I wish I got married at 25.
Got married at 31, No regret at all, except I wish I had married 6 years earlier when I first met my wife, but who knows it may not turn out well, because those 6 years forged me into a more responsible man and my wife gained more emotional maturity too. I told her several times that I wish I married her earlier, but she always replied that I would have married a "baby" who is not mature emotionally.
In all, God made the difference in our marriage and we're deeply grateful to God.

Arriving at 06:00pm to a Night party.

Stephen2324:
Men who married at 24, 25, 26, 27. Do you regret it? If you could, would you have it different next time?

Married at 27 my wife was 21 years than the marriage lasted for 9 years she done go her way now
Am doing my own thing as well
Early marriage is not good trust me.
You need lots of social life as a guy date different girls before thinking about marriage.
Am single and am cool with that.

Education, Training and Skills sets up a man.

The earlier your kids gets it the better.

Some people will not learn computer skills until they turn 40, then will understand why a 23 year old with 6 months experience is their boss.

All these speaks alot.

AfahaAbia:
To me men who marry at that age are very big fools!!! Most of them hope to use their children as retirement plan!!!

It's the reason why POVERTY is so rampant in Nigeria.

Who Dey rush you?

uuzba:

Well, Economy!
Back then, it was easy to get a job and one person's salary (Dad), was totally enough for the whole house, rent, new car, school fees... everything.
Today, husband and wife will be doing 24hrs shift work to see food money.

Sadly it's true

Adetayo41:
I have no reason. I married @25. And have a twin ( 2 kids. Boy and a girl).. now 27 years. Now.


And just got my wife a new ride. O also got one for my self.

The same wife you caught using a vibrator and has been denying you your conjugal rights?

notttty:

Nope best decision I have ever made, 4kids n existing the 5th, 3 boys n a girl, business booming n my career is progessing well, the boys are doing very great in school and are each others competition, 2013 till date has been a blessing because that marriage reposition my focus to new goals knowing the responsibilities I got. You are making a mistake as a man if you go being 30 unmarried. Yea my first son is in jss1 and I'm just 35, my wife 30 and trust me that family i created is bonded strongly, you can't oppress anyone cos we re all coming for you including my 2yrs old daughter that believe has teddy monkey can protect us all, don't worry. I grew from the street n now I'm a top accountant where In the organization I work, I know the street well and I'm putting my kids through the rope to learn the street without going into the street. Belive me if u meet that woman and you amhave a job, go for it, no job? No problems, use your brain and work your hands to bleed that money. Marrying young is heaven when the money and trust exist, I never ever regret marrying except for the period I went on training in geneva where I regretted being married cos I was Hot as hell n wife was in Nigeria, my vows couldn't let me believe me even tho the girl that was right there was Ethiopian and was so willing.. that's my only regret so far

Nice one. Nothing as good as starting early. Mine was a little late, but I vowed 30 wount pass me. Got married at 29. Had my first pikin 3 days before age 30. Second at 34 and last at 37.
2 are in university and the last in ss 1 or 2.
Meanwhile my guy that married early, the last born just graduated last year. The first has been working for over 6 years, about to marry sef. Lol

martolux:
And the ones who married in their 40s plans to bear kids for other people to cater for?

You dey vex o. I wanted to quote him but then, I saw your post.

Marrying early is the best for me, so long you found the right one

Angelfrost:


There are 60 year olds with teenage sons and daughters who they are paddies with.

At the same time, there are close-aged parents and kids who don't bond at all.

You guys should quit mounting needless pressure on yourselves and your peers to marry when they are clearly not ready.

No doubt all you said is true.

But those were my wishes
God had other plans and it didn't materialise.

Please allow me WISH
theres no crime In that

Angelfrost:


There are 60 year olds with teenage sons and daughters who they are paddies with.

At the same time, there are close-aged parents and kids who don't bond at all.

You guys should quit mounting needless pressure on yourselves and your peers to marry when they are clearly not ready.

Nigerians dosen't need People of your Caliber who reason properly and always keep an open mind.

You see that person you quoted are the Types of People Most Nigerians wants😂

Infact these days, It's a big Toture on my Mental Health dealing with these Backward & Primitive beings.

Difrent:


No doubt all you said is true.

But those were my wishes
God had other plans and it didn't materialise.

Please allow me WISH
theres no crime In that

No offense sir... I get you clearly.

God will grant you all your heart desires.

Lonelyhrt1:
Not a single regret, in fact I’m one of the world happiest guy. Met my wife 11 years ago when I was 19 and she’s 18, had our first daughter 6 years ago and legally married now for 5 years and I’d say I made the best decision of my life.
I’m just 30 and my first child is in Pry 1 already.

From your write up, it appears as if you were forced to live with her then, probably after getting her pregnant

Angelfrost:


Oga... Did I say it is bad to marry early?!!

Those days and now, are they the same?!!

Some of our parents that married early then did so out of societal and peer pressure... I have heard many of them say if they could go back in time, they would have waited at least 5 more years before settling down.

It's different strokes for different folks... And who told you everyone marries strictly because they want kids?!!

Guy, go read a book or something. Quit projecting your cultural orientation as facts.

Everyone is not of the same mindset, at least not anymore...!

What has kept Flavor, Wizkid, Burna Boy, Tekno, etc, from getting married with all the Millions they are worth?!!

flavor has 2 grown kids
tekno has a child
burna is not that old
wizkid has a family already of many kids
they are smart.

they wont start looking for a girl and wife at 45 or start bearign kids late
wizzy kids all grown except maybe the last born
soon he will be attending their matric and convocation and still be a young accomplished man

Yes. That institution became a nightmare. At a point, I defined it as a bar without prison. Every shades of darkness becomes scary hell.

Marrying early is the best...

However, marriage isn't defined by how far but by how well.

Stephen2324:
Men who married at 24, 25, 26, 27. Do you regret it? If you could, would you have it different next time?

So all this fresh pucci wey I chop this week now I for no see am.. abeg oo!

Jcomtrader:


flavor has 2 grown kids
tekno has a child
burna is not that old
wizkid has a family already of many kids
they are smart.

they wont start looking for a girl and wife at 45 or start bearign kids late
wizzy kids all grown except maybe the last born
soon he will be attending their matric and convocation and still be a young accomplished man

Sigh... This is exactly how people fail exams.

Are they married or not?!!

Are we talking about impregnating women and having kids or getting married and settling down?!!

In any case, does everyone have the same mindset to have kids early or become fathers early?!!

See ehn... Let's not go round in circles. If you have solid points to rebut my submission, let me know.

Thanks.

Married at young age is so sweet

Go And Ask B-LORD

PoliticalChinex:

Imagine sentencing yourself to life imprisonment of marriage at early age of 24 as a man!

U start to bang only one pvuccy for the next 70 years!

😂

Don't near marriage as a man if you're not financially ready. Don't allow the illusional love to deceive you, love disappears when there no money. As a man, marriage is full of financial responsibilities.

Stephen2324:
Men who married at 24, 25, 26, 27. Do you regret it? If you could, would you have it different next time?

I wanted to get married at 24. I got married 10 years later.

I got married at 23, and no single regret, I can't even believe my two lovely children are grown, I just smile whenever I look back, marriage in an early age with a very good source of income is sweet, even the bible encourages it by stating that "Be happy with the wife of your youth".... No need for boyfriend or girlfriend wahala, less billing, and more intimacy, infact na you go run!!!

If I had my way I'd have married at 23 but e choke, next year shaa we go run am Almost 30 by then. My kids 'll marry early, it's better earlier than later

Stephen2324:
Men who married at 24, 25, 26, 27. Do you regret it? If you could, would you have it different next time?

I got married at 27yrs, my wife 25yrs. And we are happy we did cos we dated for 8yrs. Still running smooth. No regret at all.

Finance alone is not the key. You must be ready for it mentally and emotionally.

Marriage is not for the faint at heart

Qatar2022:

They won't tell you they regret it but high percentage of them regret it

Oshey, please give us the figures of the research you conducted. I wonder how y'all find it comfortable making up statistics based on your own short-sightedness and trying to shove bullshit down other people's throats.

"They won't tell you..." Yen, yen, yen..

So, na you dem dey tell?

Pastorjohn2:
I married at 26 and divorced after 3 months.

I'm currently 43 with 3 churches and 2 houses and am already currently building another church to boost myself.

Some marriages are chains and most women are daughters of Satan's child (jezebel).

A man that marry in his 20's is a fool.

bros abeg which type of pastor are u?

Pastorjohn2:
I married at 26 and divorced after 3 months.

I'm currently 43 with 3 churches and 2 houses and am already currently building another church to boost myself.

Some marriages are chains and most women are daughters of Satan's child (jezebel).

A man that marry in his 20's is a fool.

So, because you married early and failed at it, others who do so have suddenly become fools? How do low-IQ folks like you just come online to insult others just because they didn't do things your own way?

So much for a pastor!

Intergrated:
bros abeg which type of pastor are u?

The rubbish type wey no too get sense.

Imagine tying the knot so early Can never be me sha, where bannies full outside. Ashawo is the way till 35 I will think of marriage maybe 35-40