read this post and say "it's not my portion", and keep staying in the marriage.

Like I'll always say, we can't help everybody. Keep staying, keep waiting for your children to grow up, keep thinking of what society will say, keep thinking of how you'll survive, keep thinking if you'll find another man, keep thinking the children need a father, keep hoping he'll change. Just keep at it, since you have no value for the life you have.''

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Offpointng:
Ipob men has done it yet again. If their women are not beating their maids to death, the men are taking on their women. Is this a sign of Economic hardship??

It really baffles me when they comment as tho only SW is affected by the Economy and the SE is matching Dubai in every Ramifications. Nansense

maxiuc:


Beat up my sister we go come your house give you serious flogging

If you are tired of the marriage send her home

Image123:
Hmmm. Don't ever let a disagreement deteriorate to this extent. Sorry, please, thank you will help avert this. But claiming right is usually a problem.
If you must claim right, claim it from a safe place. It is well.

kokakola:
Marriage is a good thing, forget what anyone is telling you about it.
The issues of marriage arises based on the two-individuals involved, not because marriage is bad but because the two people sail it without agreement.
I am Right, you are Wrong is the sole problem of the World of humans.

Triangles1:
Our African mother need to change their ways of thinking, they'll be forcing you to remain in abusive relationship just because of African believes that divorce is bad, now see the result.

ogascomax:
It's just a complicated matter sometimes. Some abusive marriage latter became beautiful at the end. My pastor told us today how his sister fought for her marriage. At some point it was truly an abusive marriage that the man even beat her while she was pregnant and almost lost the baby. Fast forward, latter she became born again and so did her husband. They are now living peacefully ever after.
It's a gamble so decide how to play it.

Apus:
There are even bruises allover her from the pics above, yet smiling. I'm sure she's a Christian.
Their God of men would've kept advising her to remain in the physically abusive marriage quoting this and that yet can't stand their own cheating partners for a day.

A Christian should be allowed to leave any marriage that has become physically abusive. Stop pushing these young women to their early graves and leaving their children motherless.

VULCAN:
When you are a functional Illiterate.

You can read but choose not too.

Anyone who read the report would know that the woman made her choice herself.

This one has issues with pastor's and even in this case where pastor did not influence her choice someone is transferring aggression