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Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Ambitious21: 3:45pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Notfogotten: You are not getting permanent Visa next year. You can either get Post study visa ( 2years) or any of you get COS ( 5 years ). If you guys get Post study VISA, you will still partner her as dependent but if you can scope her and you are the one that get COS of five years, she will partner you as dependent.. Pls be wise and smart.... A lot is happening to many marriages 3 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by KaptainAfrika: 3:46pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
All these propaganda against japa wont work, you better go and refund the Government's money. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by 10thTenthMan: 3:46pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Britishpea: You have said it all in very Simple Terms. Most married the men to be able to eat and survive and will accept the men they detest because of this in Nigeria. The moment they arrive overseas, start working get paid, within 1 year they have 20 to 30k saved and, they can now access credit cards and buy cars and other things on credit etc. They will question WHY ON EARTH THEY PUT UP WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE. Most women marry to get the visa of survival and surviving Nigeria through the men they marry. MOST NIGERIAN WOMEN WOULD NOT HAVE ACCEPTED TO MARRY THE MEN THEY GOT MARRIED TO IF THEY AS WOMEN THEY WERE WORKING, EARNING BIG AND HAD THEIR OWN MONEY. That is the thing. The women wouldn’t have married these men in the first place if they had the choice. Na poverty and confusion about not knowing how to be fully productive, na him make most of the women manage the men dem marry. 10 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Eteka1(m): 3:47pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
WilsonBright935:what's COS? |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by jesmond3945: 3:48pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Notfogotten:thats if she writes to home office to remove your sponsorship. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Mustack: 3:48pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: I have this opinion as well |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by 10thTenthMan: 3:50pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
seborrhic: The man works in the oil and gas industry in Nigeria. He is not fully resident in the “Obodo Abroad”. It is said that when she eventually picked and he told her the situation she did not hurry. She said she is in Walmart. When he called her back she was still there he scolded her and asked if she is mad to not have immediately gone home to open the door for the kids. The woman is there and minding the kids. But that day she just was not available from around 8:00 am when the kids went to school, till around 6:00 pm when she eventually picked and had to be scolded by the man to go home. I think schools close around 3:00pm. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by 10thTenthMan: 3:52pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
PDJT: Absolutely. I didn’t and can’t hint that it is wrong. Absolutely not o. I am simply saying it should be factored. To me, as long as you can see the kids, it is worth the cost. I am just saying those deductions are enough for any reasonable Man to factor into his decision making process. It is an additional factor to be considered. 4 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by joebeckz(m): 3:54pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
PlushyRealtor: It is possible to get admission, then you can pay fees or deposit. Once you have your receipts from school. You can apply for a student visa while still active on tourist visa. Then your tourist visa will be canceled and u are issued a study visa.. Read this below 👇 from the Internet to further convince you. If you are in the United States on a visitor visa, you can still change to F-1 student status to reflect your new circumstances. If you want to do this, you will already need to have been accepted to study at a U.S. academic institution, and fulfill all the other requirements of the F-1 visa. Plenty of persons i know did it. It is very easy. Very very easy. Once you have admission and have paid deposit. You are good. Do it from inside USA. Visit with your tourist visa and do the remaining. It takes a short time. Matter of two weeks or less or slightly more. When 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by skillmyman(m): 3:55pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
bros, what you can do is to learn a digital freelance skill that you can work remotely with. that way, you can be saving and plan to either return to naija or stay back without her. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Berankis: 3:57pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Ahmed0336:She go still show you shege for here. Only them no Government backing for here. Once you don marry or dating, shege na normal thing, na to just try make e no go pro max 5 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by CoronaVirusPro: 4:00pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Notfogotten: Hello Hommie, Talk to your wife and try to amend issues. Don't consume negative energy! Sit her down and talk sense into her head. Let me tell you the truth. the ball is in your court. Its far easier to make it as a couple than an individual. Let her know your joint effort can do alot if you choose peace. Do not consume negative energy's. Stay positive and focused. The future of you and your kids is at stake and you must not mess it up! Keep your family matters personal! Those you are explaining to, who are charging you up, experience same too but won't admit. They out for destruction! Same way your wife is also in bad company`s who are misorientating her. 3 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by LooneyLester: 4:02pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Create a folder and document whatever your wife is doing from images, videos etc. So that when she tries to make a move on you, you then flip the switch 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Kingrshd3: 4:02pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Adebaba1: As in ehn he surprise me too oo 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Berankis: 4:03pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Kingpele:E be like say this one no know wetin dey happen for that place? Na to thread with caution for the guy, if not "you have 3months to leave the UK" na your next battle. It's better to lay low and try getting a sponsorship job yourself to break from the shackles. Women have been proven to be extremely wicked with power. So be careful@Op. They are loving when they are solely dependent but when they start contributing or sponsoring you will understand life much better 5 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Kaysalas(m): 4:04pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
modernWays:I am beginning to understand some of my father's decisions many years later 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by stormborn28(m): 4:05pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
BloomingDale: You go dey fvck well well oooooooo 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by ijobaoke: 4:10pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Dis one no sabi Serpent 🐍(woman) Kingpele: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by faithfull18(f): 4:11pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Hmmn. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by WilsonBright935: 4:14pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Eteka1:Certificate of Sponsorship. 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by DaddyJapan(m): 4:15pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Beuberry: Are you sure you read his question at all? My question, in the event that we get papers to stay permanently in UK and one day she decides to send me packing or I decide move out, will I be asked to return to Nigeria because she is the main applicant? Once he gets his ILR, his continued stay in the UK would no longer be contingent on his wife's status. Citizenship or ILR – If you have secured your ILR status or submitted your nationality application, getting a divorce or separating is unlikely to affect your immigration status, and you will not be required to the leave the UK.Source: https://www.wardhadaway.com/insights/updates/divorce-immigration-does-divorce-affect-your-right-to-remain-in-the-uk 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by saysoo: 4:17pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Cutehector:People are still looking at Omotola, Folurunsho Alakija, just a few. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by CursedOsuPigs: 4:17pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Notfogotten: In the UK, you can't be certain of getting papers next year. To get ILR, you must have been in the UK for 5 years. Have you been in the UK for 5 years? My brother, don't rock the boat o, here in the UK, na women get upper hand o. Endure till you get ILR or go find one fat Oyinbo wey you go dey knack secretly and get ILR through her. Give me your ears, no confront your wife o. That Kain woman for close eye throw you away. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by elmagnifico411(m): 4:25pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
You earn considerably okay in Nigeria, u can foot all the bills alone and still have savings, and u decided to follow one woman that got a student visa to the UK, what is your problem? Brothers especially, lemme let u know now that Japa is not for everyone. What wrong with these generation of men? Can't u guys see that the women are winning this one? Na wa oh 10 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by KrisUc(m): 4:29pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Baba try and mend the cracked walls in your marriage, there are still Naija couples who have lived together in the UK for about 20years without noise. Think about your children's sanity, even if you're abroad, don't train them the abroad way. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Harddiskng(m): 4:31pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
joebeckz: Lol You are assuming that her new UK lover no get job. Wrong assumption Nigerian women mostly tend to lean towards a higher bidder. It's rare to find one that doesn’t 3 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Beuberry(f): 4:33pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Free2Fly:Dear imp, you should stfu!
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Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Dliss(m): 4:35pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Kingpele: It doesn't matter how 'good' you are, if a person is tired of you, they will still get rid of you. You are not being logical. Leave sentiments and face reality. 5 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by overseasnbeyond: 4:37pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
There is a process to every claim, she can't just claim DV without report by the police. The law isn't that crazy. WilsonBright935: |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by imagrg(m): 4:38pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
This one wife don fvck am. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by WilsonBright935: 4:40pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
overseasnbeyond: Pray you don't fall victim chief UK laws, policies etc are crazier than you think. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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