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If You See A Woman Suffering In Her Marriage. Don't Pity Her. She Chose It. by jeromestarks: 9:16am On Nov 11, 2023
Many men came to ask for her hand in marriage.
It is her responsibility to choose the man she wants.
On the day of marriage, they usually ask the woman "is this the man you chose?"

That means, it's the woman who actually choose the husband she wants.
So, if she ends up with a man who maltreat her or cheats on her or frustrates her, it is her choice. She chose him outta the sea of men who approached her.


We must be responsible enough to respect people's choices. We must be civil enough to allow people face the consequences/ benefits of their actions.
And we must be intelligent enough to accept the choices women (especially) make.

If you see a woman complaining about her husband, ask her.
WHO CHOSE HIM FOR YOU?

If you see a woman complaining about Nigerian men, tell her

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHOOSE THE BEST MAN, so fvcking choose!

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Re: If You See A Woman Suffering In Her Marriage. Don't Pity Her. She Chose It. by SIXTEENTH(m): 10:18am On Nov 11, 2023
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Re: If You See A Woman Suffering In Her Marriage. Don't Pity Her. She Chose It. by Johnholt909: 10:31am On Nov 11, 2023
jeromestarks:
Many men come to ask for her hand in marriage.
It is her responsibility to choose the man she wants.
On the day of marriage, they usually ask the woman "is this the man you chose?"

That means, it's the woman who actually choose the husband she wants.
So, if she ends up with a man who maltreat her or cheats on her or frustrates her, it is her choice. She chose him outta the sea of men who approached her.


We must be responsible enough to respect people's choices. We must be civil enough to allow people face the consequences/ benefits of their actions.
And we must be intelligent enough to accept the choices women (especially) make.

If you see a woman complaining about her husband, ask her.
WHO CHOSE HIM FOR YOU?

If you see a woman complaining about Nigerian men, tell her

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHOOSE THE BEST MAN, so fvcking choose!
That's correct.
Re: If You See A Woman Suffering In Her Marriage. Don't Pity Her. She Chose It. by Exceed15: 2:04pm On Nov 11, 2023
U don't know people change? This is applicable to both men& women.

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Re: If You See A Woman Suffering In Her Marriage. Don't Pity Her. She Chose It. by RushManni: 2:27pm On Nov 11, 2023
Exceed15:
U don't know people change? This is applicable to both men& women.

This life is dynamic

Sha don't deceive your own self
Re: If You See A Woman Suffering In Her Marriage. Don't Pity Her. She Chose It. by jeromestarks: 2:41pm On Nov 11, 2023
Exceed15:
U don't know people change? This is applicable to both men& women.
No it's not.
A man can marry even at the age of 60. At this age, he can still marry a young beautiful woman in her prime - say 18 or 23. Ask Senator Ned.

Once a woman hits 27, she becomes prayer point.

Once she's 30, she becomes stale.
Once she's 40, she becomes dead. Literally dead. Unproductive. No man wants a dead woman as a newly wedded wife. Do you?

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