I am devastated about some news I just heard recently.

2 women I love dearly who have been great inspiration to me are leaving their marriages.

This is unbelievable,what is going on?

Atlanta police said Thomas W. Weeks III struck Juanita Bynum, who has homes in Hempstead and Waycross, Ga., at about 5 a.m. Wednesday, beating her badly enough to require medical treatment, said Atlanta Police Officer Robert Campbell.

"They were talking about a reconciliation. They got into an argument. In the process of the argument, her husband walked out to the parking lot area, turned back around and started to choke Miss Bynum," Campbell said.

God is the only answer. Men will always fail

http://www.newsday.com/news/local/nassau/ny-lieva0824,0,2084488.story

Then my darling Paula White divorcing her husband.
I am so much saddened by this.

The Whites, who've been married nearly 18 years, said in interviews that the split is amicable and comes after visits to counselors over several years.

They blame two lives going in different directions.

Randy, however, said he takes "100 percent responsibility" for the breakup.

"I want to apologize for the poor decisions I've made in my life, to my congregation and to the body of Christ," he told The Tampa Tribune. "I think I've let a lot of people down."

Those regrets, he said, include how he has treated some people, lifestyle changes and being seen in public with women other than his wife, even if it was innocent.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/20418259/

wow!!! that for Ms. White really shocked me. I love her inspirational show.

Hello M'totto!!!!!


I say you can only stare at one "*****" or "****" for so long!!!  he he he he he +osisi and omoge---learn now or the hard way!!!!   Sometimes love is not enough----find a way to make your relationships fun!!!!!!  Jisos no day for inside oh!  Check out the divorce rate among the "wholeys"!!!  He he he he he he he!!! Meanwhile "apamas"---paraya ---aparrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrra and "agarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrachas" like us are still waxing stronger!!!  Una go tire oh!!!!

No be so Okonjo Iweala husband--a whole Neuro Surgeon--begin shag the nurses in his office---while she was making waves in world bank----make una learn oh!!! he he he he he he!!!!


_{Don't Cry For Me Argentina-------- I never loved you-------all through my wild years---la la la la la la!!!}


Whoooooooooooooooooo!!! should a say the terrific trio!!! aloib is present!!! Make una no cry to much oh--una own dey come for front----save ya tears oh!!! he he he he he he he!!!


Oh so sorry!!!!! I am so sorry!!!! He he he he he he!!!  I beg a dey go sleep!!!  Just couldn't resist the presence of +osisi and omoge the "dynamic" duo!!!!

the thing sef dey fear pesin!!

should we tag cameras to our men's briefcase or follow them to work.
What kind of demon is this that can't be cast out?

aloib:

the thing sef dey fear pesin!!

It must be discouraging to unmarried folks.
what are these men looking for?
wives have started to intall poles in the bedrooms,learnt to swng from chandeliers.
some have assorted outfits yet these men can't be controlled!

+osisi:

should we tag cameras to our men's briefcase or follow them to work.
What kind of demon is this that can't be cast out?

You no get work?  Men these days are very innovative!  Them get "*****" for them pocket to use in the men's bathroom to steal cheat so why bother---do ya own jare!!!!

+osisi:

It must be discouraging to unmarried folks.
what are these men looking for?
wives have started to intall poles in the bedrooms,learnt to swng from chandeliers.
some have assorted outfits yet these men can't be controlled!

he he he he he he!!! Chandeliers no dey reign again oh!  They want you to grow 2 or 3 extra "******" then maybe they can be satisfied a tad!  Just a lirrrrrrrrrrrle oh, not much!!!!

Una go tire to investigate men oh! Leave them--just do ya own!!!!

no babelove don't say such!!
if a man and woman can't be faithful to one another why stay married?

just to answer mrs?

yes very discouraging. i wonder too what they (guys) want or looking for. one can never be enough.

speaking of poles, Oprah's show aired something like that and i just shake my head, what in the world!! just to curb him, well let's say that's what they see in their players clubs. now they want their women to do same or to curb them ladies have to install one in their bedroom?? na wah!

yeah, wear thong to keep him. wear lingerie to keep him. know how to do lap dance to keep him, sigh

interesting the lady (Mary Winkler) who killed her pastor husband brought in a very high heel shoe and a sexy wear (like the ones those night ladies wear) during her trials. she said her husband made her wear those, had MouthAction, do anal sex etc and those were against her person.

i will say enjoy it while it last. i plan to marry someday and i will carry my own oriki with me, do what you can for a dog destined to be lost will never held to the master's whistle.

i hope you don't marry such a dog.

Its really sad though, the divorce rate amongst christians and non-christians is almost the same in North America

I feel the root cause lies in the issues that have not been dealt with - lust, renewal of the mind and past hurts, a hurting man/woman will definitely hurt others.

babeelove has a point - some Christians don't really deal with the issue of sex properly, and lack of satisfaction in that area inevitably causes rifts in the relationship that may lead to greater problems.

God help us all, like Osisi said, man/woman will always fail, only God can save us.

its quite obvious that men are not built to be monogamous, their physical/ psychological makeup cannot handle such restrictions.

the sooner the ladies realise this the better.

the fallen man/woman cannot be monogamous by themselves, they need regeneration in Christ to be able to do so. We all need God's help in that regard, both male and female, the erroneous conception that it is only a male problem needs to be corrected.

but note, in the White's case, no third party was involved, that was not a case of infidelity, but more of a drifting apart over the years, what caused that is not known to me, but its really sad, given all they have achieved by the Lord's grace.

first of all the notion that "men will always fail u" is wrong , not all men,

about paula and the other woman, thats sad.Love paula white today on TBN And daystar christian network,

It is so hard for a woman to preach abot marriage,relationships and friendship without a husband, u have to be a living example like the late BIMBO ODUKOYA(MAY THE LORD BLESS HER SOUL)

debosky:

i hope you don't marry such a dog.

Its really sad though, the divorce rate amongst christians and non-christians is almost the same in North America

I feel the root cause lies in the issues that have not been dealt with - lust, renewal of the mind and past hurts, a hurting man/woman will definitely hurt others.

babeelove has a point - some Christians don't really deal with the issue of sex properly, and lack of satisfaction in that area inevitably causes rifts in the relationship that may lead to greater problems.

God help us all, like Osisi said, man/woman will always fail, only God can save us.

Always with a sane voice of reason.--But you are a man!  You will still wander too!!!    It is in the blood!!! Ya hands are not clean too--even the way you dey waka for Nairaland sef!   But no wahala oh!  Please carry on -------as God created you guys! Please leave God out of it!  God has given you "free will" and you have the right to exercise it!

+osisi:

no babelove don't say such!!
if a man and woman can't be faithful to one another why stay married?
just to answer mrs?

Who told you it is to answer Mrs.? Faithful?  I think you are not being realistic.  Faithfullness is a required quality but a rare possibility.  Couples are only faithful to one another after about 40 years in the marriage--when them don waka tire!!!!!  No more energy to move!!!!  Thank God I still have like 30years to go---translates into a lot of play time for me oooooooooooooooooh!!!! he he he he he he.  Gosh I love my mom and dad---the real masters of the game!!! I learned very well ohhhhhhhhhhh!!! 2 of my "happily" married brothers have already scored goals in their "away" matches out of their matrimonial homes.  You go brothers!!! Keep them babies coming!!! 

As for the clowns I have as parents, that was never an issue and they loved each other very much and still managed sha sha and stayed together---But boy! Could they cheat or what In open view--without shame!!!!   The thing no mean anything to them oh!  Gosh!!!   We laff so teyyyyyyyyyyyyy at them, we had so much fun.  We had so many "uncles" and "aunties" when we were growing up that I could not tell which were biologically related to me.  Now they are back to sleeping in the same rooms and driving to church together on Sundays!  Nothing to do now? Body don tireeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!  he he he he he he he!  I beg make una  relassssssssssssssssssssss!!!!  The fact that the kitchen is hot and smoky does not mean you cannot "cook" in it!  Single people---have no fear!  Nothing dey for inside at all.  Just roll with the punches!  It does not kill!


Marriage is for companionship and having kids period!!!  The children no go get papa and mama?  The main reason for marriage is  to give children the legitimacy they deserve.  Thank God I am not the type that wants to look at a man 24-0-7!  Jealousy is not in my blood at all.  Make im waka!  Ah- ah!   Na only im get yansh!!! I can't even wait for him to leave the house so make I see road.  Please, you will discover that after 2 or more years of marriage, all na managementooooooooooooooo!!!!  he he he he he he he he!!

ziddy:

its quite obvious that men are not built to be monogamous, their physical/ psychological makeup cannot handle such restrictions.

the sooner the ladies realise this the better.

Please we have realized the facts of the matter oh!  Don't mind these pipo here trying to fake ignorance.  I have a lot of anti-hypertensives and duiretics for them free of charge.  Make una just give me a holla!!!!
Happy Sunday ya'aaaaaaaaaal!!!!!

it's only a little time for us to know whether a woman involved in the White case. time will tell. off to church to look for the polygamus guy sorry listen to God's words and praise Him

Do you really think the first woman should have stayed with a man who almost killed her?

@Poster and all

Do you think there was a Marriage at all among this people?

Look at their life style look closer at the life style of the woman. Bynum Herself knows deep down that she will not be married for long.

A wife must be called by her husband Name.

A woman must remain quiet in Church. She must be subject to her husband not object.

When I said there was something wrong with this woman people called me accuser of the brethren. Does an Accusser Give you an Escape route?

This woman needed to be born again Just like any Demon Possessed Backsliden Leader Like KING SAUL.




Judgment is coming upon the World REPENT AND FLEE THE COMING WRATH.

MEN HEART WILL FAIL THEM BUT THEY THAT KNOW THEIR GOD SHALL PERFORM EXPLOITS

backslider,you're always judging folks.
This issue of divorce in Christendom is very disheartening.

wow, this is certainly not a good news. I'm shocked beyond words! +osisi ( guess you're babyosisi right?), you sure bout your source? Can't believe Juanita of all women, i've been blessed by hers songs time and time again.

my dear I wish it was false but fox news and NBC plus atlanta journal constitution can't be making these things up.
I love Juanita to pieces.
The annointing in her ministry is incredible.

In my to do list is to meet her face to face and shake her hands.
I watched the wedding on TV in 2002 and I was moved.
It was the most awesome wedding ceremony.
Their vows were so romantic.
and after all that?
This was not meant to happen.

_{yes,babyosisi is it}
where have you been?

I saw some stats that show divorce rates amongst devout Christians is lower than the average rates in the US.Don't know how reliable they are

General Social Survey (GSS, 2000-2004)—one of the best known sources of sociological data. “Frequent” is attending church about once a week or more.

58%, non-frequent Black Protestants
54%, non-frequent Evangelicals
51%, no religion (e.g., atheists & agnostics)
48%, ALL NON-CHRISTIANS
48%, non-frequent, other religions
47%, frequent Black Protestants
42%, non-frequent, mainline Protestants
41%, ALL CHRISTIANS
41%, non-frequent Catholics
39%, Jews
38%, frequent other religions
34%, frequent Evangelicals
32%, ALL FREQUENT CHRISTIANS
32%, frequent mainline Protestants
23%, frequent Catholics

http://brewright..com/2006/12/christian-divorce-rates.html

You know it was never the will of God for people to divorce.
I can prove it with Christs very words.

Sometimes,its the only option.Some marriages are de facto "divorced relationships". . .there are many of them like that in Nigeria.

The couple just carry on due to societal pressures but they despise each other.That is more harmful than actually going through a divorce

Mark 10:2   The Pharisees came and asked Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?" testing Him.

Mark 10:3   And He answered and said to them, "What did Moses command you?"

Mark 10:4   They said, "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce, and to dismiss her."

Mark 10:5   And Jesus answered and said to them, "Because of the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.

Mark 10:6   "But from the beginning of the creation, God 'made them male and female.'[fn1]

Mark 10:7   'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife,

Mark 10:8   'and the two shall become one flesh';[fn2] so then they are no longer two, but one flesh.
Mark 10:9   "Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."

Mark 10:10   In the house His disciples also asked Him again about the same matter.

Mark 10:11   So He said to them, "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her.

omoge, if MouthAction is against her person to do for a husband then she shouldnt be getting married to someone that wants oral in the first place. People wonder why some think sexual compatiblity is important to discuss before getting hitched

some Christians don't really deal with the issue of sex properly, and lack of satisfaction in that area inevitably causes rifts in the relationship that may lead to greater problems

I agree with debo on this. The same Christian woman that claim that they will be all submissive to their husbands yada yada are the same that claim certain activities shouldnt be done in the bedroom, yet when the man or  sometimes WOMAN goes outside for what they are lacking in the home, they have a problem. I advocate strong communication between the couple.


osisi, why are you bothered by Juanita leaving her marriage? I fear you o. How can you be in support of an ABUSIVE marriage? She had better leave that hell hole immediately before she ends up 6 ft under all in the name of "perserving marriage"

ThiefOfHearts:

omoge, if MouthAction is against her person to do for a husband then she shouldnt be getting married to someone that wants oral in the first place

I agree with debo on this. The same Christian woman that claim that they will be all submissive to their husbands yada yada are the same that claim certain activities shouldnt be done in the bedroom, yet when the man or sometimes WOMAN goes outside for what they are lacking in the home, they have a problem. I advocate strong communication between the couple.


osisi, why are you bothered by Juanita leaving her marriage? I fear you o. How can you be in support of an ABUSIVE marriage? She had better leave that hell hole immediately before she ends up 6 ft under all in the name of "perserving marriage"

I am not saddened that she left an abusive man but that the abuse took place in the first place.
I don't know if you ever saw the tapes these folks made on relationships.
even best seller books sef.
I'll be the first to tell an abused woman to get away and call the cops.

The same Christian woman that claim that they will be all submissive to their husbands yada yada are the same that claim certain activities shouldnt be done in the bedroom, yet when the man or sometimes WOMAN goes outside for what they are lacking in the home, they have a problem. I advocate strong communication between the couple.

There is a fine line between satisfying your man and plain old sexual perversion.
Any man that tells you he's going outside because his spouse refuses to give him anal sex belongs outside!

lol Paula's huaband always striked me as gay anyway so if he wanted anal I must say Im not surprised

Im sure these women they saw him with were probably his "beards" for what he really wanted

The couple just carry on due to societal pressures but they despise each other.That is more harmful than actually going through a divorce

I agree. It's quite depressing.

Osisi, just be thankful that Juanita is alive.

Every woman with a brain has things that she sees as abuse to her person and her body
and a loving spouse ought to respect that.
Submissiveness is not stupidity.

I don't know really why Paula and Randy split.
My mention of anal sex was just in response to your statement.

Isnt there a thread by some frustrated husband on here discussing how his wife only allows intercourse once a week with the excuse of "it's not meant to be enjoyed"

There are quite a number of things some Christian women consider to be "evil" that are NOT nearly as extreme as anal sex, osisi.

Point is such things should be discussed during courtship instead of it just suddenly being a surprise during the marriage.