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Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by hustla(m): 5:49pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Notfogotten: Where you wan see papers from within 1 year? What red flags did you notice? |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by delishpot: 5:50pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Notfogotten: Lol, you are now strategizing like women in a marriage where the men can do whatever he wants and she must swallow or be kicked out of her home. This is why when wives wait it out and strike years later when ball lands in her court people say oh she is a bad woman. Your answer: NO! Once you get your perm residence divorce won't lead to deportation 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by adieora(f): 5:51pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
The answer is no, however you won't be getting PR in the next 5 to 7years because she is on a student visa. She has to get a work/care visa to be eligible for PR which takes about 5 years to get. If you are concerned, you should aim to get a care worker or a skilled worker visa,that way you are independent of her visa. 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by luminouz(m): 5:51pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Oluwomonext212: Y'all still not reading right Which one is make peace with her? Was he fighting with her? You lots still don't get it...once a woman wants you gone, nothing you do pacifies her!!! You are a goner. I prefer his approach. Build in secret and shock your shocker when the time comes 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by GorillaApp(m): 5:52pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
PDJT:Sense full this talk. I understand why you said this. Most Nigerian men have carried this their penchant for taking care of all the bills to western climes and when they get kicked out, the pain and loss is 100% Op in life, you must get plan B and be emotionally and psychological prepared for any eventuallities. First thing, sit her down and have a heart to heart discussion with her. Try and get a cos codedly. Double your hustle and save for rainy day. Be prepared emotionally for anything. My favourite maxim is hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. Good luck brother 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by luminouz(m): 5:52pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
jaxxy:Jaxxy go and sit ya black ass down ..simp 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by luminouz(m): 5:53pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
adieora:You sound like you are in the UK.... And what da hell is own your profile? Gross!!! |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by jaxxy(m): 5:54pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
luminouz: dude ure back. always on the other side of the argument and calling names ..Lolz |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by AngelicBeing: 6:03pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by erico2k2(m): 6:09pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Kingpele:Bross U are talking like a true Nigerian who at any problem. Start praying and having faith even wen the Good book says faith without work is dead. No time to check time here in the UK. All what people are telling this brother is to get back up so that if things go left he has another life. Things that make people not to say good morning in Nigeria down here leads to leave your own house or police get called. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by erico2k2(m): 6:11pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
adieora:AkA COS. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by BRATISLAVA: 6:21pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Another emasculated man has created a post with twisted facts to engineer the type of responses he wants for his "marriage". 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by 10thTenthMan: 6:21pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
cococandy: Yes Madam. You are definitely right. No doubts at all. It is typical with “dem say”, “him say” and “she say” gists. You are absolutely correct. We usually never know the entire story. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by officerfudo: 6:24pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
[quote author=Ahmed0336 post=127631505]I was discussing with my wife the other day and she brought the issue of relocating. I told her I don't have plans to leave so she can go ahead. But as for the kids, they'd definitely leave this country when the time is right. No be me woman go show shege for another man's land My wife has also been on the japa issue, I no wan go commit suicide or murder for that way, if she wants to go, the lord is her strength. My children are the only japa candidates when the time is right. 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by BRATISLAVA: 6:25pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
joebeckz: Why didn't you ask the last question first? Scheming man uses wife to get into the UK, then publicly plans on how to dump her and get a new wife, the one he's always wanted and had to jilt for this meal ticket. 2 Likes |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by mrnwas(m): 6:29pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Dear Nairaland people. Whenever a man or woman brings family issues here, don't treat it like it's some biscuits. Think deeply, put yourself in their shoe, their kids before you comment. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by bizhop01: 6:38pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
I'm afraid women always take advantage of anything, is in their DNA 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by luminouz(m): 6:56pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
jaxxy: Lmaooo...I love you bro....happy holidays!!! |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by jaxxy(m): 7:07pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
luminouz: Love and respect. Happy hols. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Bentoli(m): 7:19pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Cutehector:You probably did not read it well. Did you see the part where he said his wife came to the UK before him and the his wife is the main applicant? |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by PDJT: 7:20pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Harddiskng: -Which UK lover will accept a woman, without permanent residency, carrying 3 kids? Lol. Na her puccy go hear am. -Single women never see lover na woman with THREE kids. Mtchew! |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Cutehector(m): 7:23pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Bentoli:you probably also did not read my comment well too. I am talking about myself..what i will do in terms of japa..who cares what transpired with the op and his wife.. Mchew. 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by soetantaiwo(m): 7:34pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
U will be send back home.. that's for sure.. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by DrDoc: 7:35pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by enemyofprogress: 7:41pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
ValCon888:I thought as much |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by enemyofprogress: 7:42pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
soetantaiwo:enemy of progress |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by adeola22v: 7:55pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
omowhich kind wahala be this, person go dey fear make him wife no throw am outNo matter what happens, don't leave Godomowhich kind wahala be this, person go dey fear make him wife no throw am outNo matter what happens, don't leave God... |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Oluwomonext212(m): 8:19pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
I understood everything he said. Yet, I understand nothing is impossible ! The marriage could still work if the husband try his best to understand the reason for her sudden change and talk it out with her, hence my reason for asking him to make peace as the first resolution. Then if that fails, man should man up and start building his alternative move in case the unprepared happens to him. Obviously you can’t just leave a marriage because one party is giving unpleasant body language, u still need to understand the reason for their action and see how to make things work. But then, don’t get caught off track in case every approach fails. Prepare for the worst even as you try to make things work. luminouz: 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by E2000: 8:29pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Notfogotten:It depends if you beat her up and she sues you and refuses to back down you are finished. You will first go to Jail then your documents will be revoked and then you will be asked to go back to Nigeria to take a chill. |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Quebec91(m): 8:32pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
You wise bro! Sense🧠 no go ever leave you Japa no be rushing things, follow your mind and go when time's right Even Tinubu no fit push me to run away Ahmed0336: 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by ssogundele(m): 8:39pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: Sodiki! Even for here self(naija), Dem dey show us shege not to talk of getting to those countries that empower them to uped their shege to pro max 1 Like |
Re: JAPA: My Marriage Shakes by Harddiskng(m): 8:40pm On Dec 26, 2023 |
PDJT: They no dey tell person. you know how some women think, the guy has started showing her with gifts, cash and better nacks in her little mind; he is better than her husband but you and I already know it would end in premium tears and regret 6 Likes 1 Share |
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