besayag:
Marrying a lady because you met her during evangelism as a virgin, a pastors daughter, a member of ur same winners chapel church, might not guarantee anything peace at all.

Dnt be too eager or quick to trust people. People can change at anytime. People can be very ungrateful and deceptive.

| met Sheila February 19, 2022. We became friends which later became intimate.

She told me she would only loose her virginity to the man that would marry her, since her Ugep,Cross River, mother, who’s now 41, who had earlier married 2 different men, with 2 kids, before marrying her father and that she was over due at 21 for marriage.

We fully agreed with her terms and conditions. | immediately began a full upgrade of her unkept situation by firstly giving her 300k and also replacing her tattered phone of less than 60k to a brand new iphone 12 Pro Max of 860k in less than 2 weeks.

I later also replaced the 12 Pro Max to a brand 14 Pro Max of 1.2m that she’s currently using to slay. I did a alot of shoppings for her.

Bought her clothes and bags incuding expensive human hairs she’s using without sleeping with her then. I later proposed and she fully accepted. We later did a Legally introdution, traditional and white weddings in benin city.

Sheila immediately changed by showing her real self after our wedding by wanting to set standards for me because she now felt she was blown as juju wife, fully verified on Instagram, with more followers from her earlier struggling 3k followers when i met her.

A fully sapa girl i met with just 2,700 in her account.

I have never raised my hands on her any day. I dnt beat women at all. I respect them so much. The least money for her upkeep was 100k.

She now wakes up to tell me that i derive dignity in begging my oga, and that i am fully a slave and that am disgracing her on social media.

had earlier taking her to show same oga for the first time before we wedded, when we were in Abuja Transcorp Hilton, and oga asked her straight forward if she was ready for marriage, and she fully answered by saying yes and oga immediately gave her 500k for airtime.

Oga was fully present in benin for my wedding, after cancelling a 140m show appearance. Oga..

If you don't fear women then you don't value your life. Sweet but deadly.

I once had one who said I deflowered her but I later found out that she was using money on a boyfriend even after marrying her. Hm! Women I salute you all.

See all the things the guy posted sef.

This guy is not mature abeg.


That said this one they are saying they met in Church does this guy or the people he follows look like christains at all?


Oh and Virginity is always a virtue anytime any day.

AlphaHakimi:
As a man, never loose your Armour to any woman. Whether wife or not. Being a man is much more than being of the male species.

The mistake Israel made was upgrading Sheila financially and socially. No matter the pressure, always make sure your wife depends solely on you.

Just like the British colonies, once they feel they can stand on their own, they begin to ask for independence.

Women only love you for what you can provide. Once they can provide those things you provide for them or once you give them the seat at the big boys table, they begin to see themselves as equals. Never loose your power to any woman no matter how long you have known them or married to them.

Teach only men how to fish, and as for women just give them enough fish to guarantee their survival.

For the unmarried, just know that the woman you will marry will only submit to you on the condition that you have a very clear upper hand. That upper hand you have is your money. Never upgrade your wife to your level or set her up financially. Let her ALWAYS depend on you.

Do you know why most women change once they go abroad??.
1) The law is on their side
2) They too can make the same amount if money their husband's make.
When this happens, they see no use for their husband.

Shalom.

Well said.

I wish I could 'like' your post twice.

…now if he actually wrote all of these, then my earlier assumptions abt him is real. Nigha is so bleeped up. Why call out the innocent woman in ur affairs with his daughter? U want marry virgin. Mtchew. Where is that oga at the top T-Shirt? Some1 please post it if u have it

kushme:
Excerpt: She now wakes up to tell me that i derive dignity in begging my oga, and that i am fully a slave and that am disgracing her on social media.


Spiff of "the Johnsons", stopped acting the funny slowpoke few months after he got married. Does this tell something about hustle and females

Hmmmmm, but if that role came with Billions, would she have asked him to stop playing it?

Does this tell something about money and females?

N3TRAL:
I am a guy but the write-up by Israel DMW disgusts me and it's most likely the very reason the lady called it quits.

You're talking about how much you've done for your ex-wife and you're fvcking mentioning iphone 12, iphone 14 and an increase in Instagram followers. Tf

If you're keeping taps of worthless gifts like that and posting them on social media it means that you're either a low life or a motherfvcker.

Can't even spell "oath".

Classless.

I have been in his shoes, so I will not berate him. I am not "rich" but in my little way, I did everything to make my ex comfortable out of pure love. Gifting is part of love, u cant blame him for everything he did, and you can't call it enticement. I dont understand what u mean by that, if he nor do, he is stingy, if he do, he dey entice. What exactly do you guys want? I never mentioned anything I did for her during arguments or fights, but the moment her mom came, and was trying to settle scores, she started with what has he done for me, because he manage buy me phone, blabla. She forgot all the years of helping her with a daughter, picking her up from train station so she dont spend money on uber or lyft, times she was so broke to pay rent, and i had to part with my hard earned money working under the table to pay part or all her rent and many other things that appear little but would have embarrassed the living day of her if I didnt step in. You will feel how hurtful it is for someone u once loved and did everything for out of pure love to turn on you and start mocking you. It will take the grace of God for you not to shalaye like this, to outsider he dey Bleep up, but man wey this thing don happen to before, understand his pains and all his alaye. If kissing Davidos ass is working for him, what is her issue with that? Grown ass men kiss politicians ass they Dd way older than all their lives. Fame is here, she does not want to be seen as davido's boy wife.

Some people just talk like kids. This man is a kid........ The his is nothing but immaturity.........

MrBroke:


That's 100 true what I'm saying is if a man thinks marrying a virgin is what makes a happy home or relationship then he's a child

Yeah you're right but still not an excuse to go for an over used girl. They are hardly ever faithful

Marital success is 70% Correct attitude and 30% right choice .. Those who got the choice wrong but can manage well with right attitude can still make their home work well ..but if the choice is right and attitude is bad ,it can't work out well

obaidan:
looool....This boy na novice....u see when they tell u to be full mature as a man before u get married...maturity is not that u now have erection and u can f.Vck.......are u intelligent enough to know that the kind of job u do is one that ur wife will not like. is the woman u are following d type that will later see that u are a disgrace after u have upgraded her.
Generally women dont want their men totally subservient to another man.

WORD.

The affection I have for my fiance keeps sizzling out on a daily. I hate the fact that he lets his friends make decisions for him. I truly cannot marry a man who doesn't take charge. Any little thing, "Tunde said or suggested...". I find that irritating to the extent that I feel like I don't want to marry him anymore.

ednut1:
From her response Israel is the idiot here. Used money to entice the girl and her mother. The girl advised him to get something doing as Davido ass licking/ logistics manager no be secure work. Men never learn.

I don't think you understand those confused ungrateful creatures. She never advised, she only feel competitive. She want her husband to be popular like Davido so she can form class and feel important. I believe the man was so careful not to allow her ruined his relationship with his boss.

Women? I don't pity them.

Exceed15:
I have always said it that the humble, quiet and respectful girl you are dating now will turn tiger when she enter the marriage. Don't over do for any woman because she will forget.

There are more successful marriage than failed ones if you care to know. Stop using the few failed marriages you see on social media to make general statement.

Omoawoke2:


The one I dated was horror. She was so rude and bitter, the only thing she had was her virginity and her career that was fast progressing. So she thought she had everything and her character was a total mess. And lucky enough, after ending it with her, I met another virgin girl later on and this one is very lovely.

Be like you get head for Virgins

Abeg, cut soap for your guy na

N3TRAL:
I am a guy but the write-up by Israel DMW disgusts me and it's most likely the very reason the lady called it quits.

You're talking about how much you've done for your ex-wife and you're fvcking mentioning iphone 12, iphone 14 and an increase in Instagram followers. Tf

If you're keeping taps of worthless gifts like that and posting them on social media it means that you're either a low life or a motherfvcker.

Can't even spell "oath".

Classless.

u typed trash. Beside you sound simp.

ravensckar:
Most of your points are valid, but I want to humbly disagree with your submission. It boils down to the fact that the lady in question isn't a good wife. She knows from the onset what Israel does for a living (Ass licking Davido). She should have either supported his hustle or help him plan how to establish the dividend of his ass licking venture.

My wife most times teaches me how to stroke my female boss' ego (me I no sabi asslick o) whilst helping me invest the dividend. During festive period, she go dress up, carry pikin and drag me too alongside make we go visit her. And for my Boss, nothing helps her sleep well at night than seeing her subordinate coming to visit her.

In summary, a good woman supports her husband in whatever legal venture that he's into whilst also helping him plan on how to become his own boss.

PS- your point that Israel didn't study his type of wife very well is very on point. He goofed in that aspect.

👍🏽

spiSeyi:
I just know why God chose Mary mother of Jesus because she is not the only virgin then Mary had what most women lack and that's submission.
Most women are only humble because they lack money or power, their true color will be shown as soon as they get what they want.
Marry remained humble and submissive to her husband and other elders even though she was the mother of the savior.

Lol

You want to compare Joseph to the calibre of Men we have these days? Men of now a days that sleep with anything under skirt? Same men that rape and even sleep with their daughters?

Dey play

besayag:
Marrying a lady because you met her during evangelism as a virgin, a pastors daughter, a member of ur same winners chapel church, might not guarantee anything peace at all.

Dnt be too eager or quick to trust people. People can change at anytime. People can be very ungrateful and deceptive.

| met Sheila February 19, 2022. We became friends which later became intimate.

She told me she would only loose her virginity to the man that would marry her, since her Ugep,Cross River, mother, who’s now 41, who had earlier married 2 different men, with 2 kids, before marrying her father and that she was over due at 21 for marriage.

We fully agreed with her terms and conditions. | immediately began a full upgrade of her unkept situation by firstly giving her 300k and also replacing her tattered phone of less than 60k to a brand new iphone 12 Pro Max of 860k in less than 2 weeks.

I later also replaced the 12 Pro Max to a brand 14 Pro Max of 1.2m that she’s currently using to slay. I did a alot of shoppings for her.

Bought her clothes and bags incuding expensive human hairs she’s using without sleeping with her then. I later proposed and she fully accepted. We later did a Legally introdution, traditional and white weddings in benin city.

Sheila immediately changed by showing her real self after our wedding by wanting to set standards for me because she now felt she was blown as juju wife, fully verified on Instagram, with more followers from her earlier struggling 3k followers when i met her.

A fully sapa girl i met with just 2,700 in her account.

I have never raised my hands on her any day. I dnt beat women at all. I respect them so much. The least money for her upkeep was 100k.

She now wakes up to tell me that i derive dignity in begging my oga, and that i am fully a slave and that am disgracing her on social media.

had earlier taking her to show same oga for the first time before we wedded, when we were in Abuja Transcorp Hilton, and oga asked her straight forward if she was ready for marriage, and she fully answered by saying yes and oga immediately gave her 500k for airtime.

Oga was fully present in benin for my wedding, after cancelling a 140m show appearance. Oga..

Most of the women have nothing to offer in any marriage or life Dan sex and bad mouth.
No wonder she say u be slave to davido.

flokii:


Virgins are known to be well brought up and peaceful.. the shela this broda married is not a virgin or probably used alum and other means to tighten her vagina..
The girl na confirm street and belongs to the streets.. dem use church as boju boju deceive broda Isreal, collect everything dem need from am.

the gal na confam virgin. the tin tight

placeofallure:


With your last paragraph, I agree a 101 percent. Hip-hop brand of music, you will either do all of these - philandering, drugs, women, fraud, gangsterism, petty crimes - or you pretend like you are doing them otherwise no blowing for you.
No serious Christian girl will align with someone like Davido or any of his 30 BG (l like Davido though) Isreal should have known better. He should pick up the pieces and move on.

did your husband marry you a virgin

But men will never cease to be funny.

Same people who claim marriage doesn't benefit them are getting married.
Instead of being happy that he is free ,he is feeling traumatized.lol

Despite 7 women rushing after them,they still feel bad and emotional if one woman dumps

Just crazy

flokii:


Ladies nowadays are not worth it, sorry to say... If not for kids and family settings, most men won't have business with today's women. Sex is cheap, infact too cheap so that's out of the picture.

The world has gone wrong.. the girls that expect to get married tomorrow are now into hookups, escorts, prostituti0n like it's no man's business. Tomorrow, their parents will be drawing up lists for wedding for same h0es using their bodies anyhow now. Just annoying.

Those hookup girls are they sleeping with themselves or with your fellow men? Women also do say if not for children, they won't have anything to do with Men. And the truth is that na we men no fit do without these women.

It is easier for women to stay without sex than we men

. We fully agreed with her terms and conditions. | immediately began a full upgrade of her unkept situation by firstly giving her 300k and also replacing her tattered phone of less than 60k to a brand new iphone 12 Pro Max of 860k in less than 2 weeks.

This is where his problems started.

Israel is a mf weak asshóle!

When it comes to marriage, you don't agree with a woman's terms and conditions, you're the trophy, she's not.

Secondly, you don't upgrade a Nigerian girlfriend. Maintain the status quo you met her until you wife her.

If she's using an infinix phone when you met her and you want to get a phone for her, buy tecno or itel.

If you truly love a Nigerian girl, never upgrade her when dating. The moment you upgrade her, she's gone!

oluwaseyi0:


I keep telling people this but emotional misgonist nairaland kids won't hear

some of you men don't know what you want. When a girl is approaching 30 you believe she's old. A girl in her early 20s is too young and not mature for marriage, bla bla bla

My sister was 23 when she got married and her marriage is 16 years living happily

There's no one formula to all these

tollyboy5:

Ok but what has she done for him? aside "i am a virgin"?

what do you want her to do for him as an African woman?

A fully sapa girl i met with just 2,700 in her account.

You no go ever get that kind Oga for this your kon-kon head

illicit:
U behave like a slave tho

Oga, oga, oga...

70 years old man
🤷

Yoighaman:


Be like you get head for Virgins

Abeg, cut soap for your guy na

bitbillionaire:
Why is the idiot laying more emphasis on the tribe of the wife's mother.

The guy is as stupid and toxic as the wife he married. They deserve each other

I wonder.. maybe his tribe girls are already in Italy doing prostitution.

Just like buying New Car doesnt guaranty u it wont spoil

ednut1:

Speaking like you know Davido , did he not sack this one
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2020/08/15/davido-fires-personal-assistant-aloma-dmw/?amp=1

That guy was a menace and a big nuisance.
He was going to implicate him into something big like similar to this naira Marley saga if davido had not do away with him.
Sure he got the advise to sack that Aloma dude from his dad or elder siblings.
Israel is a nice guy just not street smart(that's the reason this silly girl could play him like a kid ) and Davido ain't a fool he can see through that. Nigga is 100 percent loyal and love his boss to a fault.

David wont cancel a 140m show for his own brothers wedding.

Abi una dey into some dark shit.

I gaz confirm from David if na true e cancel 140m show for this dumbass.

I later also replaced the 12 Pro Max to a brand 14 Pro Max of 1.2m that she’s currently using to slay. I did a alot of shoppings for her.


Oga Isreal.. What happened to her 12promax that u had to change it and why would u spend such amount in just 2 weeks of knowing her.

Are u a little bit mad or very mad.

U wan impress her abi.