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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Adewale1603(m): 7:48pm On Nov 29, 2023
Karlifate:


The randy he-goats that rapes babies and underdeveloped teenagers are also provoked by "indecent dressing"


Just look at someone's 9 months . Dang! shocked
we're talking about sexual arrassement. Those that rapes babies and underage teens are suffering from mental conditions, they're pedophiles. It's entirely different from sexual arrassement

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Karlifate: 7:53pm On Nov 29, 2023
Adewale1603:
we're talking about sexual arrassement. Those that rapes babies and underage teens are suffering from mental conditions, they're pedophiles. It's entirely different from sexual arrassement

So, rape is not sexual harassment

Keep exposing your low IQ grin

BTW, it's harassment, not "arrassement"

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Adewale1603(m): 7:58pm On Nov 29, 2023
Karlifate:



The mysterious-solving Sherlock Holmes.

Thunder fire you there angry
know this fact, the way you are dressed is the way you will be treated and addressed, most of this ladies dresses anyhow and provocatively in public spaces and you expect some randy people not to treat or arrass you as a sexual objects. If you dress decently and properly, no randy pervert will arrass you. It's how you dressed that would determine the kind of people you attracts. Whether you are decent or godly inside, nobody cares, it's your outward appearance people see.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by mmadu5(m): 7:58pm On Nov 29, 2023
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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Karlifate: 8:00pm On Nov 29, 2023
Adewale1603:
know this fact, the way you are dressed is the way you will be treated and addressed, most of this ladies dresses anyhow and provocatively in public spaces and you expect some randy people not to treat or arrass you as a sexual objects. If you dress decently and properly, no randy pervert will arrass you. It's how you dressed that would determine the kind of people you attracts. Whether you are decent or godly inside, nobody cares, it's your outward appearance people see.

Shut the fukk up!

He-goat cum paedophile. angry

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Exceed15: 8:01pm On Nov 29, 2023
U should have given him a hot slap second time he did it.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:02pm On Nov 29, 2023
Yes most ladies have been sexually harassed. That's how extremely stupid some men can be.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by CandidAdmin(m): 8:06pm On Nov 29, 2023
Adewale1603:
the fact is that majority of these sexual harrassement are caused by sexual provocation or sex appeals in terms of how attractive the women are or how they dressed, and dressings is subjective, what looks decent to you, might not look so decent to another person. And some men are naturally pervert by nature. And the fact is Nigeria is not like USA. Anything goes here

You have a point there.
But what is wrong is wrong, no matter the provocation, harrassement or rape is wrong.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Heffalump(m): 8:06pm On Nov 29, 2023
@OP, maybe your sister was enjoying the tap current. What's your business for crying more than the injured??

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:06pm On Nov 29, 2023
Adewale1603:
know this fact, the way you are dressed is the way you will be treated and addressed, most of this ladies dresses anyhow and provocatively in public spaces and you expect some randy people not to treat or arrass you as a sexual objects. If you dress decently and properly, no randy pervert will arrass you. It's how you dressed that would determine the kind of people you attracts. Whether you are decent or godly inside, nobody cares, it's your outward appearance people see.


You are extremely daft and ignorant, you should have also said that only indecently dressed ladies are raped, and babies plus little kids are provocatively dressed that's why they are also raped, Dan iska

Some of you will foolishly type trash online as if you're making sense, one has to ask the level of your education.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by YourGFsnatcher: 8:08pm On Nov 29, 2023
Adewale1603:
How was your sister dressed ? This will solve the mystery

I thought u have sense. Buy with this.... naaaaaaa.... this is too low of a grown up to think this way. Naaaaaa

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by abba190: 8:10pm On Nov 29, 2023
#metoo version of nairaland loading.......

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by JustPowerApps(m): 8:10pm On Nov 29, 2023
She asked for money in exchange for s*x, never seen such crazy harassment before, it was devastating tongue

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by yemmit90: 8:10pm On Nov 29, 2023
CandidAdmin:


Chai! This is a man that doesn't take nonsense.

Lolz, he could only do that to those he knew he can beat one on one.

You or your sister should've giving him a big slap that he won't forget in a hurry.
Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by StUriah(m): 8:10pm On Nov 29, 2023
Don't be misguided, bro.

Women whom you are protecting needed the attention they are getting. Tell your sister and wife to be moderate in dressing when going to public places.

Are they the only women on the streets?

Most ladies now want to dress to kill. Bra-less-pant-less generation. Even in the churches, not to talk of our higher institutions, moderate dressing has gone to the dustbin of history.

Note: The way you dressed is the way you will be addressed.

Shalom.


Felimax:


I swear I don't know how I will forgive myself if had ignored. Usually I do everything and anything I can to stay out of trouble but if it comes hunting I face it with tripled force.

Just by BOC Gas at Oshodi one stupid hit our vehicle and refused us to leave because his car was damaged while ours was not. Omo I got down and we fought wetin nor good. After which I told him to give anybody from Warri chance.

The thing is I cannot take part in you oppressing me. NEVER!

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by abba190: 8:14pm On Nov 29, 2023
i didnt see your sister but i bet she has a big@ass grin grin grin and that pervert couldnt control himself, and you the sissy why did u not slapped the sense into his head the second time he did it?

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by dust144(m): 8:15pm On Nov 29, 2023
Am yet to get one
Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:15pm On Nov 29, 2023
Tallesty1:
I received a call from a friend years ago. His girlfriend had just been raped. Shocked and disturbed, I immediately contacted another friend, and together, we rushed to the location, only to find them both in tears.

They were going to Pentecost event when they encountered a group of guys who subjected them to a nightmarish ordeal. They held him down and forced him to watch helplessly as they took turns on his girlfriend. It was past 10 when we took her to Ezenwa Hospital before proceeding to the police station to file a report.

I doubt that the young woman ever recovered from that experience. Despite my friend's desperate efforts to salvage their relationship, it crumbled within days.

The lady and I weren't close friends but we used to talk occasionally. However, after that fateful night, she severed all ties, blocking me on every platform, ceasing greetings when our paths crossed, and eventually leaving the area.

Rape or any form sexual harassment shouldn't happen to anyone.


The idiot up there asking how your sister was dressed is a rapist


Jesus, the nightmare, the pain, the hurt, Jesus, how is she able to live with herself, how are rape victims able to live with themselves, I do not wish for that experience on my enemy, God 😭

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Cowbell521: 8:15pm On Nov 29, 2023
Fountainofyouth:
Yes most ladies have been sexually harassed. That's how extremely stupid some men can be.
Have been harassed by women on 3 occasions. I know many men have been harassed too but nobody go take them serious and someen dey like am so nobody dey talk. Sexual harassment no good at all

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by nathdim: 8:16pm On Nov 29, 2023
What about women who intentionally rub their tities on a guys arms or shoulders inside a bus how do we classified them

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by DelphiOracle(m): 8:17pm On Nov 29, 2023
Samantha124:
Well, since you've already concluded that I'm an illiterate, then I think it's best I keep my illiterate opinion to myself.

Have a good day... smiley smiley smiley
nice and mature reply.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Cowbell521: 8:17pm On Nov 29, 2023
nathdim:
What about women who intentionally rub their tities on a guys arms or shoulders inside a bus how do we classified them
E don happen many times. girls go wan hold dick. Rub hands on your tight. Try hug or press bres on you or rub ur chest and many ways

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Cowbell521: 8:18pm On Nov 29, 2023
Samantha124:
Well, since you've already concluded that I'm an illiterate, then I think it's best I keep my illiterate opinion to myself.

Have a good day... smiley smiley smiley
Dumbboo You don't have anything to say. It's both side
Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by wallarwallar(m): 8:18pm On Nov 29, 2023
Felimax:
The man is an Idiot! I felt you are not strong enough for the man and I feel your pain.

A mad man did it with my younger sister and before he know it he saw blood all over his head and started running.

Another day, it was my wife at Effurun roundabout and she was telling the guy that she is married but the guy will not listen and kept embarrassing her, following and calling her names. When I came she immediately told me and not too distant away I approached him and gave the an old century slap even though he was taller.
My voltage nor good Sha!






Mumu u cud hv done better rather been aggressive by slapping d guy what if.d guy retaliate and fight start den u die in d process den go still Bleep ur wife after u die foolishly... No be everything be gragra u can say things to him politely that will hunt him 4 d rest of his.life becareful wit ur actions no be everybody wey dey street get joy and most @ joy killer.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:21pm On Nov 29, 2023
Cowbell521:
Have been harassed by women on 3 occasions. I know many men have been harassed too but nobody go take them serious and someen dey like am so nobody dey talk. Sexual harassment no good at all


How painful.....sorry.

Next time, create a thread and share your story so that we can sympathise with you. And tell your friends to boldly report to a police station to report their sexual harassment experience, then men should aggressively start an awareness and campaign with support from NGO's so that people can be aware that men can also be a victim because it is mainly you guys that down play yourselves when it comes to sex that's why no one takes you serious. Reason why people focus on females is because we are mostly the victim.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by obaidan: 8:23pm On Nov 29, 2023
Make una no lie sha
Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by smasher1(m): 8:24pm On Nov 29, 2023
CandidAdmin:
I don't know whether what I saw this morning falls under sex harrasment, but here is mine.

We got down from a public vehicle (me and my sister) and then tried to cross the road only for one grown up to hit my sister butt and claim it was an accident.

My sister overlooked it and the we crossed the road. As we were going up a bridge, we decided to stop and buy something only for the same man to do it again. He still said it was a mistake and walked away. The road is a big one ooo, and no car was passing by but the man decided to walk on the corner where no reasonable person will pass so that he would accomplish his mission.

My sister and I were really pissed off, even the traders attending to us were insulting him but he couldn't care less.

I couldn't do anything because my sister told me not to as per he his an old useless man. If not ehnn...

Share your experience

Women do such to men and there's nothing a man can do about it.

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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by SALLYBERRY01(m): 8:24pm On Nov 29, 2023
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Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by spencekat(m): 8:26pm On Nov 29, 2023
Too bad
Re: Have You Ever Seen Or Experienced Sexual Harassment Before? by smasher1(m): 8:29pm On Nov 29, 2023
Map1:
Brother next time when a situation like that arise kindly neglect it and moved on, such a retaliation can lead to some things else, avoiding a retaliation does not make you a fool, just for peace.

He's actions can lead to his death. I know the area in Warri. Such people sometimes do it and are involved with other bad people in the area, thieves etc. They can kill. I've seen them do such in market place like Oshodi. Don't try to form strong. Move out fast. They did it to me and my first girlfriend at Ojota, Lagos. Touching all my pockets in the park but they didn't steal from me. Let's use sense and not power if in such situations and pray to God.

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