Grow together and glow together.

Motivational speaker isonu. You moved from an uncompleted building in Agbado Oja to Magodo? You no poor, bro.

It can only get better...

Mumu woman, suffering with a broke Nigerian man is a total waste of time.
Tufikwa......
It can never be me

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

The question is, where do you belong...

DissTroy:


A few exceptions do not negate the validity of a rule or theory.

Our women have commercialised even the most basic of intergender interactions which aren't intimate or romantic, as something as commonplace as constant interactions is seen as an opportunity to fleece or extort. Even casual male friends are extorted from or fleeced, not to mention men they are in sexual and/or romantic relationships with.

Have I experienced good women? Yes. Have I been with or still with relatively selfless ones? Yes. Still, my experience, just like the example posted by the OP, doesn't negate the more common experiences of most Nigerian men.

In other words, women should never leave their female daughters alone with their fathers since the few decent men that exist doesn't negate the theory that most men are perverts.

Can you be like that lady

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

This is rare not the norm now....

Dem feminist gang like Iyabo, Tontih, Chika, Genevive, Adunni, Kemi,chacha, Emma etc won't see this as good example mbanu.

God bless you dude, proud of you both.

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

Shame on their empty heads.

Siofra, magnolia, Jennyclay come and see.




As for Shalommy, it seems lizards do not marry.

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

The average Nigerian girl sees relationship as a means to escape poverty. They see it as poverty alleviation center. So what are u saying? What are you bragging about for? The woman would have made money before meeting the man nau.

Sadly the average Nigerian girl has absolutely nothing to write home about

money121:

A Nigerian couple has caused a stir with their transformation photos after living in an uncompleted building for 3 years after marriage.

Simisola responded to a netizen who asked individuals to explain growth with two photos by sharing these motivational images.

In response to inquisitive online users, Simisola stated that the 2020 photo was shot, and the older one was taken in 2017.

She claims they were married in 2020, went through difficult times, and are now parents to two children. She remembered that they were penniless and had lodged in an uncompleted building.

According to her:

“No never, we got married in 2020 and now with 2 children. “It (the first picture) was from 2017, One of my weight loss students just paid 3,000naira for a meal plan and we were happy food don set for the week. “We were outside one of his uncles’ house at Abule Oko at Agbado Oja.

“The man gave us one of his empty buildings because my hubstar relocated to Lagos from Nassarawa where he sold off his chicken farm because we started our relationship. Anyways, we lived there till we had money to get a place in Magodo.”

Source: https://Gistmeloveblog.com

lalasticlala, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

The kind of woman that understands what marriage should be. Hard times and goods times come in marriage. Hope when tough time comes, they wont tag it toxic marriage and run out to find soft times elsewhere ?

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

It made news because it isn't common.

emmy512:
Where’s the latest photo or that of where they reside now

I can see growth in their body but since they’re using house to show make them show us current house make i motivate small

She sey na magodo dem dey stay now.

emmy512:
Where’s the latest photo or that of where they reside now

I can see growth in their body but since they’re using house to show make them show us current house make i motivate small

Are you Thomas?

Until you see the current house before you believe they have made progress

Na this kind thing I bin struggle for ,because I bin get girl wey struggle with me,we even stay one dilapidated house and I had the photo in my laptop,but bad advice and fish brain no make am patient.Everywhere stew now .

Good

Nigerian women that will stand by you in your times of low tide hmmm well sha

Impressive

Laird:


So because of love and marriage ( extra responsibility), he sold off his chicken farm ( we were not told if it was doing well or not) and came to Lagos because of woman and was sleeping in uncompleted building

The story doesn't add up 1 bit. Also what steps did they take to upgrade. Dis his uncle or anyone help him or he suddenly hit one contract ( rare occurrence)

Story is so vague and unclear and left out so many important details for us to conclude

Story seems fake

Where is the full interview?

Why is there no link to the interview when you click on the blog link?

How was the information sourced?

Where's the growth

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

Dey play! she is one in a million.

bonnyhope:


Are you Thomas?

Until you see the current house before you believe they have made progress

Please

This is almost 2024 and someone is using 2020 photo to show growth.

Do I need to be Thomas to want to see a more recent photo or one that relates to their foemer condition?

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

Maybe If she has the physical beauty it takes to attract a rich man she won't suffer with the man.

Seems ladies who are not too physically attractive have the tendency to patch with a guy.

My opinion tho but nevertheless, it was her choice so let her not blackmail the guy tomorrow with the "I wS there for you" talks if the guy decides to have another lady.

Foodqueen:
Where is the picture of the house they are living now.

Post yours first.

There is renewed hope for Helinues 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Your problem no be poverty.... Na hunger....hunger and poverty combined never sees anything positive.

Would you have been happy if the man was an armed right bber or the women an ashawo?

LikeAking:
Nonsense!

Benbisco:
All the men on nairaland that have concluded that Nigerian ladies are nothing to write home about and are a complete waste of time, because thier antenna dey only get reception only near men with fat wallets, una don see this post?

First ask yourself the question. Can you do what the lady did?

Aren’t you after the most successful men?
Can you marry a sincere man that hasn’t made it yet but still struggling and living a substandard life?

DissTroy:


A few exceptions do not negate the validity of a rule or theory.

Our women have commercialised even the most basic of intergender interactions which aren't intimate or romantic, as something as commonplace as constant interactions is seen as an opportunity to fleece or extort. Even casual male friends are extorted from or fleeced, not to mention men they are in sexual and/or romantic relationships with.

Have I experienced good women? Yes. Have I been with or still with relatively selfless ones? Yes. Still, my experience, just like the example posted by the OP, doesn't negate the more common experiences of most Nigerian men.

Infact exceptions proves the rule. The percentage of Nigerian ladies who helped their men achieved their dreams and potentials from the days of hunger and hopelessness is just 0.001%

Out of 280 million people only 200 women or less than 200, can boast of that is that not 0.001%